I'm a very submissive person. I give in easily, and I'm often described as a pushover. Similarly, I'm a submissive in the bedroom. I can't dominate another person, whether it be sexually or otherwise. I'm not a leader in any way shape or form, although I wish I could be. In my mind I have so many amazing ideas and some pretty good team building skills, I'm just too shy to try and lead others to success.
I also want to dominate my partner and tell them what to do for awhile, but I simply don't find the idea of being in charge very appealing. I prefer to be told what to do in a sexual setting, so I fear being asked to switch rolls for awhile since I know I'll just feel very awkward and probably make the whole situation less than satisfying. I'd much rather be dominated.
In person I'm a very quiet girl. I don't say "no" often, unless I feel strongly about not doing what's asked of me. This tends to allow people to walk over me. I'm overlooked and forgotten, and this can get pretty irritating, especially at the age where I just want to make a name for myself and be recognized. I think more about pleasing others than pleasing myself, and I bend to the will of those around me. I don't fight back very often, and if I do then it has to be something major. I don't get enough satisfaction from life as an overly submissive person, but I don't want to stand up and force my way into existence. I'm a shy little submissive and that's how it will stay.
I don't enjoy being told what to do outside of a sexual setting, but I normally listen anyway. I've been compared to having the obedience of a well trained dog, which really got my blood boiling. I've never tried to change this fact, though. Being an overly submissive person can really suck some times, but it's who I am and I have to embrace it, no matter how frustrating it can be at times.