I'm so sick of these questions. I'm going to deal with the issue hopefully once and for all:
Does the size of your penis matter to a woman?
OF COURSE IT MATTERS! They have eyes don't they? Some are going to like big some are going to like average heck some are going to like small. They are turned on by the look, shape, and size of your penis just like you are with the size of their boobs. In terms of hook up culture, guys who are big obviously have an advantage as it has (dumbly) seen as a sign of ultimate masculinity just like bigger breasts are seen as more womanly. Of course, just like some men like girls with small boobs or in my case medium so does the spectrum of what a woman wants spread far across the spectrum of available penis sizes. The only difference is that a majority of the time a woman can't see your dick before hand so they're occasionally suprised and/or excited and/or dissapointed.
If you're big then of course be happy but since you've never not been big it's likely you'll just be like ok cool I can probably use this to intimidate other guys. If you're small then yes just like an ugly guy just like a fat guy you will find girls who are just complete jerks and say absolutely not to you but the real issue is going to be the insecurity which should go away when you realize it doesn't matter that much. Skill and emotional connection are far more important and size is just icing OR if a girl is SPECIFICALLY LOOKING FOR A HUNG GUY. Yes, women talk about guys with big penises to their girlfriends with excitement and a little nervousness. But do you really want to be some male sexual object or do you want to be a man? A man is what he does, how he behaves, what he thinks of himself and others not the way he looks. If you want to be a stripper or a porn star then that sucks for you but if you just want to have great sex with a lot of women...
I'd say IT'S ACTUALLY BETTER TO BE AVERAGE because some girls just won't want to have sex with a guy who is huge or will be too freaked out/in pain to enjoy it. I personally get thrown by girls with incredibly huge tits. it seems odd to me that they're naturally built like their mom and dad wanted them to be in a porno. Also, GIRLS DONT WATCH PORN AS MUCH AS WE DO so they're not expecting some 9 inch monster (in general.) when women complain about sex it's almost always because
- He didn't know what he was doing (meaning doubted himself because sex is up to you so you can't really lose unless you don't trust your instincts)
- He was too soft (nice guy classic move obv)
- He was too emotionaless/i felt used (bad boy classic move obv)
It's NOT that he was too small. that happens in very rare unfortunate cases.
But how do I have confidence that my penis is great and women love it?
Because you have confidence that you're great and women love YOU. It's the man that makes hte penis what it is not the penis that makes the man. Besides the obvious things physical endurance, stamina, experience, connection...the thing that makes some guys good and some guys bad is that some guys focus on their orgasm only (bad) the woman's orgasm only (bad) and a few focus on both orgasms together (good) so you thinking about your penis size instead of focusing on what a beautiful wonderful girl she is, is actually selfish on your part. It's actually more selfish than the belief that I have the best dick ever capable of giving countless women countless orgasms because at least i'm concentrating on more than just myself.
Ok, rant over.
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