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Recently I posted a question here asking guys if they thought the female orgasm seemed like it would be boring. I got some interesting answers, but most were saying they didn't think so and that they were jealous of the female orgasm. Really the point of the question was explaining how it seems, and wondering if any other guys thought the same thing, that from watching a female orgasm to me it really doesn't seem like it would feel as powerful as a male, even with multis involved. At least that's how it is from my perspective. Even the dramatic body shakes and everything just don't seem like it would feel as powerful as climaxing and ejaculating with such intensity.
So that question and my responses to some people on it prompted me to post my own Take on the male orgasm and what it's like. Some guys may disagree and experience it differently, I don't know, but I think many will probably know where I'm coming from.
You can feel orgasmic sensations in different spots...
Most people tend to think orgasmic diversity is just exclusive to women in where they can feel it in their vaginas and clitorises. It isn't. Sometimes a guy can feel the most intensity and satisfying sensations in different spots like the head of the penis, the whole body of the penis, the balls, or the PC muscle - the area just behind the balls. A guy can feel one, some, or all of these areas being satisfied at orgasm. I know for me, I'm addicted to that PC lovin'. It is the best area to feel an orgasm at, and when stimulated properly you come really long.
The PC spot is something like a male G-spot because it's where the prostate is and when rubbed or pressed during sex it feels very, very good and makes for an out-of-this world orgasmic experience.
The "full body experience" isn't just limited to women...
Some guys say they've never had it, and others have described one of their own, but orgasms can be very whole-body for a guy. In fact, I really don't know how they couldn't be. A guy can feel the pleasure pulse all through his body when he cums. I know I do. It's so strong that that's why guys seem to seize up or sort of jerk at the moment of orgasm. It takes control and hits through your nerves like lightning, going down the back of your neck and spine, through your fingers, toes, cheeks, lips, hips. It makes you completely zoned out to everything around but what you're feeling, like a dreamy drug oozing through you slowly, making you feel warmth and comfort and like your needs are really being met.
Also, quick orgasms usually are not great. The longer we delay ejaculation, the better it is. Especially if you breathe in as you feel yourself climaxing and squeeze that PC muscle, then exhale and release the muscle. When you do this several times until you can't take it anymore, the final result of orgasm is extremely beautiful. It's long and strong and really feels like the job got done.
Women seem to think orgasm is only limited to genitals for guys, but it's not. Or maybe they just like to think so as a way to feel superior to what a guy feels? Not sure, but there's nothing wrong with getting educated! :-)
Guys are capable of having "multiple orgasms"...
And I'm not talking about that new age "dry orgasms" stuff. Although we can have dry orgasms, they still do not feel as powerful as an ejaculatory orgasm. And although not commonly talked about, there are guys who have orgasmed once and were able to keep repeating it. Some guys have only done it once, some have always known how, and others somehow learned to. So far I've only been able to do this once, but would love to figure out how to repeat it =)
A lot of women like to say how impossible it is for guys to do this, and sexperts like telling us how impossible it is. It's funny because the sexperts and researchers push and push for us to believe how capable women are of being able to ejaculate, yet it often can be rare for them and something they have to learn! But insist that guys having any other kind of orgasm besides ejaculation are rare. Women actually have to take time and be comfortable in order to even try to squirt or have a multiple orgasm session, when most men can experience orgasms on different levels without as much effort as women need.
Some orgasms can a be a real drag...
Women also tend to have the ignorant idea that all orgasms for guys are good just because we can cum easier. They're not. When the wrong kind of stimulation is given - or stimulation is given at the wrong moment - the orgasm just turns into a really blahzay one, and when you ejaculate it feels like a short dud. Nothing very special. This especially can happen when a girl gives bad head.
Male orgasms last more than "a few seconds"...
A lot of studies try to claim a guy's orgasm is "6 seconds" but doesn't make sense. I remember once telling guys about this on the last site I was on and asking what they thought about it. Most had never even heard of these studies and said they weren't sure how long their orgasms last but that they definitely were longer than 6 seconds. Even when the guy has ejaculated all his semen out, he's still feeling contractions for awhile.
Women and researchers also say that women's are longer than men's, but I really don't know. A lot of people say it's different. Some women have said theirs were always shorter than guys', and some guys said theirs were always shorter than girls'. None of the girls I've known have ever seemed to have particularly longer orgasms like you see in porn. I know for me, my orgasms aren't short. I even recorded mine last year just to see, lol. I saw that mine was about 40 seconds, and this was at a time when I was doing PC muscle exercises regularly and delayed orgasm several times. But even without them I can't say mine have ever been just a few seconds.
Lack of education in society...
It's amazing to see how much there is a contrast on education about the male and female orgasms. People often have the logic that society is ignorant of the female sexual stimulus and orgasm and how much we need to learn about it, but I'm surprised how ignorant we are of even the male orgasm. It actually seems to be that we know more about the glorified female orgasm than we know about the male way of it. People just know that a guy ejactulates, and program themselves to see the male sexual stimulus as simple and not really worthy of learning more about, when learning would be very important.
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