What Type of Sex Is For You?

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What Type of Sex Is For You?

There are dozens of ways to have sex, different combinations of people, situations, experience levels, morality issues, and generally how you feel about sex which can determine which type of sex you have or want to try in the future.

What type of sex is for you?

What Type of Sex Is For You?

F*ck Buddy Sex

What is it: F*ck buddy sex is having sex with a person you only ever call when you want sex. You can have multiple f-buddies or just one. You have to leave all feelings or ideas about being in a committed relationships or marriage with this person, out the door. You are in no way mutually exclusive. You are not expected to get to know this person outside of a name (maybe) and a phone number where they can be reached for happy happy fun times.

Key Phrases to Remember: I’m not looking for anything serious. After this, don’t worry about locking the door when you leave. I’ll call you when I’ve got some free time. Are you available Friday the 8th or 15th after 10pm.

Good For: Horny people, people who travel city to city, people with irregular hour jobs, commitment phobes, those with no time for real relationships at the moment, college students or any persons with unlimited mojo, cheaters, highly attractive people

Skills/Supplies Needed: Attractiveness, a lot of confidence, a decent bed (somewhere) or “surfaces”, minimal time and/or money

Risk: STD’s, unwanted pregnancy, catching feelings for your F-buddy, your F-buddy catching feelings for you, feeling unfulfilled, feeling like just a sex object.

Outlook: The F*ck buddy can be an enjoyable temporary situation or a long term one as long as both parties understand the rules of the relationship, or in this case, the lack thereof. If both parties are there just to have fun, practice safe sex, and are aware that the other person is allowed to do whatever, with whomever they want outside of your situation, then no harm no foul. It is generally highly unadvisable to enter into an F-buddy situation if your goal is to try to ultimately turn the other person into relationship material.

What Type of Sex Is For You?

One Night Stand Sex

What is it: Sex between two people that happens just that one night (note: it can happen any time of day). It can happen intentionally or unintentionally. Two people meet, they hook up, one or both parties never call/see each other ever again or if they happen to run into each other, one or both parties tends to have...sudden...onset...amnesia.

Key Phrases to Remember: I was drunk. You didn’t think this was a thing did you? Really—have we met before? Who are you? Are you still here? You probably should go. You have to leave, I have a wife/husband/kids!

Good For: People who's goal was/is to have a F-buddy of the most immediate and extremely temporary of natures. People who enjoy screwing up their actual relationships/marriages. Good if you just want just an experience and to have sex and forget about it or the other person as soon as it's over.

Skills/Supplies Needed: A bed, some cheesy pick-up lines, no regrets (before it happens)

Risk: STD’s, unwanted pregnancy with a total stranger, thinking that this was going to turn into something when undenounced to you, you were apparently only meant to be a one night stand, being found out

Outlook: There is no outlook. Bleak.

What Type of Sex Is For You?

Virgin Sex

What is it: Having sex with someone who is a virgin. Can be one or both partners.

Key Phrases to remember: YOU’RE A VIRGIN!?! You’re not like a virgin, are you? Seriously you’re a virgin? I think it’s pretty cool you’re a virgin. I'm so relieved we're both virgins.

Good for: Anyone trying to lose their V-card. Those who have marked on their bucket list: sleep with virgin. Any man or woman who isn’t hung up on whether or not someone is a virgin. Those who’s goal is to wait for marriage before they have sex. Sexual Yodas who's job in life is to guide those who need instruction.

Skills/Supplies Needed: Patience, protection, powers of persuasion, inhibition, a nice bed (it’s your/their first time, light some candles or something damn it!), time

Risk: Them or you remembering and recounting forever what this person was like and did or didn’t do with you every time a first time sex conversation comes up, being judged harshly for your lack of skill or your V-card status, freaking out before, during, or after sex, being a part of that percentage who has sex unprotected for the first time and ends up pregnant, having someone tell you they like or love you just to get in your pants, losing your virignity before you're ready to.

Outlook: Can lead to a life of having more sex with fewer inhibitions and a building of confidence in the bedroom especially if the first time was as nice as it could be..you know, considering.

What Type of Sex Is For You?

Three Way/Orgy Sex

What is it: Having sex with 2 or more people at the same time, all of whom are generally not in committed relationships with other people (or they are also participating).

Key Phrases to Remember: Everyone brought protection, right? I’ve never done this before. I’m not usually into trying stuff like this. Who’s turn is it? What are you into...and you, and you? I think those are my pants.

