Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I actually post this Take to show the very true reality of the subject. A lot of people tend to think that guys looking for sex online or sending sexual messages to women are desperate, lonely, or virgins, but it is actually very much the opposite a lot of the time. In today's times, the Internet is one of the quickest places to find sex or hook up for it, and I'm actually surprised that so many people don't see this.
Guys who do it, do it because they can...
A big fact is that a lot of guys who look for sex online know it's one of the easiest ways to get it. Although women like thinking the guys are desperate and lonely and won't be getting any sex from them, it's still not stopping guys from getting it from other women they meet. A guy can get online, chat up a woman, and the next thing you know he's got her phone number and they're planning on meeting for real in the near future, and it will result in sex. That's a very real truth of it. It's how some women even get killed that way.
While I've never actually arranged to hook up with a chick from online, I will admit that I've had countless sexual conversations with women on more than one site, and have done cyber sex/role playing from time to time, yes. And contrary to the idea that the biggest reason women block men is for being "pervs" or talking sex with them, that has really been the case very little of the time for me, and I've almost always been the one to initiate. 98% of the time - okay, I'll say 95% to make room for error - the reasons women have blocked me is because they didn't like something I said, or just for stupid, childish reasons. Not really because of any 'sexual advances.'
Having said that, guys who go online looking for sex, do it simply because they can. Because it's that available. And often do it with more women than one at a time. Is it okay? Not necessarily, but it is what it is.
Looking for MORE...
I'm not sure I'd say most, but in reality many, many men online who look for sex and message women are actually already married or have girlfriends a lot of the time. So why are they looking for sex? Because they want more, or better. They want different women they can play with, to vary their options. And believe it or not, it does work.
Sometimes these guys are pretending they're single even though they are already taken, but racking up fuck dolls online. I've heard the awful stories some of my women friends have told me about how heartbroken they were because they fell for a guy online who they later found out has been married for years. Other stories are worse in that the woman finds out that not only has she been fooled but other women on the same site have been his play things too. And it doesn't stop there - these guys have even more women on other sites. Then other times the guy really doesn't hide the fact that he's already taken and the woman he meets online knows it and doesn't care, and still wants him.
You do have some guys out there who are lonely and desperate and go online trying to get something fast, but I think this scenario tends to be more of wishful thinking on the part of females. It's easier for them to imagine that most guys looking for sex are doing so cuz they can't get none, when in reality a lot of those guys are already getting it, and just want more women to get it from, or women who have the kinds of appetites or capacities they have. Some are also looking online for chicks who will do threesomes with them and their girlfriend/wife - I remember the days when I would get detailed messages from husbands almost like an ad in a newspaper, saying how they and their wife were looking for this kind of partner with this kind of ability and that kind of devotion. It really was quite astounding.
The Internet makes sex very available...
As mentioned earlier, the dot-com world is one of the easiest ways to find sex, for anyone really, but guys who seek it out may know this the most. If it really never worked, not even 1% of the time, then you just would never have any guys doing it. But they do it knowing there are plenty of women out there who are very willing to oblige them, even if they have to go through 30 "No"s from 30 women, they'll still hit on what they're looking for.
I'm not saying it's necessarily okay for these guys to do it, but it is what it is. It's not a pleasant part of the Internet but it does exist. I don't want to say that women should just "deal with it," but I would say they should expect it. Though there are even plenty of women on the Internet looking for sex too, it's just not something a lot of people really talk about or choose to believe.
What Girls & Guys Said
2 1Well the parents will find out one day that their son has jizzing all over on the internet. Website or become a net porn star.
Lol. No, most of these guys will never be found out. However, it's often the chicks who get uncovered though, especially on Facebook.
What if the dad goes on the porn site and finds his son spraying milk for the world to see? Anything can happen.
"A guy can get online, chat up a woman, and the next thing you know he's got her phone number and they're planning on meeting for real in the near future, and it will result in sex. "
But we're so flakey tho.
"It's how some women even get killed that way."
Wow dude you made it dark
" I will admit that I've had countless sexual conversations with women on more than one site, and have done cyber sex/role playing from time to time, yes."
Doesn't mean they'd fuck u irl.
But that's what I'm saying. They will fuck in real life, yes. This Take is just the bare facts of it. Like I said, it's easier for women to imagine guys getting sex from online isn't that likely, but it's happening a hell of a lot, yeah.
If YOU arrange a date with a girl that leads to sex I'll believe you.
I could tell you all about my experiences online that I wouldn't let become sexual like the WOMEN actually wanted. I've had women say I should do phone sex with them, which would eventually lead to them wanting to actually call me and hook up. I've had single mothers who saw my picture tell me they would definitely want to have sex with me if I lived closer. I even had a girl on Google+ last year ask me for sex once she found out we lived in the same state! She was actually willing to drive alllllllllll the way to my end if I said yes, and when I said no, she wasn't interested in talking anymore. I wouldn't need to arrange a date to prove it to you or anyone else for that matter, and other guys wouldn't either. For anybody in these times to be so naive as to think this isn't really going on is astounding.
I'm absolutely positive their are men who can get sex from online dating. I'm absolutely positive your not one of them.
It's a clever comeback, and wishful thinking for you, but not even close to the truth. Hell, I could even give a resume.
Do you think it portrays women being easier or just more available. I think these days society is telling women they are allowed to be horny where in the past it was unfortunately for my generation a bad thing.
I think it's both actually. That's sort of what I was trying to explain to people before, that although women like imagining it's hard for guys to get sex from them, women are actually easier and more available for men for the taking in these times more than ever before. It's a hard truth, but one nonetheless.
Agreed