People who Suck, Vol. 1: Guys who Demand Virgin Women

People who Suck Vol 1: Guys who Demand Virgin Women

There aren't many types of people that I would describe as a cancer of society, but today I'm going to talk about some that are Stage 4 Tumors.

Guys who demand their women be virgins.

Now, before we get started let's clear up two things:

(1.) It's okay to have preferences for those that you want to date. You can prefer to date people based on personality and physical factors, and I don't think anyone will hold that against you. This Take is not about preferences but rather demands.

(2.) On topic, if you're a guy who's a virgin, saving yourself for marriage due to personal or religious reasons, THIS MYTAKE IS NOT ABOUT YOU. As I'll explain later, you can meet the same standards that you're looking for in your partner.

Alright, let's get down to business:

Who are the guys demanding that women be virgins in the first place?

The ones that are a waste of precious resources and oxygen.

Basically, there are a small, but vocal minority of guys out there that are what psychologists like to describe as "Shitheads". These guys spend their time bragging about themselves on Internet forums (like this one) and think they are above other men (they aren't). The shithead can't really handle commitment or relationships, since these require maturity and responsibility, so instead he sleeps around with women to fill this void in his inner being. Generally these women are very alike him in personality (apart of the female equivalent "Hoebag") , but occasionally he fools a perfectly decent women into believing he's actually worth a damn. So he'll have sex with her, leave her (destroying her emotionally in the process), and go brag to his other shithead friends about his "conquest".

People who Suck, Vol. 1: Guys who Demand Virgin Women

(If shitheads looked the age of their maturity)

However, the shithead will eventually lose his "game", aka he can't fool women into thinking he's hot shit anymore. So he'll want to "settle down" with a "nice, sweet, virgin girl".

So now that he realizes the gig is up he'll try to assimilate into the normal adult world of monogamous relationships, or else his dick will be dry until the day he dies. However, he can't just date a "hoebag" girl like he used to bang. Oh no, those women are "beneath him". Instead, he wants a virgin girl.

Why do these shitheads want virgin women?

Three reasons:

(1.) They have very fragile egos, and thus the possibility that another guy could have come before and given her positive impressions of a proper man is a NO GO! Can't have any previous expectations that could expose him as the shithead he is!

(2.) Women are objects to them. This is obvious since they already saw women as fleshy sex toys in the first place, and the woman he was with is only good for bragging rights to him. Well now the woman's personality, physicality, achievements, and more are all worthless. The only thing that defines her now to him is her virginity.

(3.) They realize now that sleeping around with strangers like they did while getting their Communication degree in college is actually pretty disgusting. So now they don't want a woman who is as gross as himself, or has been with other men gross like himself, so that's why she needs to be a virgin.

Will these shitheads actually manage to get a virgin girl?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

*gasp*

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

No.

People who Suck, Vol. 1: Guys who Demand Virgin Women

Contrary to the shithead's beliefs, women aren't stupid and don't want to date a guy who still thinks his college frat is relevant. This might also come as a surprise, but women have standards for the types of guys they date too. Especially those virgin girls the shithead so desperately wants. Those girls aren't virgins because they've just been waiting for some narcissistic asshole to "properly" show them sex. They're virgins because they only date legitimately serious men, and aren't going to put up with guys that are shitheads. So the irony of the situation is the shithead wants a virgin girl but no virgin girl is going to date him because chances are she also wants a virgin or at least a guy that isn't some Casanova wannabe.

The shithead's master plan of trying to marry a virgin girl just collapsed in on itself like that. That is why on GaG you'll see questions from these shitheads asking how they can get a virgin girl, but no such stories about how they actually managed to do it.

Here's also another important life lesson: Don't hold others up to standards that you yourself cannot meet.

You see, some guy who's actually a virgin and trying to be involved with serious women only can actually want his girl to be a virgin. Why? Because he's holding himself up to the same standard as he expects from his partner. Someone that is a virgin can expect their partner to be one, but not someone who is a shithead. This can apply to many other areas in dating too. Such as one's education, body, income, etc. At the end of the day, being shallow is mostly about having very stringent requirements for a partner and it becomes hypocritical when you yourself can't meet those requirements.

Final thoughts

I myself am a virgin, and while I do have a preference that the girl I date in the future be a virgin, it's not even a requirement. All I really require is that she's loving and wants something real like myself.

Again, preferences and holding yourself up to the standards you want.

I also know that there are women who exhibit this behavior, but you only see them about as often as you a legitimate good movie in the Walmart $5 DVD bin, so I'll give them a pass.

