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Stereotype: Women can get sex whenever they want!

Stereotype: Women can get sex whenever they want!

Some people think that women can get sex whenever they want. In their personal experiences, perhaps. But when this is generalized to all women, this is just plain stereotyping.

1. Safety: STIs. Unexpected pregnancies. Healthcare support. Social support. Those things can all change a woman's desire to look for sex.

2. Socially Inept Women: A woman may want to enter a relationship and have sex, but can't, because she is too socially inept to do so. She doesn't know how to ask for sex without getting rejected, when to ask for sex in a relationship, and whether asking for sex would make her seem more sexually aggressive than she wants to be.

3. Limited Sexual Services for Women: Women already dominate the prostitution business. What makes you think that a heterosexual female would want to seek a prostitute (who is often female) for sex? There is the option of working as a prostitute to get sex, but then the woman may have to work underground if prostitution is not legalized in the country or region. For women who are actually prostitutes, many of them do it because they are in desperate need of money, not for romance or personal happiness. Not to mention, many women are trafficked into the prostitution business and are exploited by their pimps/madams!

4. Sexually Unattractive Women: Some women are just not very attractive. They may be too fat, too ugly, too boring, too bossy, or just too immature. Whatever the reason is, the men around them just aren't interested in them enough to ask them out on a date, let alone have sex.

Stereotype: Women can get sex whenever they want!

As you can see, the apparent widespread belief that women can have sex whenever they want is just plain false.

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  • It is absolutely TRUE that the vast majority of women (let's say 40 and under) can get sex nearly anytime they want it - they just have to not be super picky about who they get it from. You cannot deny that this is true. Even many of the women admit this.

    You (OP) are confusing this true statement with "most women can get sex anytime they want FROM A GUY THEY WOULD NORMALLY CHOOSE TO HAVE SEX WITH (which most often means: a guy she's in a relationship with, or would like a relationship with). Of course that isn't true, but it doesn't make the original statement untrue, because the original statement doesn't limit WHO she is able to get sex from.

    You have to be able to be honest with yourself or you can't have a real discussion about matters such as these.

    On the other hand, guys need to understand that most women don't WANT casual sex in the way that men do - men's role in reproduction (10 minutes of sex) caused men to be genetically programmed to "spread their seed" - which means casual sex. Women's role in reproduction (4+ years from sex, through pregnancy, to raising a child that is able to survive for more than an hour or two on its own) caused women to be genetically programmed to want STABILITY and EMOTIONAL CONNECTION - i. e., a RELATIONSHIP. So, yes, women can get laid at anytime, but they don't WANT that and never did. Rather, they want to get laid BY A MAN THEY'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH... and that's far more difficult and complicated, because men's nature goes against relationships and monogamy.

    To put it more simply: men prioritize sex and women prioritize relationships, so getting something more easily - that isn't your priority - isn't as important as getting the thing you DO prioritize.

    • Couldn't have said it better myself

    • For my gen, friends with benefits are so normal girls start them.

    • You can not tell a person what they can and can not discuss

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  • I had a woman who was all over me at work years ago. I was still struggling with so much. She was aggressive and horny. One day she pinned me to the metal racks that held the equipment where I worked, and I felt so unattracted to her. I used to think any woman could get sex whenever she wanted, but now I know that's just not true.

  • I know iam only a man but I would bring your reasons as to why women don't get sex can also be answered and reasons given why they were only barriers created by women. They want stop them getting sex if they actually want it.
    1a condom eradicates no 1. You've contradicted yourself. They are either try to get sex or not.
    2 is not a reason for not getting sex. If you want sex and your going to ask for it then you are going to be rejected on some occasions. But it will be far less than guys being rejected when they as but it doesn't stop them asking.
    3 . Is over is superseded by my answer to 2. If a woman just wants sex then she just has to ask enough guys one will say yes very quickly..
    4. Sexually unattractive is probably the toughest to explain. Men do look at women's face s and bodies but guys who are similar still want sex it about being realistic if you just want sex. All women have have vaginas you need this for sex. If a woman offers it for a guy to have very quickly you will find a guy that just wants sex.
    I have seen and do believe if women really want sex they will get it for free.

  • I can get sex fairly easily tbh.

