Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Nearly all women are dirty and slutty. They enjoy having hot, dirty sex with sexual men. Every girl who you meet has an “inner slut”. Often the most innocent women are the dirtiest in bed.
SOCIETY AND THE MADONNA/WHORE COMPLEX
A lot of women are afraid of judgement. Judgement from fellow women, being labelled easy. Judgement from society for not being the angels that all women 'are meant to be'. And Judgement from guys who may not see them as pure madonnas who are proper and are not sluts. The truth is though that all these women have a dirty inner slut inside them. And nearly every guy from the player to the bad boy rockstar to the nice charming boyfriend material guy does actually want to have raunchy dirty sex with her acting so slutty that his fantasy of her actually seems mild by comparison.
TERMINATOR: NO JUDGEMENT DAY
Some guys and girls will act pure and act as if sexual desires and wanting to be dirty or indeed filthy in the bedroom is not for relationships. I mean some guys will suggest for instance in public that he would never want to call his girlfriend a slut in bed and that she wouldn't want that either. Wheras she'd probably take up the first opportunity with a guy who wants to be sexual and get on her knees with her hands tied behind her back and deepthroat him. Or even be up against the wall being fucked hard, really hard. Guys do need to convey non judgement.
At the same time,
WOMEN DON'T TELL YOU WHAT THEY REALLY WANT and maybe they don't know
They will always tell you that they want a nice guy who texts them all the time, who buys them things, who is sweet and doesn't flirt with her all the time. Who doesn't tell her she looks hot, or doesn't check her out so obviously. Who is stable etc etc.
Yet whilst telling that to them, they go and sleep with a random guy who doesn't show interest in HER. Yet she loves to get fucked from behind and have her hair pulled whilst acting as his personal pleasure girl.
Now some of this might be true. For instance, women don't want some jerk bad boy who just rolls into the bar or uni and tells her yeah she's fit, she'll do and somehow just cos he touches her this is meant to sweep her off her feet. Or even if he impresses her by pretending to be interested and then they end up at his place and she has wild sex cos she feels aroused. I don't think that pua stuff really works unless there is a connection. The only thing they do though is get the girl to feel horny and submit quickly before she thinks "oh I might like him, better not make him think I'm slutty".
Ironically whilst women say that they don't want the second guy and want the first, guess who they sleep with quickly? Yep the second. Bottom line, most women don't know what they want.
The other thing is that when a guy does what women say they want - give her attention and focus on HER, they start to take him for granted. The only exception to this is an actual couple who want to be together. Otherwise, ever notice how a single woman will be very touchy with her besties' boyfriend. Or be attracted to the guy (possibly even the same friend/social circle guy who was nice to her) who has a few women talking to him or who has a girlfriend?
Most women want what they can't have or don't have. They want to outdo other women and beat the competition. They feel desire to those men who seem to be liked by other women.
In any case, would a guy really go for a relationship with someone who does not get intimate with him, i.e. purely remains logical, yet sleeps with another guy who just appeared on the scene very quickly? And tbh, the average guy is not going to just sleep with anyone just by looking at them.
Having sex with people is about having a connection which makes the sex more than sex, but pure delight.
Case in point is living out a fantasy with someone you know is way hotter than just banging some stranger. Think about it, you might think a girl or guy looks fit and say yeah you'd bang, but if it came down to it, would you? Think about. Sure office banter, you would. But if the person said you want to go and sleep together right now. Would you?
Most guys, yes even most guys would not. Cos they don't know the girl, she could be really bitchy for all he knows, and then there's no conquest from the male perspective, nor emotion from the women's. Now as for people who do get it on on day one, sure a lot of that is based on people who just want to vent. But there is also NOTHING WRONG WITH SLEEPING TOGETHER SUDDENLY. You could be friends who feel aroused, (even better since you know each other). You could be new acquaintainces who feel some magic and go for it, or even a married couple who feel the vibe. But YOU FEEL SOMETHING more than just a visual assesment. Think of it liking the look of a car versus owning it. Would you want a car like that, sure (rating people). But would you own it (sleep with it), when you know nothing about it? But if you test drove it (talked to them), you might take it for a test drive. But knowing that car (friends/social circle) would really make you enjoy the car, would it not?
