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The Problems With Having A Large Butt Along With Small Breasts

I am a tiny person, but I have a nice sized booty for a girl my size, yet I'm only a 36B and it's difficult.

The problems with having a large butt along with small breasts.

Dresses?

Forget about it. It's too tight by my hips and my butt but too loose around my breasts.

V-neck shirts?

I need a padded bra and maybe even an under shirt to make my breasts look okay.

Skirts and shorts?

They will rise up my butt while shirts will never fit 100% right because of my small breasts but very padded bras.

The teasing.

I'll get teased for being flat chested or for having a huge ass (yes my friends say "omg jade your huge ass almost did _____")

The Problems With Having A Large Butt Along With Small Breasts

Self esteem.

The only time I like how I look is when my butt looks amazing in pants and on the rare occasions my breasts do too.

Lingerie.

Lingerie will most likely never fit someone with my body correctly. They're mostly made for large breasted, skinny girls with nice butts. If someone with my breast size wore lingerie like below, our boobs would look non-existant, they wouldn't be pushed up. (And that's another problem, push up bras don't help if there's nothing to push up)

The Problems With Having A Large Butt Along With Small Breasts
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Most Helpful Guy

  • I've always preferred small boobs. But saying that, 36B is not small. Do not worry about it. You are fine as it is.

    Some guys like large butts, some guys like small boobs. Some guys like both, and they will be attracted to you immediately because of that.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I'd rather have small boobs and a big butt than big boobs and no butt girlllll

    • but why it's not fun

    • I agree with you. How tall are you? A big Ass is sexy anyways.

    • @teawrecks I totally agree I don't have much of a butt either. Some people are just lucky I guess but me, not so much. My mom didn't give it to me.

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  • It's best to just work with what you have. In that situation it is better to just shape the buttocks, and keep yourself at a healthy weight to manage your size. I have seen plenty of women who have that problem and is very overweight. It doesn't help.

  • You've just explained the struggle of my life. Honestly you have. I have small boobs , but a big butt. I hate wearing bikini tops because I look flat chested and trying to make my boobs look half decent is a bitch. But my butt refuses to let me wear nice skirts or pants that actually fit my waist. It's like the only thing my pants are hanging on to is my butt. Trying to wear a belt really no point because it looks all mangled around the waist.

  • There is no problem... if you look good... you look good and that look good. There is no spoon! think about it...

  • I feel your pain! I just buy a size smaller but in a stretchy material. All my jeans and dresses are now stretchy, they now fit much better. You've got to work out what's best for you.

    My ass knocked someone's drink off a table recently. :I

    • Seeing that, I'd feel thirsty.

    • Lmao good job. I sat on a desk and my ass took up the entire space (like a regular sized desk)

    • Are those your real teeth?

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  • You had me at large butt... just saying. if that comes with a nice personality... im going for the home run lol.

  • Flared out skirts and a line dresses.
    I have no chest and I wear vline shirts anyways - the lack of cleavage adds a little more to my neckline. I have a bandeau and those are way more comfortable than a bra.
    Smaller torso flaring out into wider hips just looks so much better than largo torso tapering into a narrow lower half.
    It's also easier to get a defined waist (not sure how true that is for everyone else tho).

  • Porblems with clothing happens to any girl which isn't ruler shaped. 😂
    But this was interesting to read, to see the other side of the story as well. ^·^

  • That girl in the white dress. She's like the perfect amount of thick😍😍 I love it

  • 36B is okay especially when you're skinny. Im a 38A with a big butt, that's even worse. Luckily not all guys mind but Id love to be a B

  • Oh don't be so modest.

  • Awwww, you poor thing. :(
    I'll bet you've never been waved to the beginning of the line and let in free to the club. And no one will ever hold a door for you. And getting a cab has to be the absolute worst in the summertime. Oh! And let's not forget how totally negligent men can be; you probably don't get a polite greeting all day long. No one probably ever ask for your number either, huh? Offers for dinner dates? To pay your way into a venue? Always paying for your own drinks? Lacking friends with expensive toys?
    I guess we all have our crosses to bear, huh?

