Not Another Penis Size Matters Post!

I'm so sick of these questions. I'm going to deal with the issue hopefully once and for all:

Does the size of your penis matter to a woman?

Not Another Penis Size Matters Post!

OF COURSE IT MATTERS! They have eyes don't they? Some are going to like big some are going to like average heck some are going to like small. They are turned on by the look, shape, and size of your penis just like you are with the size of their boobs. In terms of hook up culture, guys who are big obviously have an advantage as it has (dumbly) seen as a sign of ultimate masculinity just like bigger breasts are seen as more womanly. Of course, just like some men like girls with small boobs or in my case medium so does the spectrum of what a woman wants spread far across the spectrum of available penis sizes. The only difference is that a majority of the time a woman can't see your dick before hand so they're occasionally suprised and/or excited and/or dissapointed.

If you're big then of course be happy but since you've never not been big it's likely you'll just be like ok cool I can probably use this to intimidate other guys. If you're small then yes just like an ugly guy just like a fat guy you will find girls who are just complete jerks and say absolutely not to you but the real issue is going to be the insecurity which should go away when you realize it doesn't matter that much. Skill and emotional connection are far more important and size is just icing OR if a girl is SPECIFICALLY LOOKING FOR A HUNG GUY. Yes, women talk about guys with big penises to their girlfriends with excitement and a little nervousness. But do you really want to be some male sexual object or do you want to be a man? A man is what he does, how he behaves, what he thinks of himself and others not the way he looks. If you want to be a stripper or a porn star then that sucks for you but if you just want to have great sex with a lot of women...

I'd say IT'S ACTUALLY BETTER TO BE AVERAGE because some girls just won't want to have sex with a guy who is huge or will be too freaked out/in pain to enjoy it. I personally get thrown by girls with incredibly huge tits. it seems odd to me that they're naturally built like their mom and dad wanted them to be in a porno. Also, GIRLS DONT WATCH PORN AS MUCH AS WE DO so they're not expecting some 9 inch monster (in general.) when women complain about sex it's almost always because

- He didn't know what he was doing (meaning doubted himself because sex is up to you so you can't really lose unless you don't trust your instincts)

- He was too soft (nice guy classic move obv)

- He was too emotionaless/i felt used (bad boy classic move obv)

It's NOT that he was too small. that happens in very rare unfortunate cases.

But how do I have confidence that my penis is great and women love it?

Because you have confidence that you're great and women love YOU. It's the man that makes hte penis what it is not the penis that makes the man. Besides the obvious things physical endurance, stamina, experience, connection...the thing that makes some guys good and some guys bad is that some guys focus on their orgasm only (bad) the woman's orgasm only (bad) and a few focus on both orgasms together (good) so you thinking about your penis size instead of focusing on what a beautiful wonderful girl she is, is actually selfish on your part. It's actually more selfish than the belief that I have the best dick ever capable of giving countless women countless orgasms because at least i'm concentrating on more than just myself.

Ok, rant over.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Yea I'm just here to say i don't read these anymore. I don't need people's opinions about other peoples opinions about other people.

    Some people give a fuck, some people give a different fuck, some people give a little bit of a fuck but not muchnsome people don't give a fuck at all.

    Either way, people need to stop talking about it like it's a set of rules. That's the damaging part.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I couldn't care less about size.
    In fact, I'd rather it be on the smaller end of average because it's painful otherwise.

    I'll never understand how people find huge penises attractive... If they can't fit all the way in without hurting, I don't want it!

    • lol you're funny

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  • Id rather it be smaller and comfortable than larger and painful personally. Oh and I'd much rather have someone know what they are doing that someone who think she's gods gift to women because he's will endowed lol

    • what would you say is more common : guy who knows what he's doing or guy who is well endowed?

    • I'd say a well endowed. Guys either don't know what they are doing or don't give a shit these days

    • shameful... but makes sense why

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  • I really doubt that many girls get turned on by a dick. Evolution certainly hasn't made that an attractive part of the human body, has it?

    • I think it's super attractive...

    • I doubt many agree with you! It's objectively pretty silly looking.

    • I agree with @homper87 ... when its up it equals to boobs in men world

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  • Damn bro... you fucking killed it... but now... thanks for making hung guys feel insecure lol... eh.. im kidding... gifted and know how to effin use it just like you said... no complaints since 2006...(yes, i was a late bloomer, hence the ton of traffic) lol

  • I'm not turned on by the look of a penis, I'm turned on by the guy himself. Size doesn't matter because you could have a big dick and not how to use it, but the next man has a small one and has got the motion of the ocean. And by the way we women do watch porn just as much as men!

    • good to know! what kinds do you watch generally? is it one video or is it a series? since you can orgasm multiple times do you ever watch it all day long?

    • I usually watch hardcore videos off of pornhub, I've got my favorites saved so I don't have to go searching. And I'm usually done after 25 min or less. I've never watch porn all-day, but I have watched it multiple times throughout the day on a bored day off.

    • Then you have women like me that don't like to watch porn at all :P I did when I was curious in my young teen days, but since I turned like 16 I was never interested in seeing penises entering vaginas. I've always liked sex stories though... they work 1000x better then actual porn, for me anyways.

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  • Well, you mentioned it in there, but typically women won't see your dick until you're already getting laid. So it's not like they pick and choose guys based on dick size.

    • You can always ask a guy to show his dick first right after you made out, it will be excited and you can decide if it is good size for you.

    • @LaureK yeah that probably happens a lot

  • I think it does, and women should just be more straight forward about what they want so less mismatches happen.

