A Quick Note To The Men Who Send Contradicting Messages To Others


A Quick Note To The Men Who Send Contradicting Messages To Others

Dear "Man of Gold",

Why do you have to constantly contradict yourself?

You tell me that you're in it for love and nothing else.

But yet, when I'm in your company, all you do is pressure me.

You want me to remove my clothing, to show my feminine curves

of delicacy.

I want to believe you because you paint a very convincing story.

You tell me that you're not like the rest of the guys out there,

You're not in it for that "moment of glory".

A Quick Note To The Men Who Send Contradicting Messages To Others

"Mr. Man of Gold" , if that's the case.

Why do you quickly have to rush everything as if it's a race?

I want to take things slow, I want to move things at a reasonable pace.

But you keep trying to convince me, that is not how a woman, that is truly into a man,

must operate.

A Quick Note To The Men Who Send Contradicting Messages To Others

I have the eyes of a child,

the age of a woman,

the experience level of one who carries years worth of wisdom,

Why is it that you think I can easily be fooled?
I've heard from other girls that when they give into you too fast, you call them a slut.

When they withhold from you, you tell them they ain't shit, that their vagina will collect


Mr. "Man of Gold" you are so cruel!

If all you really want is sex from a woman,

Be real with her instead of creating an illusion.

A Quick Note To The Men Who Send Contradicting Messages To Others

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A Quick Note To The Men Who Send Contradicting Messages To Others
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Wanderingheartbeat
    Men would say or do anything to get pussy. Even if they have to lie their way through it.
    But a lot of the time they don't know what they want.
    Or no they do know, but what they want contradicts what they go for or what they seek.
    It's so confusing.
    But then again girls can be the same.
    I've had men that out right wanted to marry me. Handsome, smart, likeable men but because they tried to romanticize themselves with a lot of BS I lost interest. Same with guys who wanted to date.
    Just be your fucken self.
    Is this still revelant?

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  • Chief16
    Yep totally relatable, used this somewhere else but I guess it fits this Take.
    Good Take senpai.
    Is this still revelant?
    • That is the most dumb fuck representation thing I have ever seen and 5 delusional women agree. That's 6 dumb people who follow incorrect stereotypes. Seriously. Like, I am horrified.

    • Chief16

      @Scrambledagain sigh.

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  • Viperkiss
    Applauding your own take is egomaniacal.

    Look all guys want to sleep with you. It's not like the guy who wants a relationship with you doesn't want to sleep with you. He does and he will. There is nothing wrong with that. When you sleep with a guy right away you inherently take the risk that he doesn't want more. The only thing that can prove to you that he does want more is if he sticks around. If you aren't comfortable with the risk of sleeping with somebody and not having them stick around then basically you're going to have to not sleep with him and hope they will stick around. If they don't then they're only in it for sex. If they become an idiot and call you names because you don't sleep with them right away, they are not for you. Which sucks but at least you haven't slept with them. If they are OK with not having sex right away and stick around then you know you have somebody good. Unfortunately the good ones for men and women are far and few between and there will be lots of disasters in finding a good one but in the end they are out there.

    You will kiss many frogs before you find your prince.
    • Stacyzee

      This article is about a certain type of man. The type that lies in order to get what he wants.
      I've already met the right type of man. I am only writing this to women because it's common many have this problem , they come across those who only want sex. I am way past that phase in my life and know how to spot men that are like this from a mile away. These girls that are currently going through this will find your advance useful.
      Thanks for answering and ur well detailed answered.

    • Stacyzee

      *advice useful

    • Stacyzee

      Also I can applaud my take if I want.
      The photo was more so to represent women who don't have a voice who have to deal with men that are that way.
      but of course , I don't expect you to get that.
      Create your own take and post the types of photos you would like , that always works instead of trying to dictate how someone wants to display their creativity.
      I liked your advice which be useful to other women but your attempt at calling me out is failed.
      Instead of assuming you know the message , it's OK to take a back seat and ask questions.

  • Spiorad_Aisce
    Yes there are a lot of men out there like that - I can't comment on it that much because I don't understand it - I see so many takes on here about people not being who they really are and I am thinking to myself I am finding it hard enough to figure out who I am without trying to be someone else to hide who I am in the first place (I am even getting confused typing in the sentence) - I suppose the only saving grace from your two take is not all men/women are like this and I am quite good at spotting those who are so I will save my energy for those I believe are genuine.
  • aliceinwonderland69
    This be like all the so called 'nice guys' of the Internet.
  • M_A_X
    Did you mean to contradict yourself by sounding like a sexist?
    • Stacyzee

      Obviously, you're taking this quote personally because the man I describes is of your description. All of the other men answered without taking offense, because they know they aren't that way.
      It's funny that when women write a take about a certain type of man they're automatically labeled sexist.
      But when I write a take about a certain type of woman, that automatically goes ignored.
      Get off your high horse!
      You're obviously a piece of shit.

    • Stacyzee

      **taking this article personally

    • M_A_X

      Maybe because it's sexist to stereotype people? Hmmm

      Maybe you're doing that right now and further proving me right?

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  • bleeeep
    Me. gold really just sounds like an immature guy.
    • Stacyzee

      Yes, unfortunately more guys than are willing to admit are like that.

    • bleeeep

      Which is odd because you'd figure that it'll come out sooner or later. Just boils down to being straightforward.

  • SunsetRose
    Preach my queen!
  • YourFutureEx
    Well, we live in a sad world. Use... or get used.