    • No I haven't. Nope I haven't, I'm usually the one holding doors open for everybody. I've never used a cab. People usually ignore me so no, no polite greetings! People only ask for my number when they've been dared to. (I hear it happen cause they're idiot guys) Never been on a date. All of my friends are poor like me. Yea I really do have my own cross to bear, but I'm sure mines a lot more serious than any YOU have to deal with if you have such a negative view on girls. Bullied my entire life up till 10th grade, my dad beat me and caused me to be suicidal. My ex broke my heart. But thanks for stereotyping and assuming when EVERYTHING you've stated was 100% wrong! @redeyemindtricks I'm sure you'll have a lot to say about this.

    • Heh I actually don't have much to say, other than that commenters should really double-check posters' ages. Ffs. LOL Oh, and, WHAT THE FUCK IS IT WITH THE INTERNET AND HOLDING DOORS? Like, really? REALLY? I've lived ALL OVER THE ENTIRE WORLD, and, pretty much everywhere I've lived... people have held doors open for... people. I mean, the way people on the internet talk, you'd think that men get doors randomly slammed in their faces all the time by spiteful women, even when they're carrying precarious armfuls of fragile items. Lol. Nope -- never seen it happen. I mean, even my 5-year-old already got that memo. If someone's clearly heading toward the door... you hold it, as a matter of courtesy. How hard is that? Finally, I've NEVER accepted dates where the full freight was paid by the dude, because... uh, nope. Fuck all that, with expectations and shit. Nope. Just takes ALL the sexy right out of it, right up front.

    • ..." She said sarcastically knowing he was taking her every typed letter of her answer for the insanely hypocritical bullsh*t (not to mention outright lie) it is. Go sell ketchup popsicles to Inuits in white sealskin gloves in July. You'll have better luck with them before anyone else believes a person with a body like that has the kind lackluster social life you claim she does.

  • Get implants to have bigger boobs, loose weight to get smaller ass!

  • I don't understand you. In a comment you mention having an ex, and then that you have never been on a date. Don't see how you can never go on a date and have an ex. And you have a very attractive face, and your bust is the size that many of us guys prefer. And for many of us Butt is not a big deal. So right now you are very attractive and you have years of growing yet, too.

    Because of your age I will stop right there. Just realize you are very attractive.

    • Dating someone is different than going on a date with someone.

    • and thanks

    • Adding "ing" to a word means to do an action repetitively. Such as hop and hoping. The Urban Dictionary Definition of dating is "to be in the early stages of a relationship where they go out on dates to find out what each other is like, as a prelude to actually being a fully fledged couple." So what do those two words mean to you?

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  • Yes! I share the same woes. Everything fits snug around the butt and hips but my 32B's are non existent.

  • Aaaah, i feel you... I got an A cup but an rather big butt and geh... The struggle at times, very relatable

  • you sound like you've got a great figure! most of us dont have it all. I have slightly bigger boobs than you but no ass. My sisters have neither... maybe legs I guess. best to just work with what you've got & optimize that if u want. I know society's obsession with vanity can be a lot of pressure but its not worth it to become consumed with what we can't change. I don't think breast implants are looked at favorably yet so i dont think its worth it personally. Bs are perfectly fine though anyways!

  • The lingerie thing happened to me recently. The bra part of the outfit was like two cups too big and the rest fit perfectly, that sucked cause then it's like '... I wasted so much money on this, damn' 😋

  • Well maybe for the clothes issue you could try wearing a bralette instead of bras with padding.
    These look pretty nice.
    https://e.gojane.com/100142-e-black-0.jpg

    https://e.gojane.com/89966-e-navy-0.jpg

    demandware.edgesuite.net/.../51463625306_a1zm.jpg

  • I have the same problem as you, but I've learned to embrace it

    Little secret: a guy that loves you won't care the least about it and will still make you feel sexy as hell.

    Also, since I've dropped some weight and have tried to mantain myself fit, that I have learned to love my figure much more. And the butt is still big enough and no longer gets in the way of dresses, shorts, skirts, etc...

    As for the boobs, well yeah I know what you mean about them not fitting well and the padded bras. But I have tried to ignore that, really. Since I like my sexy boobies lol.

    • You will not only feel sexy as hell, for those of us who love small breasts you ARE sexy as hell.

    • lol @Red_Arrow Thanks

  • That's my type haha!
    I don't see how skirt/shorts size has to do with breast size.

    • its because of ass size

    • But that's just a problem with a large ass then. Not "a large butt ALONG with small breasts".

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