Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I constantly read questions about people saying things like:
Should I sleep with him/her?
How do I know I'm ready?
I'm/My Girlfriends pregnant what do I do?
How can I be a parent?
And it's been driving me crazy!
DON'T HAVE SEX TILL YOU'RE COMFORTABLE!
That is the first thing I have to say! If you have to go to the internet to ask random strangers if you should sleep with someone odds are you're not ready and that's okay! You don't have to sleep with someone else just to make your partner or someone happy. If they don't love you or won't stick around because you won't sleep with them, they're not the right person! Sex isn't a tool to make someone love you. Sex isn't something to make someone stick around. Don't rush yourself.
That being said. If you are ready to sleep with someone it doesn't mean you won't be nervous. Just as long as you're prepared. It's also okay to stop at any point if you change your mind. It doesn't matter if he's hard or she's soaked. If it's already been inside. If you've been going for a little bit and you're in pain or just changed your mind. It's okay to stop! I'm not saying your partner will be jumping for joy at that but they shouldn't make you feel guilty about it in anyway! You don't have to jerk them off or give them head to finish them off if you are done then your done and that is OKAY!
BE PREPARED FOR CONSEQUENCES!
Preventing pregnancy and STIs is easy in this day and age you have no excuse! If you don't know how to use birth control and you don't know how to deal with a pregnancy you SHOULD NOT BE HAVING SEX! I never wanted to be a parent it's not my thing. But if you haven't guessed from the name I LOVE sex!
There is literally no excuse for not using multiple forms of birth control. Girls there are hundreds of different kinds of birth control out there.
"It makes me gain weight"
So will any hormone change in your body. It's easy to lose the weight. Plus try getting pregnant see how skinny you'll be.
"It makes me feel sick"
There are multiple birth controls out there. You have to put effort into finding the right choice for you. Try having morning sickness and your body being drained of energy from carrying another person that's going to make you feel sick too.
"It's too expensive"
Think about the cost of raising a child for the next 18+ years of your life you really think birth controls expensive after that
"I don't want my parents to find out"
Doctors can not tell your parents you are on birth control. And again get pregnant there's no way to keep that any sort of secret. I guarantee they'll be happier you're taking birth control than being knocked up.
"I'm bad at remembering to take a pill"
A Pill is effective when taken properly but it's a thing of the past in my eyes. So many people have issues remembering to take a pill at a specific time of day. There's the ring you put in once a month (if you're not comfortable touching yourself how can you be comfortable with sex). Can't handle once a month there's the shot you go every 3 months. Still to much to handle there is the IUD that's 3 or 5years of protection. Don't like the hormone factor there's even the copper IUD that doesn't use hormones.
For Guys
"Condoms are uncomfortable"
"Condoms reduce feeling"
"I can't get hard with a condom"
"Pulling out works just as well"
BULLSHIT BULLSHIT BULLSHIT! Of course it feels better without a condom. But you know what doesn't feel great an itching or burning sensation. Having pustules all over your privates that there is not cure for. You are relying on one your timing and lets be honest boys your not always that great with that and your not always in control depending on positioning and that your not with a girl that doesn't want a child at the moment. I can lie and say I'm on birth control and you can't confirm that. There are plenty of crazies out there. Women that think having a baby will keep you around. Women that want financial support so they get knocked up. Women that think the only way they can have love is to create it.
Enough with the stupid questions. Enough with the we accidentally got pregnant. Stop making excuses and grow up!
What Girls & Guys Said
0 2Condoms do reduce feeling. I know this as a fact! It feels ways better to not use a condom. However, condoms are recommended and obviously much safer. I usually always use a condom, but to say it isn't more comfortable to raw dog is ridiculous. It is more comfortable to raw dog.
Condoms can be uncomfortable if the guy has the wrong size. I'm typically good. The hardest part for me is getting the SOB on. I gotta do "the wiggle".
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You know it's like a big booty girl trying to fit in tight jeans. After that I'm good to go though.
I didn't say they didn't take away feeling. I actual stated of course it feels better without it
Oh okay.
"Women lie to get pregnant for financial support". What if your a guy needing financial support and want a child, this is a win win situation.
How many men do you hear about getting financial support for a kid. Moms are usually given custody.
Unmarried Men that lost a job but have a kid on the way
That's called welfare I believe