    Women like the one you included are on shows like Jeremy Kyle and have several lads on the go!

  • I appreciate the take. I have to say it has more ta do with our emotions than anything else. Damn I'd only we could think with another brain.

  • Yes, that's a stereotype. Any statement about a complex situation that encompasses a subject in totality will likely be a stereotype... since it blatantly ignores the possibilities/realities of the opposite.

    That said, I believe it is MUCH easier for a woman to get sex than a man.

    • I read a narrative about an asexual man and heterosexual woman. In that case, it seems that the asexual man actually desires sex less, but he does have sex eventually.

  • That's like saying all men will have sex with the first girl to spread them legs towards him.

    • Exactly. Check out my Take from last week on this topic: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a25202-guys-have-a-harder-time-getting-sex

    • yeah, not all men will do that but I imagine it would be more difficult for a guy to turn down such offers. For example, if a woman gets 100 offers in a year she can pick and choose but if a guy only gets 5 offers in a year and turns them all down then he may have to wait longer to get another opportunity.

  • This is one of the most plain false mytakes I have ever read. 99.9% of women can get sex whenever they want. Most men can't. All most women have to do is let men know they are horny. However, there are dangers for a woman that does this but they can do it if they want to.

  • Okay, look at it this way: A woman (attractive or not) sitting alone in a bar with 100 men, and she asks each guy for sex. What are her chances in finding (at least) one guy who would agree to having sex with her? Now reverse the situation and ask yourself the same question. The comparison between the results is laughable.

    Saying women can get sex whenever they want is NOT a myth, nor is it an accusation. So, there is no need to get defensive and start looking for exceptions. It is just a fact of life and men are contributing to it more than women are. We are constantly looking to get laid. Would we prefer a hot lady to do it with? Of course, we would. Would we not settle for anything less? Hell NO!

  • I must be honest here... I agree with what the guys are saying ( and some girls as well ) ... Us women can have sex way easily than what guys have to get through to have sex... If we want to have sex ( without being in a relationship) and for any reason guys don't find her attractive, then there's lots of horny guys out there ( no offense guys 😆 ) , guys that don't want a relationship, just casual things... So if a girl wants that then, perfecto :p but a guy that girls aren't attracted to him for any reason, can have a tough time finding someone to do it with him, simply coz us women aren't like men, we care more about the face and stuff when we will do it, but once guys are horny lots of them don't care much about it... A fat girl can go work her ass off and then get the body she wants, goes wears revealing clothes, a, d she will at least find one... Coz women's bodies are more attractive, but a man may lose wait, be fit, have a really attractive body, and unless he finds a girl that wants a one night stand then he won't have it unless he is In a relationship

    • Actually, check out my perspective: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a25202-guys-have-a-harder-time-getting-sex

    • I read what you wrote and in many points you are totally right, we can all get laid if we actually insist on doing it! But I think that women get more offers than men, she might agree or disagree thats her choice , but its not THAT common to see a girl go to a guy in any place and would be like hey, would you like to have sex with me... I mean some girls do that but its still not as common if you know what I mean 😅 however, I do agree with what you said now that I read it!

    • Then you should've commented on it, lol! It kinda pisses me off that I wrote that last week and it only got promoted, but a female talks about it, and hers gets featured.

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  • thing is, maybe men value the idea of getting sex on demand but most women usually dont want or need that so why do some men use it against us?

    Totally agree with ur points tho. Esp #1 and #4. The pregnancy worry freaks me out a bit for sure. I don't know what a pregnancy scare feels like for a male, but i can only imagine how i'd feel. my community would flip out if they found out and then just all the life changes and body changes associated. no one should have sex if they dont accept the risks. And then the risk of HIV scares the hell outta me too.

    With #4 I dont know why some men dont try to understand that for a girl who isn't as goodlooking as those around her, not being noticed can be a crippling form of rejection. that just because women dont traditonally approach men doesn't mean that being approached is an easy concept. many girls dont ever get noticed. even in Harry Potter it was said how when a guy isn't asked to the ball, it can be expected but if a girl isn't asked there is something wrong with her.

    also, women need the emotional attachment usually to go into sex. not always. more confident women and more attractive women may not need it always, but its something built in us. or maybe conditioned in us. I don't know.

