As a woman who has had casual sex in the past many times before I try my best to offer advice on gag to women who ask if their friends with benefits wants more.
My answer will be and will always be
Sure a woman can go in thinking that she does not want a relationship and does not want to get serious but sex releases a ton of that hormone in a woman's brain that makes her think that she has fallen in love
"But but some women can have casual sex without getting attached too..."
My response to this is that just because a woman does not get attached or clingy after sex does not mean that she will not feel that way.
Women who have sex without attachment tend to get demonized in the media. A man can want sex without attachment but if a woman wants a fling and moves on quickly from it all of a sudden she is a cold hearted bitch.
Girls, if you are having casual sex with a guy, no matter what you want to label it: no strings attached, one night stand, friends with benefits, or fuck buddy it is still casual sex and the guy only wants sex from you. He is just using you for sex.
"But but she agreed to have sex with him."
Did I say that she did not agree to have sex with the guy? No I did not. If a woman expects more out of casual sex she is setting herself up for pain and heartbreak.
Some guys and girls will say that it's possible to turn casual sex into a relationship, but why would any girl want to take that risk by giving herself away plenty of times to many guys in order to get love on return?
Getting cuddled and having awesome sex does not mean that he wants a relationship. I have had casual sex with guys who were really good and really bad.
To those girls who can have sex without attachment after good for you, I wish I was like that when I use to have casual sex. Now I stopped having casual sex because I realized I could not do it. It really gave me low self esteem.
And guys, do not think that I have forgotten about you. I already know some guy is going to assume that I think all men only want casual sex.
Guys if you have casual sex with a girl and she contacts you the next day, it does not always mean that she likes you. And guys if a girl has casual sex with you and does not get emotionally attached and clingy, don't act like it's world War 4 because men do the same thing too.
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