10 DTF Signs You Can Bank On

So, in the spirit of being called a chauvinist simply becasue I want to help other guys get laid with a variety of women, here is a bit of field tested signs that the girl you're taking on a date or just meeting up with is NOT the type of girl you should avoid if you're just looking for casual sex. I never write in absolutes, I write in what has 90% been the case for me. I also will always denote when I haven't actually proven through experience that something works. Girls, if nothing else, this can give you insight into some of the things crafty guys take as a cue to go for sex on the first date.

- "I Don't Do Hookups"

10 DTF SIGNS YOU CAN BANK ON

My personal favorite. A girl who says she doesn't do hookups, does hook ups. It is on her mind...hooking up. It is a part of her experience. I honestly don't know why it is, but more girls who say they don't do hookups to me end up doing hookups than girls who say they aren't opposed to hooking up. Go figure...

- No mention of being on her Period

10 DTF Signs You Can Bank On

The Period shut down is a time honored tradition. A woman can claim to be on her period and even if you say that you are still interested in sex, she can simply say she's not. Sometimes a woman is on her period...many times she's not. Yet, if you don't hear anything about a period...then that is a very good sign to engage. Obviously, she could just not be into this particular shut down method, yet again I've found the majority of girls who don't mention anything about being on a period don't usually have another shutdown technique and more than 90% of the time have casual, immediate sex.

- She comes into your place without hesitating first

10 DTF Signs You Can Bank On

Yes, I know...you honestly just wanted to watch Netflix, right? Again, if she doesn't show any hesitation to come to your place, I've found to be a great indicator that she is going to say yes to quick sex.

- She doesn't question you when, after she asks you what you're planning on doing when the two of you hangout, you just say "chilling"

10 DTF Signs You Can Bank On

Maybe this question is a way of screening out guys who want to have sex. "Chilling" is the laziest way you can hide your intentions. Yet, if a girl let's this slide, it's reasonable to assume she's ok with your plans to bed her...if only a little.

- Tattoos

10 DTF Signs You Can Bank On

So wrong to say, but so on point. Never met a girl with a tattoo that was against casual sex. Doesn't need to be over her ass.

- She has a boyfriend

10 DTF Signs You Can Bank On

Girls are very tactful and focused with their cheating. If she has a boyfriend, it's usually her intention to sleep with you and stay with him and him never to find out and you to be left in the dust which is fine with you because you got what you wanted. You're usually the opposite of her boyfriend and he's usually done something shitty to her to make her want to take out her anger by sleeping with you. Yet, whatever is going on between them it's not going to end. Just be happy with the quick sex and move on. Also, be careful. Sleeping with other guy's girlfriends is not for the danger-averse.

- She's willing to drink around you

10 DTF Signs You Can Bank On

Girls usually know what's up. One drink can be the difference between a horny girl who doesn't act on her libido and a horny girl who does. If she's fine with this possibility, it's likely she's fine with sleeping with you or otherwise she'd refrain.

- She has hooked up in the past

10 DTF Signs You Can Bank On

A leopord doesn't often change it's spots. Even if she regretted hooking up, it's kind of like when we guys feel like losers for masterbating...we're going to do it again anyway. Having sex with you will probably illicit self-disgust in this instance, but this ain't your problem, G.

- She doesn't bother to wear makeup/she wears sweats (UNPROVEN!)

10 DTF Signs You Can Bank On

People on this side don't like to read the fine print. THIS IS NOT SOMETHING I HAVE EXPERIENCED IN DEPTH. Yet, I've heard from many guys and girls that if a girl is wearing sweats and a visible thong...it's likely she's down to give you easy access. Sometimes a girl just needs to get it in...

- She jokes about your "other girls"

10 DTF Signs You Can Bank On

If she jokes that you forgot some detail like her age or her favorite color that you "talk to your other girls" then it is likely she's ok with the strong possiblity that you are a "player." If she really likes you (this can be death to the guy looking to hook up as she'll make you wait for "the real thing") then it is unlikely she'd want to think about you talking to other girls. If she's still joking about it, then you have time to hook up with her before she catches really strong feelings. Let's see some hustle.

Gag users don't do much right in my opinion. But they do hate on each other in very creative ways. I'm excited to see if this somehow pisses someone off. I'd also love it if guys who like to have sex with many girls would give me feedback on what they've found to work/not work. Oh, and I can't forget my guys who love to hate on sexually liberated women and probably think every woman displayed in this Take is digusting and yet they get with no women...

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  • Wow, what an enormous pile of steaming bullshit.

    Let's just simplify this: Girls I have slept with and the things I think were signs.

    Just bull, the hesitation - because a woman doesn't think you're a lying creep then she wants to fuck you? The tattoo things - how old are you man? You sound like a divorcee desperate to find any reason or sign to allow you to hit on a woman and assume she is easy. All the points that followed are shite too, she drinks around you? So EVERY woman in a bar is easy? Fuck off. I take back all credit I ever gave you for having some intelligence, I was swayed by your literacy but it was misplaced credit indeed.

