There's a never ending battle going on inside of me when it comes to sex and being dominant or submissive. I have 2 inner beings. One is a dominant sex goddess that wants to tie you up and have her way. And maybe leave a bite mark or 2. The other is shy and wants you take control. And maybe leave a handprint behind (no pun intended). Though the dominant side usually prevails, I can't starve my submissive side or she gets cranky. So there's this need to satisfy both sides. Join me as give MY TAKE on what it's like when each side is in control.
The Dominant Side Of Things
It seems like when most guys think of a dominant female, they automatically think "she wants to do butt stuff to me". I've seen it multiple times on some of the questions I've asked. For me, that couldn't be more wrong. I'm not interested in your butt guys, so you can breathe. I'm not into chains and whips and such either. When I say that I'm dominant, I mean that I want to be in control. It means that I want to tie you up and that you'll do what I say. I want to blindfold you and heighten all your other senses. It simply means that I'm going to be the aggressive one.
A Submissive Train Of Thought
I'm more laid back and reserved in my everyday life. Kind of shy and introverted. This picture is everything my submissive side needs. Just the thought of being pushed up against the wall is enough to make me all tingly. The funny thing is that when my submissive side is in control, I still like to challenge. I'm totally the "make me" kind of girl. Why? Because it does something to guys. Makes them go all primal. Just what my submissive side likes.
So that's a little look into the two sides of this switch. I personally think that switches keep things interesting. I know most guys would rather be dominant all the time, but I imagine that would be boring. For me anyway. I need to be in control sometimes. I need to have my way. And you never know, you just might enjoy it! 😉
Stay classy GaGers. See you guys on the threads!
#CHARismaticOut ✌ ❤ 😎