I have never really needed birth control pills. Most of the guys I have gotten involved with sexually have strangely always wanted to use condoms or strongly preferred oral/anal to avoid pregnancy with me. At first I didn't think much of it but after so many years I realized there is something wrnog with this picture
I always hear stories from women (especially light skinned and white) about how men are careless with condoms, or try to bargain their way out of using barrier methods. Or they got caught up in the moment and forgot to use a condom. I've never experienced this either. Or online I read about how some men would rather not have sex than to use a condom. I have NEVER met a guy who wanted me so badly that he'd forgo a condom. I wish I could meet a guy like this because it would make me feel attractive, beautiful and desirable
There was one woman who was racially mixed and had HIV. She claimed that men didn't even care that she had it and still tried to have sex with her without a condom. It's obvious that the more lighter and attractive the woman is, the more desire the man has to procreate and have unprotected sex w/ her
I honestly feel that men always use condoms or prefer oral with me is because they dont want to get a darkskin black woman pregnant. they think our kids would be ugly. if I were lighter i'd probably have tons of guys wanting to get me knocked up
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