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My night with a Prostitute

My night with a Prostitute
After my marriage broke up, one of the unexpected challenges has been what to do when I am horny.

Sex used to be on tap with my ex-wife and now nothing

Filling the void since the break up has been similar to a merry go round of frustration. Your appetite for sex doesn't suddenly end with the relationship but your means to quench it becomes a virtual minefield.

Masturbation is always fun, but the Climax frustrates more than satisfying by fuelling your hunger for real sex more. It is easy to have a casual fling or procure a 'friends with benefits' arrangement, but experience tells you they always end up getting complicated, stressful and ultimately leading to hurt.

Friday night things came to a head with me deciding to visit a Melbourne brothel and booking a prostitute.

On arriving you sit in a lounge with girls introducing themselves and chatting with you as they tempt you. Telling you what they can offer and allowing you to ask if they will cater for any, or all of your desires.

Eventually deciding on the woman I wanted and paying my fee, $700 for three hours. Being lead up to a lavish room where the woman requested I strip and present my penis to her for her to check for any possible signs of STD's. After doing this, she asked me to shower with her leaving the room for a few minutes while I did so.

The shower was brief, with me sitting naked on the bed waiting for her to reappear. It had seemed an eternity before she did, and for the first time in my life, I was nervous about sex, anxious in the extreme. As she re-entered, she stood before me starting to strip.

A cocktail of surreal irony began biting hard at this point.

With me craving an impersonal carefree sexual romp on my terms, but failing to deal with this during the experience. I knew I could have her in any way, but there were limits on touching or feeling, and strictly no kissing.

It killed the instinctual joy that goes hand in hand with sex and made the experience feel staged. Driving the feeling home as she wrapped my penis in a condom while giving me oral and reaching liberally for lube before intercourse.

After the experience, my feelings were polarised. I felt no guilt, seeing regulated prostitution as a legitimate profession that women choose to be part of and are liberally rewarded. The almost perverse aside was my take on the equality stance, often scorned upon at the mere mention of prostitution.

Rather than feeling I was slighting her standing as an equal. My overriding feeling was I was diminishing mine while accentuating hers by choosing to pay her for sex. There was no feeling of treating the woman as a sexual object, rather feeling objectified as a $$$ sign.

Allowing her ownership of me on her terms.

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  • SMH at sex on tap, my marriage is flirting with the technical 'sexless' line.

    Anyway...

    what you describe is exactly how I imagine it would be. I can give myself an orgasm, what i crave in sex is a shared sense of arousal. Paying her to be there makes it pointless.

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  • Interesting perspective! Thanks for sharing, I really enjoyed reading it and can somewhat relate to how it seems you felt. It sounds pretty akin to my own view on my hypothetical engagement in casual sex of any sort.

    • Thank you for your kind words. Dealing with sex when you are single is hard, for you can get it, but never on your terms

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  • Yeah, this pretty much squares up with what I imagine the experience would be like, for a dude. I don't imagine those places have many repeat customers, excepting people given to certain types of addiction.

    3 things.

    One, you said it's easy to find friends with benefits. From my informal survey of the divorced men I know, I gather most of them would disagree rather vehemently with that. (:

    Two, you mentioned that sex was "on tap" with yr ex, right up to the end. This, also, seems a bit unusual -- most divorces I've seen are sexless (or at least have sex that slows to a trickle) long before they actually become divorces.
    Interesting.

    Three, and most fascinating to me -- you signed up for THREE HOURS?
    Was that a mandatory minimum?
    Because I'd imagine most men would want to sign up for maybe 15 or 30 minutes. Especially if it was their first time doing something like this.

    • What staggers me most isn't even the time... it's the damn price.. ouch

    • @mikemx55 Oh, nah, that's less than I would expect. The one "escort" I personally know these days, charges $400-500/hr -- and that's in American dollars, which are worth more than Australian dollars. And she's my age. I mean, she does weirdo femdom stuff (ew), but... still. It's a seller's market, that's for sure.

    • Just saying... having to pay that much would certainly take away any will in me...

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  • Well perhaps you should seek the pleasures of a prostitute who provides the GFE (Girl Friend Experience) they will allow you to kiss and fondle them just as you would your girlfriend. I do offer the GFE experience but it's a 4 hour minimuim and I will go to dinner and dancing with you and everything else you would expect from a girlfriend. Most of my clients are married and just after the sex their wives won't give them so it's not often I book a GFE client.

  • That was a pleasure to read. What people don't understand that the customers don't mean to treat women as sexual object. It is just a deal. She wants money, we want sex.

