Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
1. MUTUAL INTEREST
Make sure you and your significant other are mutually interested in bringing a third into the bedroom. If one person in the relationship isn’t completely sold on the idea, things could get awkward fast.
2. THE THIRD
Who is the the lucky third you are adding into your night of passion? Male? Female? Stranger? Friend? Is it a one-time thing or a continued relationship? Discussing what you both want from this person ahead of time will help you choose the right person to avoid causing a rift in your relationship or friendships.
3. GROUND RULES
Make some ground rules before jumping into bed. Are you ok with your partner kissing the third? What part of the threesome excites you the most? How do you want to get started? Does the third spend the night, or should they leave? Making sure you are both on the same page will start the night off smoothly.
4. SET THE MOOD
This isn’t one of those occasions to dive right in for a quickie. Focus on setting the mood and easing into the big event. Dim the lights, turn on some music, and get comfortable. Why rush to the finale?
5. DON'T IGNORE YOUR S.O.
Sure, it may be easy to get excited about having someone new in your hookup sesh, but make sure you don’t ignore your significant other. You’re partner’s vulnerability is at an all-time high, so be sure to pay attention to their actions and emotions to make sure they are enjoying themselves.
6. PLAY IT SAFE
Adding another person into the mix increases the risk - don’t forget protection!
7. HAVE FUN!
Most importantly, the night is all about having fun. Don’t worry if the night starts off awkward or if your game is a bit off - It’s (most likely) new for everyone involved, so just relax and have a good time!
What do you think - Would you have a threesome with your partner, or would you join another couple for an adventurous night? What are your thoughts or tips for the occasion?
What Girls & Guys Said
0 3I would simply add:
8) Don't be selfish!
A threesome is three people, all having sex with each other. That means everyone is supposed to be fulfilled, and content, when all is said and done. Be generous with the attention you give your partners.
My tip: it's incredibly difficult for a single guy to get a threesome. The only thing a guy needs to focus on is attracting a girl that is up for this. Once a man has a woman by his side that is open to these things, does he have a chance.
I've only done a threesome once. It was a lot of fun. It was MMF but no contact between the other guy and myslef. I'd do it again given the opportunity.
Wİth whom mmf?
@Ramieres Yeah, no male on male contact.