    • calm down woman

    • How are you an editor? This is garbage. What are the requirements for an editor, must be able to spell own name and use paragraphs?

    • This is antagonistic for sure, that's all it is. @girlsaskguys are you going to allow this to be left up when it is obviously meant to antagonise?

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  • "I never write in absolutes"

    "Never met a girl with a tattoo that was against casual sex."

    This topic has potential, but the way you write makes you come across as too much of a douche for me to take you seriously.

    • I never claim absolutes. You should read.

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  • Return of Kings wants their article back.

  • Haha what a load of bullshit...

    • Go troll somewhere else

  • LMAOOOO... so wrong on so many points. One in particular; if I dress like shit, it means I DON'T wanna sleep with you. Just means I wanna chill and watch a movie or something. Girls dress to attract, it's in our dna. Why the hell would I try to attract a guy for sex by wearing PJ's? I wouldn't..

    • don't

  • oh my god this is killing me like

    BASED ON THIS ARTICLE YOU'RE BEING TOLD YOU'RE ONE DRINK AWAY FROM BEING A RAPIST

    you don't even have to be physically near anyone to be accused of being a rapist anymore bc of this new wave feminism bullshit bologna THIS ENRAGES ME

    she's assuming you're a rapist because you wrote this article to piss bullshit women like her off AND GD IT WORKED SO GOOD you got the feminist to cry sexual assault based on an article

    ffs no wonder it's so difficult for women and men who are actually raped/assaulted to be believed - look at how quick these bitches jump on the rapist/assault train smh

    seriously the article isn't as vicious as she's making it, so wth have you done to these women to make them so angry lmao

    let me guess: she followed you on gag, messaged you bc she was thirsty, and you ignored her obvious advances? sounds like someone had a crush and it didn't work out the way they wanted it to :( so sad

  • This was really dumb... basically all you said is "if she doesn't outright say NO, she is DTF... but even if she says she's not DTF, she probably is".

    It's this mentality that often leads to sexual assault, because young men believe garbage like "no means yes" and "if she's drinking, she wants the D".

    • just because a guy "goes for it" doesn't mean he sexually assaults her. It just means he's taking a shot that could backfire because of a signal.

    • Yes, and I am not accusing any guy who decides to follow these "signals" of sexual assault, but I am saying that it is this MENTALITY that can lead to sexual assault.

    • fair enough

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  • This take is heavily based on generalisations and is way too pressumptuous to take seriously.

    • that's the point of a sign... its not supposed to be 100% accurate it's just a good sign why is that hard to process? because it's fun to think that I'm a dumb douchebag?

  • Or, how about, we don't assume that a girl wants to have sex until you ask her and she says yes?

    Because nothing but an enthusiastic "yes" replaces consent.

    • nothing less sexy than asking a girl if you can have sex with her

    • Consent is pretty sexy if you ask me.

    • He's awful at talking dirty, apparently.

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  • Haha this is actually pretty good... a little dubious about some but overall this is pretty true...

    • which ones are dubious?

    • The tattoo one and the sweatpants one but you already said the sweatpants one hasn't been proven:)

  • What? Seriously? Really?

    Just because a woman has a tattoo doesn't mean that she wants to. My old math teacher also never mentioned she was on her period but guess what... we never had sex. And the other signs are dodgy at best. Follow this and you'll probably find your ass in jail for rape.

    Just use common sense and feel moment. Not just your own moment but hers as well.

    • how is going for it the same as assault on not saying take any tatted girl and try Jesus it's obviously just telling if the girl you're seeing is open to that

  • Please for the love of double chocolate cake, I hope this take was facetious.

    If it wasn't, you are either very stupid or have no game at all.

  • This is fucking idiotic.

  • I don't understand how having a tattoo means you're okay with casual sex? Or not mentioning that you're on your period? What about those girls that just don't like to announce that they're on their on their period... Same with the boyfriend thing? You can talk to other guys with the intention of friendship and not cheating. I'm not even hating, I'm just genuinely confused...

  • I love #5 the tattoo, women think a tramp stamp is a tatt above the butt.

    Most men regard a tattoo anywhere on a females body, as a tramp stamp.

    • lol at the girls hating probably have tattoos and are dtf

  • I've done and said some of this stuff but it never lead to sex.

    Drink around a guy? Yes
    Mention my period? No
    "I don't do hookups." I seriously don't do hookups.

    • you drink alone with a guy and you'd think him wrong to make a move on you?

    • See, author thinks that alcohol means he can fuck her. If that doesn't scream coerced sexual exploitation I don't know what does. You're one spritzer away from an assault charge.

  • i think its funny how the guys who dont take girls on dates (Me)
    dont get laid, i might just ask the next girl i meet up with to chill and watch netflix, it will save my time money and effort
    seriously dude, i think you are right about a lot of things and that pisses me off...

