Slut/Stud Double Standard

[Anonymous]

My Theory on why for thousands and thousands of years, society slut shames promiscuous women is a combintaion of human instinct, evolution and natural selection.

Human behavior when it comes to men vs women all boils down to Testosterone and Estrogen.

Same in the animal world. Testosterone compels the male species to do whatever it takes to reproduce and to reproduce a lot.

The reason why human males tend to gravitate towards voluptuos young women is nature's incentive subconciously telling them that that body will be able to handle child rearing, youth ensures they have many years ahead of them to give birth to children and big breasts to nurture said children. So, testosterone is released, making that man horny, and ready to have sex and do it now.

Unfortunatly for the males, Estrogen compels female species to do what ever it takes to find a Suitable mate to bring strong healthy offspring into the world. A lot of ways some women try to help this process along is the subconcious urge to practice good grooming skills to look as attractive as possible to attract a good quality male and to keep him. It is in the female DNA to be very very selective. This is why the male species compete with other males. This is why male lions have manes, male deer have to flash their antlers and lock horns with other males to prove how healthy and strong they are to the female, Male peacocks have those feathers,Gorillas puff out and beat their chest etc. In many species the male bird's skill at nest building is a sign of his suitability as a mate; he invests huge effort in the task. Males of the European house wren build up to 12 nests to attract females. They will continue to build new nests until a female is happy with the construction.. It says : “ Look at how successful I am. I am a good provider.”

Everything is hard driven in the male species to get her attention. In primates, when the female is wanting to mate, she exhibits a behavior that’s different from when she is not ready. Her backside gets swollen and red and she displays it to the best male apes. It is a female version of a mating dance. The male knows she is ready. Instinct tells that male she is ready.

Now even though the human species is more sentient and evolved, testosterone and estrogen are still present. Whena woman is twerking her ass up and down or When a woman is walking around half naked, it reminds men of being naked or she want’s to mate . When a woman is naked around a man, it usually means she is ready for sex or is about to have sex. So by showing so much skin, it sends those subconcious primal signals to the man's brain saying she is ready to reproduce, which in turn activates the testosterone in his body making him horny. He does not know what is causing it, all he knows is that his body is telling him to go after her, and the urge is strong.

So, like in the animal kingdom, instinct subconsciously compels Men to do things to be noticed. Some men will be subtle: Suck in his gut, broaden his shoulders, stand taller, straighten his tie or shirt, rub the back of his head or put both hands behind his head to display arm muscles and so on and so on. Some are not so subtle : Cat calling, approaching the woman, talk louder or become more boisterous when in a group of other men etc. . It's a male deer, peacock, gorilla version of "Look at me, pick me" Those theoretical feathers fluff up, that chest puffs out , and the antlers grow. They don’t really know why they do it per se, just that Instinct makes them do it. Just with the fight or flight instinct when being threatened. Either fight, or cower to make your self look as little as possible and to look like less of a threat.
People, like Rapists, serial killers, criminals, drug addicts, low lifes or people with defects of character are seen as being at the bottom of the gene pool. There is something wrong with those people. A bad egg had been born; Often the result of a long bloodline of dysfunctionality , and/ or hereditary flaws that keep perpetuating throughout generations. These are often the types most men and women avoid, or try to avoid.

Now as a society, the human race wants to thrive and repopulate the next generation with healthy, intelligent successful offspring, otherwise the human race will start to de-evolve .

If you have healthy offspring, that offspring needs to find other healthy mates to reproduce into the next generaton and so on and so on. We don't even think about it. We don't even REALIZE this is WHY we do it.The instinct in Natural selection impulses natures incentive to continue to evolve. This is why mothers tell their daughters to find good men, and Fathers tell their sons to find a good girl, so THEIR children can have smart, healthy children to ensure a quality species continues to evolve.

So, this is where slut shaming comes in. Slut shaming has been going on for thousands of years. All throughout the evolution of civilization. The female who entices the male away from his suitable mate. The female who isn't very selective is seen as a threat to the evolution of the species by spreading STD'S and giving birth to and introducing not so good genes into the recipe of evolution and society. Sending mixed signals to the male. The instinct for Natural selection plays a big part in the reason why people slut shame. It is hard wired into our DNA , and urges society to try to put a stop to it. The thing with instinct, is we don't know why we do it. Just like when a cat or a dog has puppies or kittens for the first time, and you think "Wow, how does she know to eat the umbilicord like that, how does she know to lick them clean and to nurse them like that?" it just comes natural.

So, in conclusion, my theory of why these types of women are looked down upon is not for superficial reasons, But quite contrarily a deep rooted basic instinct to ensure the success of the evolution of the species by Natural Selection.

[anonymous83]

I get it. It makes sense. But the fact of reality, is that men are sluts too. You cannot say one is a slut without the other. Men who are players are sluts, but worse than that, they are rude at the most disgraceful level. They engage you emotionally, psychologically, and physically without being honest about what they really want. This is not acceptable. Society just wants to make this bullshit excuse about only women being sluts, because they don't want to take any responsibility for the fact that men have the same type of behavior. How bout the @sshat man who tries to seduce a woman out of a good relationship? SAME F*CKING THING. How about we cut the scapegoating bulls*it and start calling things for what they are? Because both of these types of men and women are pretty disrespectful.

[Kylesar]

I seriously wonder why people still hold on to the stud/slut mentality. It's not relevant in this day and age
Seriously, unless they're some PuA, who is trash in the first place, no guy is praise some "stud."

Men have huge issues with competitiveness and ego. If he's out fucking a ton of girls, all the guys around him will most likely resent him. The only ones who will praise him are people with a similar status, or his followers if he spreads his knowledge

[ivaneca]

^ That. Only "studs" might praise other "studs". Wow, I hate that word...

[CT_CD]

I agree