WOMEN MUST KNOW THAT GUYS LIKE THEM SURELY?
Ah women seem to have this ability to just know things. Yet when a guy in her social circle is kind to her, flirts with her, or texts her, etc. Does she not realize that this means he LIKES her. I mean come on, why is she not realizing that? The Average just friend who wants nothing more, will not send her sweet texts or make the extra effort. He will treat her like one of the bros. He will NOT make the extra effort. Come on seriously women, do you not realize that?
He is clearly going to be worried to state explicitly "You are fucking hot, and I want you" and pretending to be innocent not knowing and saying why didn't he say earlier is ridiculous. You knew he liked you from the start. He probably even looks at you with adoration. Does a guy friend look at any friend with that?
And if you really don't know, then dress very hot one day and hang out with him one on one, then you will see the look of desire.
Oh and please women, do not pretend that you don't want sex.
The paradox equation of friends/lovers/providers:
Oh he's a really great guy. I'd want a relationship with him. I wouldn't sleep with him straight away. But that other guy? Yeah don't really know him, so no risk, yeah I'll sleep with him tonight."
Sadly this is true. A lot of women, peversely sleep with people they hardly know rather than the nice and confident charming guy who is good for them (and they claim they want!) and who will be around their lives often. To say that she doesn't want to risk anything is ridiculous. At least the guy friend is still trying to be with her whilst not being too risky. This girl though, is having the non sexual advantages of a boyfriend and not being intimate to him. That's really bad girls (and not in the good bad girl kinda way lol).
SO WOMEN DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT, THUS:
False societal programming, judgement and women also being a little crazy. Geez, odds are pretty much stacked against us. I would not blame you for just going and going out with boyz to the (strip) club instead of trying to get it down with a woman. But there is a way, but it's damn hard (literally).
Communicate you don't “judge”(THOUGH HOW, please comment below!!!!!)
Come across that you like women who show their inner feelings.
Seriously, WOMEN WILL DENY IT, but when you’re not satisfying a woman's sexual side and helping her live out her slutty desires, she will find somebody else to help her live out her fantasies in the real world.
The “Bad Boy” will be getting to see her in the bedroom sexually, while you the “Nice Guy” is texting her the sweet stuff that she does like and says she wants and providing her with the non sexual boyfriend support and emotional connection that she does want as well.
The real question is why she isn't dating and sleeping with the bad boy. He would provide her with both and probably be better in bed as well - both in terms of passionate love as well as fucking her brains out and having very dirty sex, since she is all he has dreamed about for eons.
And frankly the friendzone is real in the sense of where you are, but it is not impossible to exit it. It is hard though, not because of you, but often because of the complete baffled bafoonry of the lady in question who cannot perceive that you are attracted to her. It is not that you are not attractive. You may not be behaving in an attractive way (e.g. talking just like a friend too much) or there might not be attraction. But trust me, if you convey you are attracted explicitly after she is having fun, then she will suddenly see you in a new light. She will see this attractive guy who is everything she wants. The thing then though is to transition from boyfriend to lover as quickly as possible to have sex, otherwise again she will dilly dally and delay in the paradox equation above.
You have to treat a Queen like a Whore, and treat a Whore like a Queen.
This it seems is the only way then. Despite what women say, unless you play them at their own game and pretend not to like them, then they don't seem to get the lightbulb flash in their head telling them to put in some effort.
The key difference is how you treat a woman. The way you interact with women will dictate whether or not she will reveal her naughty side to YOU.
You treat her nice and sweet is good. But you must also be flirty, fun and a little aloof. You must also not text her as much to avoid joining other girls and also guys in the pit of doom. If you don't she treats and acts how you treat her - friendly and pure. She won't be dirty, even though you're a better guy for her than some other guy who turns up and does this:
He escalates fast. He just conveys he thinks of her as a sexual being, not as a person, nor as a friend. And he is only interested in her body and thinking about her smiling head giving him head on her knees. He tells her this openly as well.