    • i think the percentage of girls who are size queens (only get with guys who are very big) is much smaller than the percentage of girls who are the bigger the better but have no significant issue with a normal sized guy

    • Either way women need to be more forward about what they want. I think they hold back what they are looking for.

  • Go buy yourself a penis extension sleeve, surprise your partner one evening, then come back and then tell me again that it didn't make a difference.

    Screw all this politically correct bullshit. Size matters. It matters more, both good and bad, at the extremes (>7inches or <5inches), and matters less when you're in between. Technique matters more than size, but regardless, if you're so big that it tears her vagina every time you thrust, then no amount of technique is going to fix it. Conversely, if you're under 4", there's no way you'll make her feel full.

    This doesn't mean that sex can't be pleasurable when you're at the extremes of sizes, but it takes work and compromise, and it's definitely not the "all penis' are great" bullshit you're trying to spin here.

    It is what it is. Live with it.

    • I'm saying it matters it just matter that much which is basically what you're saying but more angry

    • You have problems.

  • I was seriously reading up to the point of: 'GIRLS DONT WATCH PORN AS MUCH AS WE DO'

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  • Here you go guys.. this will settle it.

    If you are 6 inches or above you are good. If you are under 6 inches most girls will be nice and tell you it's fine but really want at least 6 inches.

    /thread.

    • i might add a comparison: A cup/3-4inches B cup/5-6 inches C cup/6-7 inches D cup/ 8 or more inches I'd say that's a pretty fair comparison so if you're in the lowest or highest category you're going to have it be an issue ( on the one hand it's considered impressive and is the envy of people of your own gender but on the hand it causes a lot of anatomical issue's such as back issues for girls or not being able to fit it in unless the girl is really really wet and her leaving the experience really in pain.) and yet there's a legit reason that anyone would want to be in any of those categories except maybe a cup/3-4 inches lol

    • Nah man D Cups are way more common compared to 8 inches..

    • I'm an 11 inch dick 😂

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  • Or it's more complicated than this and not simply a matter A, B, or C.

  • Size is relative to experience and perception. One could see a 6 inch dick and think it is 7 or vice versa.

  • no. size does not matter. if it was every guys with big dick would have girlfriends. i have a huge size, but still single.

    • likewise

  • hmm. well id rather do it with someone I know then get a boyfriend. If he's good ill keep him and tell others to get a boyfriend and stop being jealous

    • what's your definition of good?

    • Personality Counts mostly in relationships I believe God made people equally. In my opinion treat people how you would want to be treated. don't be mean to others plus, If you're a snob people will go off you and dislike you.

  • Wow, if your penis is the size of your ego, then I'm in trouble :P

  • It must not matter because I'm small down there and got married and have 4 children

  • From what I've heard, a big part about penis size is the mental aspect of it. We associate big dicks with masculinity, confidence, alpha, straight savageness.

    • agreed but i wonder if it's more of a fantasy then something a girl would actually want

    • It's funny that you say that because when I was younger (before I had sex) I thought I'd want bigger ones for precisely the reasons you just stated. When I actually got old enough to have sex (granted I've only had 2 partners - and I'm hoping it'll stay that way for the rest of my life) I immediately realized how wrong I was. Big hurts. I don't want to be in pain while having sex. That's a huuuge turn off. If you can't fit all the way in without hurting me I don't want anything to do with it.

  • I think it's funny when some guys will say they have a preference for Asian or white women and... that's okay that's okay right? But then when a broad says she wants a big dick she's a slut right? Lol.

    People have preferences. I'm not saying I agree with them all (I clearly don't as I just shown above), but why should penis size be any different? Females are going to have preferences. Men are going to have preferences. It's how it is. Guys can bitch all they won't. It doesn't matter. Some females are still going to want a certain size dick in them.

    Bruh. Bruh. Bruh. That's what I be telling people on here. It's better to be average. Sometimes I wish I had an average dick. I've been denied by women because my dick is too big. I've got less capabilities with my size when compared to average sized dicks. Not only that but most women PREFER AVERAGE. Why? Well many reasons. First of all it's big enough they can feel its stimulation, but it's also not too big to where they have to be overly aroused and not uncomfortable. Not only that but it's probably what most are used to.

    Just think. Probably only about 20% of women would ever even experience a truly big dick. Not saying above average. I mean truly big. Maybe even less than that. Maybe 15%. This is just a guess based on some things I've read. I won't look them up because those are based on opinion anyway.

    In any case common sense would tell you that if average is average then most women will see an average dick and not a small or large one. If you factor in the small ones then that means even less would experience a large one.

    So most aren't even sure if they like a big one or not because they've never had a big one. That works in average dick size guys favors as well.

    One last thing. The interesting thing about the hook up part you mentioned is that most women are more aroused with someone they know and love. This is why many think sex with a life long partner is better, because they trust that person more and it allows their body to open up so to speak. With a stranger with a big dick their body probably isn't going to be as relaxed. This will cause pain and discomfort if not addressed. I'm assuming that the women who prefer big dicks during hook ups naturally have the vagina for it and have been having sex with big dick guys before. It makes sense because they more than likely have had sex with more guys. Most girls don't do that. That's no more than 40% of women I imagine who do hook ups regularly.

    • *want

    • great points. i think psychologically the media builds up big dicks in the way they do big tits and big asses on girls so that girls are trained to be aroused by them, however, i think because as you said it is actually very uncommon for them to be quite that big that it can come off as freakish and scary which of course makes it harder to relax and therefore be wet etc.