Why Does Shit Turn You On?

Why Does Shit Turn You On?

Why are people into what they're into sexually? It may seem really confusing when you get into the details...

Some straight women like femme-femme lesbian porn. Some lesbian women like gay porn. Some straight men don't like girl-on-girl so much even though girl-on-girl has more girl in it. Some straight guys hate romantic porn with lots of eye contact (or anything with James Deen in it) even though romantic porn is still technically straight porn. Some gay men get turned on by butch-femme lesbian porn. It doesn't make any sense... or does it?

The reason it doesn't make sense is that we assume that our taste in porn is based on our sexual orientation when in reality it's based on our perspective. In order to get into porn physically, you have to get into it mentally. The character whose dick is getting stroked or whose pussy is getting eaten... you're that character. And as you see that character getting turned on, you get turned on. The difference between getting into a porn and not getting into porn is the difference between you getting turned on and you feeling left out. When I watch a romantic porn, I don't feel like I am James Deen. I feel like I am sitting in the corner looking at James Deen and wondering why he's having so much sex and I'm not. When I watch gay porn, I don't imagine how good tight butthole feels. I imagine how awkward and uncomfortable I would feel in that situation if someone were trying to put something up my butt. Like a doctor's exam, but worse. But when I watch straight male porn, it's like I am that vague and nondescript guy and all the good things that are happening to his dick are being felt by me. It's not the fact that the porn is straight, but the fact that my perspective - the perspective that I empathise with - that it is being catered to.

So what about other genders or sexual orientations? Same thing. When a lesbian watches an effeminate woman running her tongue around the edges of another effeminate woman's pussy, she's not imagining how good it feels to have a tongue on her pussy. She's not seeing things from the perspective of the characters that the actors are playing. She's seeing things from the perspective of an outsider - of someone who is witnessing two uneducated straight women who are too poor to make ends meet working a descent job performing oral sex on each other out of desperation for someone else's entertainment, and she likely finds it offensive. To put it simply - she is not "in the porn". On the other hand, when a lesbian woman sees a huge cock going into another guy's tiny butthole... she may actually feel "in the porn". She might see the effeminate gay man with the big dick and think - that's my sex. Whatever pleasure that guy feels is what the viewer feels. So it's not about what the viewer's sexual orientation is. It's about whose perspective the viewer can see things from and fantasize about.

So if you're a lesbian woman who likes guy-on-guy porn, does that mean you love men? No. If you're a straight woman who likes girl-on-girl, does it mean you love women? No. If you're a straight man who finds the notion of a deep and platonic love between two women that they cannot express for one another due to the cruelty of their society, if a guy that to be sort of arousing, does that mean he's gay? No. If you're a gay man who finds the notion of a big butch woman inserting a massive dildo into a cute little pretty girl to be hot, does that mean you want to hook up with chicks? Probably not. Porn* is not about your sexual orientation - it's about your perspective and the perspective that you can empathize with. It's about your empathy perspective.

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  • James deen is a favourite for many.

  • Yea James deen is hot and he has a long dick
    He is the only whore I would let fuck me

    • No. He has an average dick. Bruce Venture has a long dick.

    • I don't even mess with white men He is the only white man I would mess with

    • You go black?

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