My Thoughts On; Not Wanting To Be Loved, Being Happy While Being Alone, How We Think And The Entire Scheme Of Life.

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My Thoughts On; Not Wanting To Be Loved, Being Happy While Being Alone, How We Think And The Entire Scheme Of Life.

Not wanting to be loved…that’s a feeling I could never have.

But I know what its like to feel as if I am not loved. I imagine that

not wanting to be loved comes from a deeply rooted self-hatred.

The feeling of not wanting to be loved comes from not feeling that

you deserve to be loved. Imagine you hate yourself, you feel as if

you don’t measure up to a certain person, that you believe they

deserve only the best in life, yet you feel as if you’re worst in life.

Not wanting to be loved means you don’t love yourself, but you

love someone else so much you don’t want them to love you, just

so they don’t have to “deal” with you. You’d give up anything for

the one you love, including their love.

Then there’s being happy but alone. This isn’t too difficult to

comprehend, is it? Whether it means being alone as in not having

a relationship or if it means having no friends or just being

secluded. You can be happy in those situations. Why? Because

you’re all you need. You don’t need someone to compliment you

all the time, you just gotta think positively. You don’t need to trust

others when they could hurt you. Just trust yourself. You can be

happy alone, you’re all you need. If it means crying by yourself or

masturbating, there’s no need for someone else to be there. If

you’re happy while being alone, then that shows the strength you

have as a person.

My Thoughts On; Not Wanting To Be Loved, Being Happy While Being Alone, How We Think And The Entire Scheme Of Life.

People have different ways of thinking, yet humans as a whole

believe their way of thinking is the correct one. We think what

we’re doing is the good thing, the right thing. Whether we think

that interracial couples are okay or if gays are an abomination.

There is a quote I enjoyed, I believe it goes “The fool doth think

he is wise, but the wise man knows himself to be a fool” and “The

wise man is one who, knows, what he does not know.”

I believe the entire scheme of life is just to live. You live as

you choose to. You affect the world. You make experiences and

affect people and earth and memories. Reality is what you make

of it. So if you’re depressed, you’re trapping yourself there by not

trying to make a change. That’s all that’s needed. One man, one

voice to make a change and it will happen. I believe everyone is

interconnected, you know someone who knows someone who

knows someone who knows someone who knows someone who

knows someone who knows someone who knows someone who

knows someone that’s met your favorite singer. Everything you’ve

done has left a footprint along the sand of time and everything

you will do will create a path for Father Time, along Mother

Nature’s love. We will eventually return back to Mother Nature,

once father time decides we’re done on earth. As all living beings

do, we will have lived simply to live and we will die.

My Thoughts On; Not Wanting To Be Loved, Being Happy While Being Alone, How We Think And The Entire Scheme Of Life.

My Thoughts On; Not Wanting To Be Loved, Being Happy While Being Alone, How We Think And The Entire Scheme Of Life.
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  • SovereignessofVamps
    You write these so well. I totally agree. people need to have more alone time so they can actually consider everything before making decisions that really impact them later on.
    Is this still revelant?

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  • Soulife
    I can only agree. You really described, among other things, the Law of Attraction. I am fascinated by your mind when I read these takes! :) thanks for the wisdom!
    Is this still revelant?

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  • Luci92
    Wow, this is amazing. Connected with me a lot, thank you :)
  • Waffles731
    "just trust yourself. You can be
    happy alone, you’re all you need. "
    I can't and thats one reason? I think i'll never be happy
    • Waffles731

      The only time I've ever ben happy was when I was in a relationship but she broke my heart

    • Waffles731

      I just really hope I find someone

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