Girls on Tinder do smash. A lot!

[Anonymous]

I am a student in sexology and we did a research in sexual behavior on Tinder.

It's something we can't deny that it has a big impact on many people's sex lives. We asked questions to 300 guys and 300 girls who use tinder about their sexual experiences. They were easy to find since it seems to be extremely popular with people from ages 18 to 35! Here are some results that surprised me.

- Unlike I thought, 240 of the 300 girls actually had sex through tinder! Only less than 50 of the 300 men, which is remarkable.

- When we asked for numbers to the people that did have sex: Girls did it on average less than the few guys that did. That means that a couple guys score with almost al the women.

- These men do however show a lot of similarities: Muscular, well-endowed relaxed and (surprise!) a little beerbelly? The girls described the men's attractive personal traids as "they know what they want and don't hold back to take it."

- The opening lines that worked, were often extremely flat but to the point. One that seemed to work was just "wanna smash".

- It appears that these dates where sex was involved were mostly not related with hopes for relationships, just casual sex. The sex in most cases happened on a first date or even just immediately at someones place.

- The terms that came up most to describe the sex were: emotionless, hard, wild, fast, fun, physical and although that wasn't our question, doggystyle (lol). They rated their sexual encounters almost always as very good (other options were bad, mediocre, good). Many even said their best sexual experience is through tinder.

- Neither girls nor guys regretted the sex afterwards, but almost all girls like to keep it a secret, or with very close friends. Many guys liked to share their stories in detail. (not so surprising maybe)

- Something negative: Around 50 women admitted to have cheated through Tinder. Very few guys have. In almost all cases, the partner doesn't have a clue.

- Something positive: Almost everyone agreed that Tinder is a very positive influence on their sex lives.

So it seems that a lot of girls show more sexual interest than we thought. Also it seems (and not only through tinder) that women are, and this is increasing fast, daring to admit that they really enjoy casual sex without emotions and prefer certain guys simply for that purpose. This is a very posivive evolution for sexual/mental health. The number of women cheating however (this is also discovered through other researches) is also increasing VERY fast, and it is becoming less and less taboo, which in my eyes is a little shocking. The cheating doesn't mainly happen through tinder though, but apparently mostly at work with a boss or superior figure.

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[Bandit74]

Exactly why girls are having trouble finding guys interested in relationships.

Why do I want to spend the time taking a girl on dates for a month when she had pornstar style sex on the first date with a random guy they met on tinder.

Girls generally have higher standards for the guys they hook up with than they do for the guys they seriously date. Guys are more willing to lower their standards so it's not surprising that the small group of guys who are the most desirable would get most of the hookups.

[alphadoggystyle]

yeah hypergamy is an awful thing, it worked it old society when women had less rights and more men where capable of having something to bargain with women for sex. Now since sex for women doesn't really have value, and feminist society makes it very difficult for men to gain anything to bargain with girls for sex, most guys are simply not interesting enough for women.

I mean hypergamy simply doesn't work in a feminist society, but you cannot change biology, and if this continues, more and more men are going to hate women, and loving relationships will be a thing of the past, because i dont know any sane guy who could actually love a woman if he knew that she had smashed lots of guys in the upper 20% and only settled with him because she wasn't good enough to secure any of those upper level guys for a relationship. How could anyone love a girl who settles for you after she realizes that her own value is not represented by what kind of guys she can have sex with, but rather what kind of guy she can keep. If women knew this from the beginning they might decide to not smash the top guys in secret before settling down.

[redeyemindtricks]

Lol, I'm tempted to set up a profile as a social experiment. My husband would think it was hilarious.

[Kirah]

"- Unlike I thought, 240 of the 300 girls actually had sex through tinder! Only less than 50 of the 300 men, which is remarkable."

This is pretty much common knowledge at this point, and also clear proof for the idea that women can get laid and get dates much more easily than men.

[TripleAce]

Not surprised, Women just try to pretend there not like that... they like to blame men about being perverts and this and that.. but the reality is there worse just more discreet. Men are not discreet so its more bold

[tyber1]

So every time someone comes on here and talks about how 20% of men get 80% of the women they are basically telling the truth? Disappointing...

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

Yeah, it shows that sociological civilization is coming to an end and people are more willing to pursue their primal urges. Minority of the males getting to mate all the females. Just like any other animal species that live with packs. Back to the nature, we're becoming smart apes with technology and losing our humanity by disregarding our social rules and ethics.

[AleDeEurope]

I'm not surprised at all by what you said, given that almost every time a woman swipes right, she's getting a match, while guys have a very very low percentage to get a match.

Though I don't know who you are and how reliable you are, maybe you're just throwing out random facts and trolling us all. You should have shown prove about who you are and/or this study.

[Watermelonoma]

sooo basically a fraction of guys are getting their dicks very wet, very often

[Transigence]

This isn't especially good news for guys. It just means that women only want the best of the best, but men will be happy to oblige. Most men aren't getting laid, and it's not them who are turning down the women.

Women are in very high social demand for sex and are just loving the ride. Men (except for the most physically fit) are just left out to dry.

Just like before Tinder. Tinder just reveals it.

[Jager66]

This kinda makes you wonder about future STD trends, like a few guys with STD's and tons of women with them. Kinda makes me worry a lot more about catching something from the women I see, yikes!! I wonder how long it will take for common opinions to be that women are dirty and full of STD's because you know that is where this is going...

Or a few hundred guys having kids with thousands of single moms, single moms are terrible for society! This trend might have been fine in a tribal community for what ever reason but in the modern world it's a recipe for disaster.