And finally, just because someone is not a virgin does not mean they're loose and sleep around a lot. Many people only have sex in committed relationships. There is nothing wrong with this and unless you have a religious or moral reason to be against premarital sex, it shouldn't be a problem at all for dating.

Thank you for reading! Please fill free to leave any questions, comments, or insults below.

Have a suggestion on who I should write about for Volume 2? Just let me know!

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  • Idolizing virginity as a stand-in for women's morality means that nothing else matters- not what they accomplish, not what they think, not what they care about and work for. Just if/how/whom they have sex with. That's all.

    • Even worse... it's who they *didn't* have sex with. "I want a woman who's done nothing sexually..." ^^ Chop off the word "sexually" and we get what these guys are *really* after. A blank slate. An unfair advantage, essentially.

    • Virginity before marriage is an essential component of morality, but it is not the be-all-and-end-all of it. A woman who gives it up before is not 100% moral, or even close. But it is still possible to be a virgin and be a total psycho. I've seen the whole spectrum.

    • "Virginity before marriage is an essential component of morality... A woman who gives it up before is not 100% moral, or even close" Lmaooooo I can't tell if this is satire or not, but, dear sweet God I hope it is.

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  • Hahah this is great!
    Had a guy like this say I wasn't his standard to my boyfriend.
    When he dresses in joggers all day and has "sex with teenage single mums so he doesn't have to settle down till he meets a nice virgin girl."
    Uuugh
    Wouldn't touch a boy like this with a barge pole

    • Ah but if your not a virgin they wouldn't want you anyway.

    • You sure there aren't *some* things you'd want to do to him with a barge pole? 😂😂

  • Perhaps it's natural for males to want virgins. Think about it. You're the ones being penetrated, and a piece of the other man remains within you. Namely, his semen. Animal studies have shown that, females retain the dna of their past male partners. In fruit flies, the DNA of previous male sex partners, was absorbed into the eggs, hence the next male that gets her pregnant will have offspring that possesses the DNA of his female partner's previous male sexual partner.

    You can google " Women keep DNA previous lovers" and you'll see what you get. The man inseminates you, hence other men may not want to come in contact with the other man's semen. Most men don't want that. Women are the receptors, the vessels. So, a pure vessel, uncontaminated by other men, is the ideal. Women make baby bodies. A woman's body, creates, forms, the baby, the man's offspring. So, a female body that's been used and abused, screwed by multiple men, lowers a woman's reproductive value.

    I personally don't care how many men have screwed my girlfriend and inseminated her, because we're living in an era where, innocence, common sense, common decency, doesn't exist anymore. It's a dog eat dog world, and women for me are just a means of pleasure. I discard them when I'm finished with them, and move to the next one. They don't deserve the white knight in shinning armor. They deserve an evil dark knight.

    • ... huh there's a thing called "condoms". I don't know if you have heard of them.

    • Just a clear sicko mindset.

  • Thank you, it all boils down to this "Don't hold others up to standards that you yourself cannot meet"

    • You mean to say there is no chance of finding that virgin girl? smh

    • I wish i looked as cool as those kids in the photo

    • Now hold on a second. Virginity is a "standard"? That's I guess where humanity truly shows it's ugly side. Virginity is NOT a standard, it's a characteristic. And it is okay to have whatever preferences one wants to, provided they don't act entitled or do anything wrong. Think about it like this. I am not blonde, but I want my future girlfriend to be. Would you give me the same "don't hold others up to standards that you yourself cannot meet" sentence? Or would you just be like, "okay"? Think about it.

  • This was beautiful.

  • Thank fuck for this MyTake. Sick of creepy guys messaging me who judge me as being a good person solely on my virginity. I will not be your trophy

    • That really happens to you? Wow. Can't believe people can be this dense. :P

  • Is your second volume going to be about women who refuse to date virgin guys? Its only fair after all. I don't think it makes a person bad to want to date a virgin. Now if their going after anything that moves and then wanting a real relationship with a virgin then obviously that is a different story however the more partners a woman has the worse things usually are. Its been proven to be an indicator of divorce, cheating, low satisifaction within long term relationships etc. So I personally would have no issue with a virgin I would very much preffer the woman to have as few partners as possible (I personally do not have a large partner count, I do not believe promiscuity is healthy).

  • This is great! Thanks for sharing this.

  • Brilliant take! Though I think the dudes in the first picture are probably gay haha.
    How about Volume 2 on bullies?

  • Very funny and good points.

  • AMEN

  • Wow are you in NY?:) lol

  • I love this take!