  • Men who say that any woman can get laid any time she wants honestly believes it because the only women they see are the ones they'd fuck. The rest are literally invisible to them.

    • That's the exact same thing I said! Check out my own Take on this subject from last week, I forgot to copy the link but you can find it in my Takes section on my page.

  • STDs has nothing to do with the ability to get sex, its a risk from having indiscriminate sex but not a factor in whether or not it is acquired. Same goes with socially inept, that may be a detriment to her acquiring a relationship or having friends but again that does not stop her from getting sex only maintaining and establishing relationships. The reason why women have fewer sexual services available to them is because they can acquire sex much more easily, that is how women have been able to commoditize their sexuality for most of history, because men want it more, or at least are willing to take more risks and pay more to acquire it. Even unattractive women have a better chance at acquiring sex then an equally unattractive man. So while their are things that may limit her sexual partner selection, it does not actually negate her ability to actually get sex if she wanted it. A good looking man can easily be rejected by an unattractive woman as much as an attractive woman, an unattractive woman may be rejected by an attractive man but is much less likely to be rejected by an unattractive man. Ergo it is easier for women to acquire sex then it is for men, just because it may not be at the upper spectrum of attractiveness doesn't mean she cannot acquire it.

  • "Stereotype: Women can get sex whenever they want!" www.nikopik.com/.../Bullshit.jpg

    Since all you guys have to do is

    #Step 1 say "I want some dick" via a Facebook status.
    #Step 2 😂😂 as 25 guys message you in 2 mins trying to "hook up".
    #Step 3 Choose who you want to slay you that night.
    #Step 4 open the front door and handle your business.
    #Step 5 Realize that with all the social media that we have at our disposal in this day and age that it is literally that easy for a girl to get #laid.

    So basically, the only thing that can stop ____ from getting "laid" is her conscience, the fear of being labeled a slut or something of that nature.

    But when ___ doesn't care about any of that BS, she can sleep with a different guy next to every night. And before you say "otherwise" tell that to my friend who's 19 but has fucked 27 confirmed guys in a 2-year time span.

    • As long as ___ has a pussy some horndog will fuck her... just make the "FB status or twitter post" and watch what happens LOL

    • I know and even the ugly chick will probably get at least 3 takers before the night is over. I have seen dudes slay some ogres just because they were DTF

    • @cjmtherfcker lmao haha @ "slay some ORGES" cuz on some real shit some niggas have no standards... like they'll fuck anything... >_<

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  • Hahaha Yes... One of the most ridiculous myths ever.
    But almost all men still think that's true for some nutty reason.

  • Oh come on.

  • I thought that was a stereotype for men: "Women can get sex whenever they want, because men are always ready for having sex no matter what" :)

  • Disagreed.
    I think most girls, given a very low few, can get sex whenever they want, even if they're "unattractive". (Yes, even the girl pictured)
    This does not mean they can get it with whomever they want or that there is no risk when they do it, but they can get it from someone.
    A lot of the reasons you listed don't mean they're unable to get sex, it's just a reason why they might. Only one as to why they might not get it is because of the limited sexual services.

    • Glad to see a reasonable girl in the crowd. +1 People insist on changing what is universally known as true for some reason. Saying women can get sex whenever they want is not a criticism, just a fact of life. Many women get defensive and start calling it a myth as if the statement was an accusation.

    • @TwistedLogic And like I said, it's not like we can get it from any given specific person necessarily, it's just yea there's someone out there who'd fuck us under any condition. There's probably a few cases you could find where that might not be true, but I think on a general note, yea women can get sex whenever they want. I don't even know why women would get defensive at that. In all honesty, it's more of an attack/stereotype at men suggesting they'd fuck when given the chance.

    • Precisely. Your last sentence is the truth.

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  • This is silly. Most men agree that all women can't have sex any time they want.
    The common concensus is that it is noticeably easier for women

  • The failure of your post is not being specific enough.
    100% true statement - women can get sex 100% of the time they want it.
    that does not say they can get sex with the person they WANT 100%.
    if a woman truly wants sex at any cost, there is always a man somewhere willing to give it.
    That is nowhere close to true for men about women.

  • a women can have sex 34 times a day biologically so that's 0.70 every hour pretty impressive as compare to man only max 7 times a day with affects.

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