I hear a lot on this site about how easy it is for girls to get laid, to be taken on expensive dates etc. etc. etc. but here are four reasons why it's still pretty awesome to be a guy
1) Speaking your mind isn't only accepted, it's encouraged!
When a girl speaks her mind it's not seen as super sexy to a lot of guys. Many guys do love it and even prefer it, but many, many others fantasize about a girl who is more seen than heard. Men tend to value you a woman who speaks with an economy of language--meaning every word she says counts and is integral to her point its not extraneous. Even if she is loud and bubbly she isn't a chatterbox. When it comes to moral stances, a girl who is constantly bringing up the fact that something is sexist, for instance, is shot down. As a guy, keeping things to yourself is anti-attraction. When you have a lot of opinions you're passionate, you're confident, you're contributing to the intellectual sphere of group think. Whether you're a liberal or conservatiev man's man or pretty boy your opinion is valuable and needed because it is unique and so should be said.
2) Your sexual parts are not always on display
Yes, if you a super big dick it makes for good gossip among the girls at your office, your friend group etc, but for random girls on the street unless you are wearing underwear and pants that show it off you could honestly be hiding anything down there. A girl can play down her huge boobs or play up her small ones but we always have an idea what she's working with. Of course, one could say this is an advantage for them not a disadvantage, but overall i'd say having control of how much of your sexuality is being out there and judged is a better deal.
3) You can have a belly and it can actually help you
Ok, it probably won't help you, but it won't hurt you. What a belly does for you is tell you i must be confident, i must be attentive and a good listener, i must work to show her an awesome time because i don't have that Men's Health cover body. Since girls value these things more anyway you're doing exactly what you should do. For her, it makes her less insecure about her own body. If you have 6 percent body fat and she has 14 she's going to feel like a little piggy in bed with you and this is not only going to dry her up if you even get that far it may even turn her off from the thought. Finally, there's something comforting about knowing you can gorge yourself on a dominos pizza and watch netflix with a smile on their face while they at the same time are at the gym killing themselves on teh elliptical and afterward they still want your penis so long as you're fun and interesting to be around. It's the mindf*** you actually love to have happen.
4) You aren't compared to every other guys constantly no matter what
You surf you play baseball your dad owns a vineyard in the south of france...and you are Matt while Matt's female equivalent is "that hot rich surfer chick."
You play video games, you love indian food, you sold your first painting when you were 17. You are Sterling...while Sterling's female equivalent is that "hippie artistic chick"
Hopefully you get the point that you aren't given a lable that compares you to every other guy that ever lived distinguished by a few hobbies and interests. You are always you and that's an awesome thing.