I love men. But growing up you realize that there are different kinds of them, some you like more, some less, some not at all. So many times we hear about "real men" and everyone has a different opinion.
Here is what i think:
Being a real man
is not about how much money you have.
Is not about how many women you have been with.
Is not about how masculine you look
Is not about the amount of "swag" you have
Is not about the size of your penis.
is not about how socially powerful you are
So:
1. A real man will stand by his family and he will do everything for his children and wife.
Real men stand by their children, they will never leave and abandon them for an easier life with a new girlfriend. Even if they get divorced from their mothers the children will still be their first priority. Those who just run away and rarely or never have contact are poor excuses of men.
2. A real man will be consistent.
He won't cut contact suddenly and for no reason and remember you again when he needs something. He will be there when you need him and he will make time even on the busiest of his days
3. A real man will be loyal.
Loyalty is rare nowadays. A real man will be loyal to his woman, loyal to his friends, loyal to his family, loyal to his purpose
4. A real man will never try to prove his manliness through violence because he doesn't need to prove anything.
He won't hit women because they "insulted him" or "pushed his buttons", he won't hit his kids because "they dont listen", he won't pick up fights on the streets . He will only use violence if is necessary to protect his loved ones
5. A real man will not make excuses for himself and he will admit when he is wrong.
So many guys are unable to accept responsibility for their actions and try to blame everyone else.
6. Real men work and try to make the best of their lives.
It doesn't matter what job or the lever or education or how much money they making. A low payed uneducated man is better than a spoiled brat that lives off his parents money and he is better than work shy people who chose to live off of social security.
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