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First and foermost, you've got to acgually want to do it. There's nothing that will get a boner flaccid quicker than a girl who obviously does not genuinely want to be pleasuring you. Who is doing it out of obligation more than wanting actually enjoying the experience of being able to bring you some pleasure, and have some of her own through that.
You’ve got to go into it with the right mind-set. Not one that it’s crucial to make him cum. Some guys find it very difficult to cum from just oral, making it almost impossible. Others prefer to finish after sex so would prefer oral as just a warm-up.
Don’t just skip to the rhythmic portion of the blowjob. Tease him. Kiss his penis and his balls. Lick him. Rub your hands on his penis while giving him a hickey near his hipbones. He will go crazy! The key is to make him want the inside of your mouth really bad.
Don't put your wet mouth around his penis until he does want it really bad. Good things come to those who wait.
Now it’s finally time to get started…
Let’s say you were running a 10km marathon. You probably wouldn’t start it with a spring, right? It’s all about finding the right pace, keeping the rhythm. Which very much applies to giving good head that you boyfriend will absolutely adore. Don’t start too fast, ease into it. Slower movements, keep him wanting more.
Use your hands! I know most guys will say they despise handjobs, no one can give them one better than themselves, etc.. If you do it right though, I’m sure you’ll hear not a single squeak out of him. Work the shaft, kind of a twisting motion in your wrists. While you work the outer half, mostly the head, with your mouth/tongue. There can never be too much attention with your tongue. Never let your tongue just be there doing nothing. Back and forth over the head, around the head, zig-zags across the underside of the shaft as you go up and down…
Sometimes, feel free to take a break from working the shaft and give his balls some attention. A bit of very light fondling, pushing them upwards, and sucking on them a bit. Licking them, between them, any which way. It's all good.
At any point, feel free to go a bit more extreme and deepthroat. I know, I know, not for everyone. But you’ll never know unless you try. With the right angle and a bit of conditioning (..from gagging, I know. Not the most fun.), you’ll be able to pull out the deepthroat card and spring it on him when he’s least expecting it. Trust me, he’ll love it.
Don’t be afraid to make it messy. I’ve never heard a guy complain about too much spit being involve in a blowjob. What happens happens; the more spit, the more lubrication, less friction. Friction is not something he’d want to get acquainted with. Plus, the messier it gets and the less you let it bother you, the more enthusiastic he’ll see you are about tending to his dick, his pride and joy. Making him feel like an absolute king.
Towards the finish, don’t lose the pace!
No slowing down. Very minimal amounts of time in which his dick leaves your mouth or there’s zero stimulation on the head. Continue moving you head/hands up and down as he gets closer to the finish. Don’t stop right before he cums either… that could very well kill his orgasm. Bringing you back to square one.
Keep it up till he cums and you can tell all your work is done.
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