Good For: people who are very limber, those looking to spice it up with a willing partner(s), adventure seeking types, those who’s life motto is “the more the merrier.” Bucket list goals.

Skills/Supplies Needed: Powers of persuasion, a big space, lack of inhibitions, trusting partners, lots of protection

Risk: All things STD/pregnancy related, if in a relationship-having your own partner ignore you during the sexual encounter, having this type of sex to please someone else, being ignored or left out by the masses, being judged, not feeling attraction to anyone present, being completely disappointed by the experience

Outlook: Can be good if the experience is mutually enjoyable for those involved and can become an experience you or you and your partner regularly engage in to keep things interesting instead of cheating behind each others backs for sex. Can also be a one time thing you try and enjoy just for the experience. The downside to the outlook is that you can also have a bad experience if you feel the group sex was not as good or fulfilling as sex with one partner at a time or if you did not receive enough attention during the act, or you just plain regret it.

What Type of Sex Is For You?

Monogamous/Relationship Sex

What is it: Agreeing to have sex with only one person for the length of time you are dating, or forever if you’re married. Generally also involves committing yourself to getting to know, like, or love the other person beyond just sex.

Key Phrases to Remember: I like having sex with you. We probably need a bigger bed. How about it tonight? I love you. I know what you like. Can we do that thing we like with the thing, and the other thing, where you, then I, and then we...

Good for: Men, women, those who have a cell phone.

Supplies/Skills Needed: A place to live or at least a steady place to crash preferably where ones parents don’t also live, a job, confidence, humor, or undeniable attractiveness (all three: gold mine), time, effort, will power.

Risk: If this person cheats, lies, is abusive, turns out to be married, the complete and utter shattering of your world (though hopefully only temporarily), getting bored with your sexual partner, feeling like you’re losing your independence, divorce or death of a partner.

Outlook: Is generally good. If the couple stays faithful and true and committed to one another and respects each other, even if the relationship ends, alls well, that ends well.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • gobsmacked3
    You forgot 'solo sex'... the choice of many single people :)
    Is this still revelant?

Most Helpful Girl

  • justbanANNAz
    MARRIAGE SEX WOOOOO!!!
    Is this still revelant?

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  • Jennifer2048
    I prefer relationship sex, but I have had a threesome and very much enjoyed it. I have also had one night stand sex. Some enjoyed, some not so much. I do practice safe sex, by the way. I do love sex. But I will say that the most meaningful sex is relationship sex.
    • But would you also prefer having a sex session/one night stand ( some other man that you like ) while you're in a relationship?

    • biguyct

      nice :P

  • OlderAndWiser
    Nice myTake. Next step: helping people to be honest with themselves so that they don't get into a friends with benefits when they are really looking for a relationship!
  • Scrambledagain
    I would like to ad "prostitute sex". For those guys who cannot get the majority of the sex you describe, so they have to pay for it. Women dont need skills for anything you said and they can choose each category. Many men can't. It's not a choice but rather a lucky break or money that guarantees a man the variations.
    • BeeNee

      Well I'm not in the habit of promoting illegal activity, so there's that. Also your statement about the 'majority of guys' is clearly not true. Women aren't having sex by themselves nor do they tend to be the ones that approach guys to have sex, but unless you want to be all rapey, they do have a choice in the matter, as do you. Also it's not just straight couples who have sex, so there is that.

    • Lol-it's not illegal in many countries. And just because something is illegal, doesn't make it bad. It was illegal for women to vote a couple years ago? So promote that. Then yes women are not having sex with themselves, they having sex with a minority of guys. The average joe doesn't get sex as easy as the average girl and he cannot choose his sexual path as easily. Staceyzee just did a my take on this. Even the girls agree. Then I find it very contradictory where YOU label skills to get those types of sex arrangements, implying that without those skills, you couldn't. Women don't need these skills, men do. Women choose, men chase and their chase isn't guaranteed. A women's choice is. Go prostitute sex! Why do you think there is such a demand for them huh? Seems like guys wouldn't need this if they could just choose? Think woman.

    • BeeNee

      1. It's illegal in America, and voting and prostitution aren't the same thing. What shall I promote next, murder?
      2. There are no guarantees when it comes to sex for either party involved. Just because you have a vagina, doesn't mean you get to have sex every time you want it. Just because one person writes a take, doesn't mean she speaks for all people (and yes, I'm talking about myself here too!)
      3. "Women choose, men chase and their chase isn't guaranteed. A women's choice is." So you are a rapist then? Women shouldn't have the ability to chose if they have sex now just because a guy asks them to have sex? Even with prostitution, she still has to say yes, unless of course, again, you're a rapist.

