For when girls continue to know what you're up to and shut you down...
***I do believe if you're confident and your best self a girl won't care what you are because you will be such a joy to be around as you're very secure in yourself. However, this is for those times you are not bringing full confidence and need a cheat sheet to carry you across that line...
1) MAKE FUTURE PLANS
Talking about future plans cements in their head that you see at least an immediate future with them. Suggest some things you could do on second and third dates. How next time you'll make the trip over to her place instead of her always coming to you.
2) HAND HOLDING
Hand holding will normally freak a girl out if done before you're entering relationship threshold. However, holding her hand in bed is one of the must unanimously accepted moves towards intimacy in my experience in that a girl who doesn't feel comfortable with you or trusting of you enough to have sex or even kiss withh wrap her fingers with yours. This, like a non groin bumping hug, builds trust and respect. Sometimes you need to soften before you can harden if you know what i mean.
3) VICTIM MENTALITY
Claim to be a victim of anything really. Obviously no one likes someone who feels sorry for themselves, but a shy girls guard can be lowered by feeling like you've had it pretty hard. Whether it's a cruel father, a series of girls who never quite fit you, a career you've been struggling with...if she's wondering if you're just trying to get the hook up and freezing up as a result a well timed weakness can melt suspicions.
4) FALSE HISTORY
Question I almost always get asked if what's your longest relationship how many have you had when did you last date someone...obviously here its best to say one two maybe three. You don't want to have slept around a lot since thats an obvious sign she's the next notch.
5) ANXIETY PROBLEMS
And how do you get her out of there that same night without getting detected that you're no good? Feign anxiety issues like that you can't sleep with someone in the bed with you so she goes home without calling you a prick.