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Not wanting to be loved…that’s a feeling I could never have.
But I know what its like to feel as if I am not loved. I imagine that
not wanting to be loved comes from a deeply rooted self-hatred.
The feeling of not wanting to be loved comes from not feeling that
you deserve to be loved. Imagine you hate yourself, you feel as if
you don’t measure up to a certain person, that you believe they
deserve only the best in life, yet you feel as if you’re worst in life.
Not wanting to be loved means you don’t love yourself, but you
love someone else so much you don’t want them to love you, just
so they don’t have to “deal” with you. You’d give up anything for
the one you love, including their love.
Then there’s being happy but alone. This isn’t too difficult to
comprehend, is it? Whether it means being alone as in not having
a relationship or if it means having no friends or just being
secluded. You can be happy in those situations. Why? Because
you’re all you need. You don’t need someone to compliment you
all the time, you just gotta think positively. You don’t need to trust
others when they could hurt you. Just trust yourself. You can be
happy alone, you’re all you need. If it means crying by yourself or
masturbating, there’s no need for someone else to be there. If
you’re happy while being alone, then that shows the strength you
have as a person.
People have different ways of thinking, yet humans as a whole
believe their way of thinking is the correct one. We think what
we’re doing is the good thing, the right thing. Whether we think
that interracial couples are okay or if gays are an abomination.
There is a quote I enjoyed, I believe it goes “The fool doth think
he is wise, but the wise man knows himself to be a fool” and “The
wise man is one who, knows, what he does not know.”
I believe the entire scheme of life is just to live. You live as
you choose to. You affect the world. You make experiences and
affect people and earth and memories. Reality is what you make
of it. So if you’re depressed, you’re trapping yourself there by not
trying to make a change. That’s all that’s needed. One man, one
voice to make a change and it will happen. I believe everyone is
interconnected, you know someone who knows someone who
knows someone who knows someone who knows someone who
knows someone who knows someone who knows someone who
knows someone that’s met your favorite singer. Everything you’ve
done has left a footprint along the sand of time and everything
you will do will create a path for Father Time, along Mother
Nature’s love. We will eventually return back to Mother Nature,
once father time decides we’re done on earth. As all living beings
do, we will have lived simply to live and we will die.
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