Not to mention the problems that are caused when a large group of a cultures men finds them selves disenfranchised, especially when it comes to women. Likely we will see a lot more violence, war or men just giving up and opting out of society until it all collapses from the lack of male participation and burden of single mothers. Plenty of evidence this is all happening right now.

This reminds me of another study I read a while back, I'll sum it up quickly. They took turns giving a group of male then female children a supply of resources, I think it was candy of some kind, then they told them they could trade the candies for stuff or something...
Anyway when the boys were in charge of the candy, everyone, more or less, got an equal share. When the girls were in charge of the candy a few boys got most of it, most boys and a few girls got a small portion and a small group of girls got zero.

[tomeposer]

Reeding this makes me wanna commit suicide (as a guy who isn't in the top 20%). It's almost impossible for "normal" men to get a girlfriend now, when most of the girls can just log on Tinder and hook up with a hot guy in matter of seconds.

[BigJake]

I love sex, but I don't really respect Tinder whores (guys or girls) because they all seem so classless, like they'd fuck a statue if they thought it'd give them a better orgasm.

[the_rake]

Yes it's true: most women's natural aversion is towards polygyny - the most high status 20% of the male population tend to sleep with 80% of women. This is because women are hypergamous by nature.

[ThisDudeHere]

And then women continue on saying that they have it just as hard as guys do when it comes to getting sex or dates...

[Scrambledagain]

You women piss off sometimes with your ignorance. It's the most duh thing that more women would have sex. In any given environment a girl if they choose to will get sex. Guys don't have this luxury.

[higgsboson]

And no red pill man learned anything new. Anyone who denies the red pill (a) benefits from waiting betas, (b) likes living in the unreal Disney fantasy, (c) can't deal with facts, or (d) has a white knight savior complex fostered by mothers, sisters, and fake romance films. Either way, they deserve all the hurt coming their way, as they chose it for themselves.

[dudeman]

this is the 80-20 rule. 20 percent of the men get 80% of the women. remember men never seriously date a women over 23. if you can't lock one down early then she's not worth doing it latter.

[wOWZERS43]

Dude this is obvious, the top percentile of men (handsome and fit) get laid the most, huge shocker.

The bottom 70-80 percent or so get nothing, but you ladies still want to get married in your late 20's early 30's. No one likes being "settled" for just because you couldn't get a top tier guy to commit.

[DiegoO]

Tinder sounds like crap to me and It's very dangerous. Rapist, murderers can easily use it to commit their crimes and I don't see how It can be something positive, plus It don't gives that interaction you need to know well the person whit who you are having sex whit. I would rather go to a bar or some night club, socialize, have a good time and see what comes up instead of using any social media to do that.

[Blueeyes81]

What I take from this. If your a woman, tinder is good. If your a man, you'll be just as frustrated as in real life.

[FakeName123]

What would be interesting to hear is the common scientific knowledge that men and women have different ways of estimate their numbers. Men generally exaggerate while women understate. So the difference should be even bigger.

That being said, Tinder is a place for hookups and thus only a certain demographic moves there. Interesting nonetheless.

[zagor]

WTF when did "smash" become a term for screwing? Is this another British thing like shag?

[canadianLAD]

everyone on tinder is looking for some surfer white boy to fuck.

[GirlsLie]

"- Unlike I thought, 240 of the 300 girls actually had sex through tinder! Only less than 50 of the 300 men, which is remarkable."

Remarkable? That women can get laid easier than men? Who would have guessed!

Tinder creeps me out honestly.

[RachelBrigs]

I'm a bit confused. Of every 300 female tinder users 240 have sex with tinder dates but only 50 of every 300 male users do the same- who are the girls having sex with?

[LaurenGrace]

Quite a few girls i know have had lots of sex that they werent getging till they joined tinder
. you'll be suprised how many of that 20% group of guys are up to smash with a married women and do mfm with her an husband #

[mistixs]

This sounds interesting but if you were really a student in sexology wouldn't you put this into a peer reviewed journal & not anonymously put it on girlsaskguys? I mean, if this in a peer reviewed journal I'd be really interested to see!

[tattooedhandfet]

So it's a good thing that women wanna use you men just solely for fucking? I don't understand... because I didn't think the guys would wanna get used considering the stats (less than 50)

[Starfishlover]

I don't need tinder. I get picked up left, right and centre... in real life :)

[Betwyn]

I'm soo glad I don't have a Smart phone..

I don't think I'd trust myself with access to Snap Chat and Tinder lol

[Rcjh1987]

tinder sounds like a setup to disaster. I've never or will use it.

[BellePepper]

DO you have any sources?

[LittleSally]

Haha Hilarious...

[zombiebabe]

yea... tinder is used to hookup...

[Anonymous]

You guys are fucking retarded. This is clearly bullshit and typed by a male troll or someone who drank so much koolaid they needed to make up this shit.

You idiots actually believe a woman would go to a stranger's apartment (or invite then over) and not be concerned for her safety? The amount of things you dumbasses believe beyond that rather obvious one is impressive.

You are easier to sucker than an octogenarian getting an email that says a Prince of Namibia needs to transfer 2 million dollars to their account.

This is why you have girl problems. You're a fucking idiot.

[Anonymous]

You are a student, and you don't know how to spell personality "trait" correctly? And your entire "study" sounds like a scam to help guys dream of their ideal world. There will never come a time when girls will seek casual sex without benefits. Even if they cheat, they will do it with someone of a better or equal status to the one they are currently in a relationship with, because it's too stupid to do otherwise.

[Anonymous]

You're anonymous doing a "self administered" survey. Skepticism engaged...

[Anonymous]

If you're on Tinder, you should be embarrassed of yourself. I have too much dignity as a human being to even try something like that.