Ok so you need to get somewhere in the middle, but even though WOMEN WILL NOT ADMIT IT, they sleep with the second guy whilst taking advantage of the first one.
In short, the second guy is treating her like a dirty girl, a slutty dirty mistress. It's the lover who gets the benefits of pleasure. That's what she wants.
You must approach every woman you take a fancy to with the mindset of a king who has 100+ handpicked mistresseses of his own who he can fuck whenever he wants. Maybe even in groups of three at a time. And therefore this girl before you is nothing special. Since if she doesn't sleep with the mighty man that you are, then you'll just go home, summon a concubine and she will please you right before another one does.
With this mindset, women want what they can't have. They also just see you as a sexual guy who they can just have sex with and be their inner slut without any of the skirting around things. And they will be begging you to fuck them harder, and on their knees sucking you off.
The ultimate guy they desire is the friendly, nice charming and dirty man. The thing is rather than keep those thoughts in, the guy needs to get them out. But in order for that to happen, women need to accept that their social circle guys may indeed be interested in them sexually. And accept that they also are into those guys. Then everyone can just be sexual and say what they feel - aka you are fit, you are hot, and I love your personality as well. Without the tying the relationship knot and having to be a boyfriend and girlfriend, both people can fuck and still be good friends, if not better afterwards.
Because seriously, whilst women think nice guys don't want to see them being slutty, no way. When they see you being fun with a person who isn't as good a friend, or a complete stranger, they will be dejected. The nice guy DOES want you to be dirty and see your slutty kinky side. He wants you to make dirty jokes with him.
And guys? Women, NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY THEY WANT, do not want to act as pure innocent girls that society makes them to.
Whilst you think they want a guy to buy them things etc, they're dreaming of getting a cumshot on their face and being tied up and having dirty sex. And that could even be with you.
So HOW DO YOU CONVEY NON JUDGEMENT?
It's tricky, hoping people will comment below.
But do it for everything, not just sex. Hope she gets it, though for most women that is unlikely. But trouble is you can't just bring up sex if you already know her. And to be fair, it is unlikely that you will be friendzoned by a new girl at a bar. It's also easier to tell her you think she is pretty then. I mean if a girl friendzones you then, she is either STUPID or deliberately using you.
Most people meet others when in a social circle at work, uni, clubs etc. The problem is either you are too nervous to tell her or the girl in question already has a boyfriend. Now the girls will say, "Oh he never made himself clear, or it's too late he's friendzoned". BULLSHIT. It would be highly disrespectful to flirt with someone who has a boyfriend. Not only is that against the bro code. Would you really want to date someone who flirted with other people and then just dumped you? Wtf, that is twisted advice that a guy should flirt with a taken girl. And you can't avoid her, since you work together or are at uni together. You can't just run out the lecture theatre or work on your group work through morse code.
So be a good guy and be her friend. Still be a little flirty, mainly fun though. And be your respectful self.
WHEN SHE BECOMES SINGLE, then YOU MUST START TO PROGRESSIVELY FLIRT.
This is very tricky and clearly it's not as ideal as having met her when she was single. But there's nothing you can do about that. So keep at it. You need to work on your other manly stuff like work, body etc to be the best you can be. And hope that she takes the bait. But given that women seems to act pure around friends, you need to just be sexual. Not romantic but sexual. Just tell her one day, she looks fit or she looks hot. This will mess with her head and suddenly if you are lucky enough, she will be aroused. Now on that day, you need to progress to sex fast. You need to give her the excuse that 'it just happened' by hanging out alone and then it just leads to sex.
And that will be the dirtiest sex she has ever had. Cos for one both of you will be releasing the sexual tension. And you will make sure it isn't just romantic. In fact, 90% of it should be dirty. Cum on her, fuck her hard and tell her to beg for it. Again women will say they want something else, but do that alongside being her friend and she will fall for you completely.