    Many girls will feel offended by reading this because, it mirrors some of the things they do...

    sad but true, just gonna invite girls over to chill and watch netflix, i will just give the yankee tickets to my brother and his girlfriend... sigh...

    • I got the snacks you got the netflix, lets do this!!!

    • OMG SERIOUSLY!!! ITS ALREADY WORKING @TakeOwner lol!! @Print , haha oh geez i am flattered, but i still can't be this type of guy... i just get a little discouraged when the girls i am dating would prefer a guy like the one mentioned above, over me, and it happens all the time All girls have to say about me is that i am fun and cute, and that the girl who ends up with me is going to be lucky etc And i am just stuck here... feeling sorry for myself while she goes for some lazy bum who is just gonna have sex with her. Why? i dont know... i dont know why a girl would do that it makes no sense to me thats why good men dont want anything to do with most women #RantOver Sorry @Print lol, needed to get that off my chest :)

    • No no no not like that I meant just watching Netflix...

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  • - "I Don't Do Hookups"

    That might be true if they are dishonest with themselves. If they said "I don't have sex with random people", I'd be more inclined to believe them.

    - No mention of being on her Period

    Girls typically don't talk about their period, to be honest. Only if you're friends. Very good friends.

    - She comes into your place without hesitating first

    That might just mean they are naive... well, who knows their intention. Don't rape girls just because they are in your house, though.

    - She doesn't question you when, after she asks you what you're planning on doing when the two of you hangout, you just say "chilling"

    I think this is a false assumption, it only works if they also have sex on the plate of their mind.

    - Tattoos

    Might increase the chances of them being a "free individual who does whatever they want", so I am actually inclined to agree. I would never get a tattoo, it takes a particular type of person to get one. I know someone who has tattoos and is a cheater, but that doesn't mean every tattoo holder is a cheater, ya know? Some just think it looks pretty or something.

    - She has hooked up in the past

    Yeah.

    - She doesn't bother to wear makeup/she wears sweats (UNPROVEN!)

    This sounds completely incorrect. The girls who are into casual stuff like displaying off their makeup skills. This is a NOPE.

    - She jokes about your "other girls"

    ... maybe?

    • Agreed, basically this take is a generalization and simplifies shit with no claims. That's like saying all genuinely nice guys are clingy, needy, and desperate pushovers with no self esteem.

    • @bloodmountain1990 yeah, the funny thing is that those guys aren't genuine. They're in it to make the girl indebted to them and making them pay back with their relationship; which essentially means devotion, dedication, love, and their life. To be fair, these guys get the ideas from the shitty movies that portray women as if they were some kind of reward.

    • True but you're talking about the self proclaimed nice guys, meaning the guys who say they're nice and act entitled because of it. They'll do nice things only to expect something in return and then call women bitches when they don't like them back. Those guys are the superficial ones. I was talking about the guys who are themselves, genuinely nice and get told they're the nicest guys but they still have bad luck with women and tend to get lumped in with the self proclaimed, not genuine nice guys as you described.

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  • What did I just read?
    "But they do hate on each other in very creative ways. I'm excited to see if this somehow pisses someone off" I'm seriously wondering if the sole purpose of this take was just to annoy people, in which case it worked very well.

    Tbh I only stayed for the pictures.

  • I honestly think nowadays most girls have had at least a few hookups so I think a lot of the girls who say "I Don't Do Hookups" really mean "I don't do hookups with you" however they have likely hooked up in the past but now they want you to take her out on dates and wait for the sex while her previous partners got it right away.

    • There are people who were promiscuous at a point but changed their ways because they don't want that reputation. However, there are guys that are hypocrites who want a girl to put out quick but once they do, they're still deemed a slut and not relationship material. Doesn't that make the guy a slut too?

    • @bloodmountain1990 I realize that but it doesn't change the fact that they were easy. They were easy for everyone else and now when you meet them they are hard to get. Guys don't get turned off because a girl put out on the first date, they get turned off by the Assumption. Example: Sally meets Bob and has sex on the first date (The Act). Bob is thrilled about getting sex on the first date but assumes that Sally has slept with lots of other men (Asumption)

    • True and while I'm not one to slut shame, the whole reason that the stud/slut double standard exists is because of how easy it is for women to get laid compared to guys. If a girl is decent looking enough goes out to look for a hook up, 99% of the time a guy will say yes. The same can't be said for a guy even if he's decent or really good looking. He also has to be convincing and be great with words.

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  • "Gag users don't do much right in my opinion. But they do hate on each other in very creative ways. I'm excited to see if this somehow pisses someone off. I'd also love it if guys who like to have sex with many girls would give me feedback on what they've found to work/not work. Oh, and I can't forget my guys who love to hate on sexually liberated women and probably think every woman displayed in this Take is digusting and yet they get with no women..."

    lol, love that part.

  • You seem pretty well on point with everything except the tattoos one. I know lots of women with tats that won't put out fast. And I'm not saying your wrong, I'm just saying we know different people lol. keep on smashing bro ;)

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