    The polar feelings are bound to happen. In your next a few encounters, you'll start enjoying them, but after that, you'll lose all of the attraction and feelings. So, beware.

    That was very expensive dude. Here in my country, we can get a high class escort in just $500 for full night.

    Hope you're living well :)

    • Thank you for your response, I am torn whether I will return again for it was not too pleasurable.

    • My first time wasn't pleasurable either even tho she was extremely hot. Our mind isn't ready for such things at first, but when we do it several times, it adjusts itself. But in the end, you'll realise that it's wrong. And would seek better life. I'm you so, it was easier for me. You have so few options. Try approaching other divorcees or single moms.

    • I'm young* so

  • interesting take. especially the conclusion that you had felt somewhat cheapened.

    • more exploited than 'cheapened'

  • Interesting look at the topic.. Well done

    • thank you for the kind words

  • Reverse objectification. Interesting.

    • it is how you feel, for she owns you- or you allow her too

  • Wow, my God. Really sorry about that. It does sound like a real bust. Oral with a condom on must be the worst.

    • the whole experience was forgettable but i got 'what i paid for'

  • Agree with this even though i have a girlfriend, i think you were stupid about wasting 700 dollars for that. It's quite obvious that the sex experience won't be great because there are no emotions involved or love its just fake sex.

    Fake sex with no real pleasure/emotions won't be good and isn't worth any money.

  • Did you enjoyed being pampered like that? :P

    • there was really any pampering and it was foreign to what i enjoy in sex. Which revolves around pleasuring the woman

    • I thought you would have gotten an escort

    • if nothing works,, you can go to craig list... but it's full of freak shows there...

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  • Well, that was very subtley written. Some people just wear their prejudice without cause or concern like they were born to do so. Thank you, this may be a tiny step in breaking that stigma. But a step forward nonetheless.

    • Thank you for your kind words. As for the stigma, I never understand this for it is a valuable service in society that rewards the women well and provides an outlet for men

    • Indeed. Imagine all the sex crimes were it not for the oldest profession in the world.

    • if it didn't exist it would fracture society in meaningful ways

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  • Welcome to the suga life lol nice take my friend and once again.. you're hot as hell

    • ty for your kind words

  • Interesting, I still don't agree with the profession at all, but that was an interesting perspective to look at.

    • thank you for the kind words

    • Mhmm.

  • Interesting read!

    Surprised at sex "being on the tap" in a broken marriage however, kind of curious on the circumstances that lead to the divorce as broken marriages tend to have zero/unsatisfying sex from what I hear anyway.

    • My marriage broke up because there was always a stumbling block over honesty. In regards to me never being able to fully divulge the 'demons in my mind'. I rolled myself, for I knew I could because she would help me through but could never leave myself that vulnerable

  • 3 hours... that's a long time. I went for half an hour and felt too short. So my next one was an hour, that was ok. Like you said, live and learn.

    • very true

    • Interesting thing I read. They reckon 40% of Australian men have had an escort. I've personally met several men in Australia who are so open about it too on my business travels. I love Australia.

  • A very entertaining read, for one.

    I gotta ask, though. THREE (m***f***g) HOURS?
    I have to say it's an interesting perspective, no way in hell would I get so emotionally engaged in such a thing.

    • I got sucked in by wanting a 'full experience' and getting far from it

  • Never felt the need to seek prostitutes. I kind of understand why now.
    I'm not against legal prostitution, but it's not for me.

  • I am virgin and I will never lose it to a prostitute...

    • good for you

  • Man I am not into prostitutes nor night stand but fuck 700$
    Here with 700$ I can have her full time for a week , doing literally everything for me , cooking cleaning everything , and all I want in bed , and 700$ would be too much for this And I don't filthy dirty law quality , I mean fashionaized women you see in meduim restaurant
    Fuck 700$

    • Time to move to Egypt, habib? i always had a dream to join a Bedouin tribe :) and wonder aimlessly on the back of a camel

    • Come you will never leave lol a lot of Egyptian do campaigns in deserts and oasis , so it but came common , safer and cheaper Living vicely is perfect for foreigners here :) You know I wasn't like that when I was younger Damn man 700$ You can have two chicks

    • Growing up, two of my best friends were Palestinians and their father used to tell tales of the wars in the Middle East And how there would be a battle going on and then he would see a puff of sand in the distance and it was a Bedouin tribe going through totally oblivious to everything

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  • Thanks for Sharing.

  • I've done this about 50 times, and it takes place in a hotel room usually.

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