This also works for flaky girls. Seduce them one day, bed them and suddenly they're no longer ignoring texts or doing ridiculous power play mind games. Suddenly they're chasing. Then play them at their own game.
But as for your friend, you must be dirty with her so she sees you as this wild dirty rock star guy as well as her friend. And then, my friend, she's yours. Friend and lover.
IN THE BEDROOM WOMEN CAN BE VERY DIRTY
The more innocent she appears to the outside world, the dirtier she is.
There are women who have known guy friends for a while. A woman who is girlfriend material and a guy who is boyfriend material. If he acts dirty to her, she most likely will be on her knees telling him how she loves to suck her king and loving how he holds her head as she deep throats him finally getting cum in her mouth.
There are women who act as if everyone is beneath them. If a nice guy sticks to who he is rather than submit to her misplaced arrogance, trying to act all impressed by her, she'll be all over him and in the bedroom will be fucking him hard and begging to be fucked harder.
Flaky girls who are used to getting validation and facebook likes from her male orbiters on social media will wonder why the nice principled guy doesn't do that. She will suddenly be drawn to him. But she will try to make him an orbiter. But if he contacts her, and then plays her own game back by not replying to her last message and doing the same stuff back to her, then she will be chasing him wondering why he isn't distracted by her slutty then denial behavior which she seems to use as energy to live on. Then if he seduces her one on one (and he should only meet her one on one in this scenario), then she will fuck him and fuck him good as she has suddenly invested in someone.
A woman who claims that any guy she met when she had a boyfriend and is now friends with was friendzoned and thus she doesn't see them as more is lying. Now she is single, she thinks about them as well. She does think about sex. If they flirt, she does play it out in her head, what would he be like in bed. And if they do one day spend some alone time together and suddenly sleep together, she will have wild sex with him. So long as he treats her dirty, she will be dirty.
Women will treat you how you perceive them to be. So just act fun, be dirty and be flirt. Do not try to be what they say they want. What they say they want, is not what they really want and not what you want.
TO SUM UP
-Women need to be honest what they want sexually
-Men, if she's single, escalate fast then and there
-Men if she's not, be respectful and if she becomes single, progressively escalate
-Always be who you are, don't be an artificial pua
-Women, stop trying to act pure as if it impresses nice charming men. It frustrates them. On top of this, don't then go and fuck some bad boy jerk whilst nice guy is courting you
-Men, realize that you need to treat women as a dirty slutty being and not be nice to her if you want her to open up and be sexual
-Women realize that men in your social circle who are single may indeed like you. And if they are putting in effort to text you sweet things or fun stuff or indicate they are proud of you, they LIKE YOU and want to sleep with you.
-Women all have an inner slut and will reveal it if you treat them as a slut/dirty kinky being.
-Women do not tell you what they really want. Actions speak louder than words, they bang and act dirty with dirty minded people who state what they want.
What Girls & Guys Said
1 1Women are only slutty to the man they want to be with. And I wouldn't have it any other way.
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Lol.
Sure, but do they act slutty quickly with a totally random new guy or with someone they feel comfortable with - e. g. a guy in their social circle?
Only some women.
Clarify why in both cases?
How?
I am kinky but monogamous. I don't wantto be with more than one man.
That's fair enough. Tho a lot of women actually prefer it with another woman in the bedroom as they get to explore being a kinky mistress of many for their man. So when you say kinky, would you be sexual and dirty with someone you are close to or became close to (e. g. a friend or boyfriend) or only with some stranger/lover?
I am straight. So no woman. And that man should be my husband
Right so you would reserve hot dirty sex for a man who was your boyfriend/husband and someone who got to know you right? Versus someone who just rolled up, turned you on a bit?
I am monogamous, only my beloved one can bring up the dirty out of me
Nice. So if you were single, would you be slutty with a brand new guy or a guy from your social circle who is boyfriend material?
I am single and no guy can make me have sex with him until he marries me
No one's talking about more than one man. Just why some guys who aren't good and not good /nice guys?