  • Spirit_Is_Free
    Might be my age and my personality (boring) but the only one that appeals to me is the last one Relationship/Monogamous sex.
    • BeeNee

      Well, call me boring too, but I agree.

  • Titanic1912
    I want a "my wife and I are married" relationship! I want to have sex with my future wife and future wife only! That's why I need a Christian woman in my life! But that picture of the couple showering together, my future wife and I will have plenty of shower sex and bath sex!
  • async
    "Key Phrases to Remember: I like having sex with you. "

    Say this while staring them intently in the eye, as if you're looking into their soul, unblinkingly. Do not break eye contact, even when they try to, don't even more, just stare them down. It will arouse them, trust me.
  • thewanderingme
    why did you not mention risk of STDs in the monogamous sex? especially after listening one might be cheating. there's always a risk of catching an STD from someone. even if they don't cheat, they may have caught something in their last relationship and never got tested so don't even know.
    • BeeNee

      you are absolutely right. Unfortunately I cannot edit the post.

  • ConsultantIsBack
    I'm just so offended at these graphic terms. You gotta get to know person, you know, the real them.
    😂😂✌
    • BeeNee

      Well, unfortunately that's what they are called, but Monogamous/Relationship Sex doesn't sound bad, does it? Sex is kind of a whatever floats your boat kind of deal, and the great thing is when you find someone who wants to sit in that boat with you :o)

    • Lol totally jk around. Great take!

  • oldanddecrepid
    I like the monogamous/relationship sex... something to be said when you can just lie around naked with the person hours later talking about life and what you want to do for the rest of the day.

    That comfortable feeling of being with just them and them alone. All the others it would be like wham bam thank you mam don't let the door hit you on the way out...

    I guess that is okay in some respects for certain people!
  • PrettyBama
    "I do love sex. Dirty sex. Every sex."
    -Joseline Hernandez

    Sex is sex. As long as everyone is a consenting adult it's fine with me. Although I haven't had the balls for a threeesome yet. I'm a punk. I always set it up and bitch out.
  • TaureanBull81
    I have had f*ck buddy sex, one night stands as well as monogamous relationships sex. I am yet to try having a 3sum but are very open to trying in the future should the opportunity arise.

    I do agree that monogamous/relationship sex is the best should a couple be sexually compatible and if there is a close and very intimate connection ;-)

    I have had each type of sex bareback as well which is very naughty ;-)
  • EyeAmNiceGirl
    While I've done all of the above at one point or the other (and the one-night stand vacation sex was truly hot), the BEST is monogamous in-love sex. Threesome activity was a bummer (me, then boyfriend, another girl).
  • PeachBlossom
    When you get unexpectedly super turned on, and then you are both super into it really fast. Hot. If you can keep that going in monogamous relationship thats the best.
  • TheHooptyMiata
    One night stand all the waaaay.

    Had a few fuck buddies but they always fall in love with me. No idea why, given I'm a cold son of a bitch at the best of times, but I digress. Turns out I'm just too lovable for anything longer than one night.
  • 2tall2handle
    I'm in favor of f**K buddy sex and solo sex. You can have lots more fun that way with the person you are with. They tend to be more open minded than the person you are married to. Married sex becomes so boring and dull that it's no wonder some men and women go looking for excitement from someone else.
  • Sangita93
    It is always good to know some specific things about our choice and dislikes. Sex for fun is different from long lasting relationship and family buildup.
  • aliceinwonderland69
    I have only ever had monogamous sex. The others do not appeal to me.
    • Redshift

      Finally! I was starting to feel like some sort of freak...

    • singlebee

      Nice !! :-D 👍

  • gray_sailor
    Had a ONS one time many years ago. That was enough to tell me I'm only interested in relationship sex.
  • Rawrzz
    I don't understand the question. The best type of sex for me is sex.
  • joeclem111
    Woman who wants a clean guy but Only when she wants him. No interference with her ongoing life, no wish to interfere with his ongoing life.
  • LovelyComputerVirus
    I thought fuck buddies and one night stands were for sad middle aged people who gave up on marriage... Oh well...
    • BeeNee

      Sex has absolutely no age or relationship requirement.