    And can you're volume 2 be all about the dudes complaining like little bitches? It'll be hilarious for me to read.

  • You're a real man :)

  • I want a woman who:
    1. is fully committed to the ideal in her heart,
    2. is faithful, and religiously compatible,
    3. is not too jaded,
    4. is not a crackwhore,
    5. isn't secretly seeing anyone behind my back,
    6. won't judge me just because she suddenly gets a better-paying job,
    7. won't try to get me railroaded just because I can't help her with her schoolwork,
    8. learns from her mistakes, including sexual ones,
    9. isn't too proud about her sexuality to admit that a choice was wrong when it clearly was,
    10. isn't trying to start some demented revolution,
    11. isn't dabbling in Slavic voodoo,
    12. doesn't have a psycho mom,
    13. actually puts some effort into the relationship,
    14. doesn't try to hide me from others in her life,
    15. doesn't lie to me about everything,
    16. doesn't try to corrupt me,
    17. doesn't judge me over a video game I choose to play differently,
    18. doesn't judge me for asking her to call her parents on the phone to resolve a matter,
    19. doesn't have an STD,
    20. doesn't weasel her way out of seeing me just because I didn't quite match the impression she had based on word-of-mouth from matchmaker wannabes,
    21. and is so fixed on making what she has with me work; that she will make effort to stay in touch with me - to the point that, even if she royally screws something up and gets put in the sardine can, she won't give up.

    For starters, if I could get with a woman who can avoid these vices and stay strong with me no matter what cruel twists fate has for us, I'd be more than happy to throw in my lot with her- even if some other dude has left his "footprint" on her first.

    A girl with a sexual past, I can sort-of handle. Downside is, most crazies are non-virgins. And a man should only have to tolerate so much crazy.

    • And yes, most of this list, there is a specific woman I am referring to for each of these vices.

    • LOL I have a troll that I apparently blocked a while back because he insists on being a slut shamer... he's following me around down voting every opinion I post. FYI dude... the ability of blocked users to do that, will be going away soon. It's a "glitch" that's being used by trolls (guys and girls) just to troll people that they've been butt hurt and/or blocked by.

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    • The woman in the first picture is so fucking hot.

    • who is she?

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  • Lol, those guys in that first picture probably aren't even into girls...

    Awesome Take!

    • Oh yeah they couldn't be lol

    • Is that meant to be an insult or something? I'm getting that connotation from this comment.

  • I feel like virgin hunter only exist on gag. IRL being a virgin isn't something your praised for but a lot of people hate on. Only on GAG

    • They're real, I know one personally. And I hate that fucker so much. He dumped me cause I wouldn't sleep with him, back when I was a virgin. He was notorious for taking virginities of freshmen girls.

    • @AstroBabe were real and not all of us are assholes. most of us want to make you our wives and have children which we will raise together.

    • @dudeman Faith in hu (man) ity restored.

  • I want Virgin girl but I am not like those shit heads I am Virgin too. You can't ask for her virginity when you are not virgin yourself. NO one force me but I know,
    SHe hold it that far, She won't give to some shit head "SLUT on virgin hunt"
    ,
    I believe present something at table before asking for something. Finally I lost my virginity to my G. F, She was virgin too. WE were ready to marry when I turn 19 but my friends and family told us to wait,
    She will be my future wife and we very happy, that's why I want the virgin girl.

  • I was a similar guy to this about 15-18 years ago. I lost it to a non virgin and I turned into a monster. All I wanted to do was date non virgins so I could use them for sex and treat them like shit. All because I hated being a late bloomer.
    I did this to 4 girls that I know of. Looking back on it I would do it again and not change anything I did. But after I was done using non virgins I realized I was a non virgin myself and did not demand a virgin girl.
    Go out and create your own sexual history. Thats how late bloomers can cope. Just don't demand a virgin after you have banged a few girls.

    • why did you treat them like shit ?

    • @sara_nour in high school and college, I treated non virgin girls like shit because they were giving me their leftovers. I deserved better. Back then non virgins were not good enough so I treat them like shit. This is life, if you date an asshole, then the next guy you date will feed off of it and treat you just as bad. Guys like to treat already used girls bad. Back then I hated non virgin leftover girls. They only deserved 50% heart from me since they gave it up to some guy before me. The best thing you can do to someone not good enough is take from them, lead them on, then leave.

    • @sara_nour its a rule younger guys follow. If the non virgin girl is not good enough, lead her on, bang her for a while, treat her like shit, then leave on your own terms.

  • This is beautiful! THANK YOU!

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