Often, you may hear or read about staying virginal until marriage. Well, let me tell you about a similar life path - being celibate for life. Here are reasons why you, assuming you are virgin, want to stay celibate for life.
You find women/men a distraction
You are a busy person. You don't have the time to find a partner and settle down, let alone deal with all the mind games that your partner may play on you. You know keeping a girlfriend or boyfriend requires time, effort, and energy, which is why you just don't do it. Instead, you use up your time to do what you have to do and what you want to do, and a relationship is just not one of those things.
You don't want to have sex... ever
You live in a society in which too many young people are having sexual intercourse or contact outside of marriage, effectively making them unsuitable marriage partners for you. You find your own personal beliefs at odds with your peers. The philosophical incompatibility may not resolve in the marriage, and the future children that result may receive conflicting attitudes about marriage. That said, you think that it's impossible to find a virginal spouse, so you give up trying.
Sex is too worldly for you
As a spiritual person, you want to focus more time on the divine and otherworldly things. Marriage and family life are worldly things or secular matters, and sex cannot be separated from marriage.
You are just not attractive enough
You know you are an ugly duckling. You are not attractive physically, and your personality may not attract a lover. You don't have a sense of humor, because every time you try to be funny, you're not funny. And when you don't try to be funny, it feels like people are laughing at you, not with you.
So, what do you think? Do you think these are all reasons why lifelong celibacy is a viable option?
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