    • BeeNee

      ... well, I should say, "legal" sex, that is.

  • Elena_the_Star
    I have all on my bucket list. One is done, sort of.
  • clampfan101
    Well, everyone is going to have virgin sex at least once. lol
    After marriage, my wife and I will have sex for the first time together. After that, monogamous for the rest of our lives.
  • Pampered
    If this was an option FOR ME, as scummy as it sounds, I would want an open relationship. Sometimes things get dull in the relationship and you develop crushes on other people, and you wonder if things would have worked out with someone else if you had been single.

    I think if you really love someone, you'd encourage them to find someone who makes them happy, even if it's not you. It's selfish in itself to deprive someone of true happiness, whether it be with you or someone else.

    Of course this won't fly now or ever, people are selfish by nature and if they are deeply committed and enamored, they won't want you with anyone else. Better to just take the gamble, settle down, and have your sexual and emotional needs constantly met.

    One night stands or anything else would depress me.
    • BeeNee

      What works for you may not work for someone else, and vice versa, but I think too many people are hung up on this idea that there is only one type of sex you can have and with only ever one partner. Hey, I might not understand it, or engage in anything but monogamous, but if you're happy and safe with your own choices, then really there is no problem that can be had with it. If you find a partner who is open to being open, then the better for you both, right.

  • Lukecjen
    Mrs Palmer? Lol western women are self entitled brats
  • Answerdude
    I may try any or all of the above, but am least likely to do virgin sex or 3+way sex.
  • ManOnFire
    I'm open to fuck buddy sex but mostly sex in a relationship. I'm not THAT open to virgins though to be honest.
  • BullyDawg
    I just want the one.…not the many... ….. hugz n smiles...🍀🐶🍀
  • Nicolás25
    relationship sex all the way
    the thing with threesome/orgy sex is it seems interesting when you think about it for yourself you get to enjoy your girl and other people but then you think that your girl will also be with other people so it's something you need to really think about are you comfortable with your girl having sex with other men right in front of you.
    and of course one night stands aren't bad if you're single and both of you aren't really interested in going out on a date or a relationship but you do like each other physically and want to use eachother for sex the problem arises when one person thinks it's a one night stand and the other thinks it's more than that haha same with f buddies
  • Bluefish
    for some.. none of the above will ever be a reality
  • Zorax
    I prefer monogamous sex, by the way, picture number two looks very alluring ;)
  • legalboxers
    shower sex, Jacuzzi sex, sex in bed, sex in a pool :)
  • JazzLimo
    Tf is all ths? THANK God all these things are not thr in my part of the world
  • Becky01
    who cares sex is something you just indulge in it feels good any way you have it
  • dwright9224
    Trying to decide between threesome, group sex or monogamous.
  • johnmsk
    This mytake is very good and to the point. i hv had all the types of sex mentioned..
  • GreatnessRevamped
    What do you call the type of sex where I stick my penis in her vagina?
  • LanaH102
    Fu*K Buddy with a couple of girls. One night stands of course and a couple 3 sums with some amazing women ;)
  • golani
    somewhere between girlfriend sex and fuck buddy sex
  • EmpatheticLady
    I'm ready for some relationship sex! 😉👍
  • Kodar
    Sex without feelings means nothing to me, I'm better off without it.
  • Questiongurltou
    I'm not allowed to do it till I'm married what does this mean
  • lowtheredie
    Virgin would be Greater with my answer , that experiences is amazing
  • JamesDylan1990
    I'm a virgin but I'm a only sex if I'm in a relationship
  • Artist10
    Wheres drunk sex, cheating sex, tantric sex?
    • Poppykate

      I know right! There is so many types of Sex. Break- up sex, make up sex, thank god we are not pregnant sex, and what about group sex?

    • BeeNee

      @Poppykate uh... group sex is mentioned in this take, a whole category in fact. There is also a word limit on takes and from what I gather, not too many people want to read a thesis paper's worth of a take which is what this would be if I had to include all types of sex, so boiled it down to a few, and most off all the other categories can be a part of the sex mentioned anyway, so it would be pretty redundant.

  • summiter
    Nice discussion & info
  • WhatTheHellAmy
    orgies sound good 😂
  • DaniaMQ
    Marriage sex allll the waaaaay 👌💃
  • Joe1997
    Really serious relationship sex...
  • Sovereignty
    How could you forget to include kinky sex.
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