Embrace Your Small Breasts

[mistixs]

Women who are bigger-breasted may not want to read this. Know that your breasts are just as awesome as smaller breasts, & that there are many aspects of bigger breasts that are advantageous over small breasts; however, this particular MyTake will focus on smaller breasts.

A girl just asked whether "breast size matters" & I responded, and figured I should make an entire MyTake about it to get the word out.

The general consensus is that most men generally do prefer bigger breasts over smaller ones. However, one man described it as follows: He'd prefer a bigger package of M&Ms, but he'd still be more than happy to take a small package of M&Ms, because M&Ms are amazing. This seems to be how most men view the issue of breast size.

First off, let me mention that the most common bra size amongst pornstars is actually a B-cup. https://www.livescience.com/27428-truth-about-porn-stars.html

Even outside of porn, some of the most prominent sex symbols, who many men think are sexy, have small breasts.

For instance, Megan Fox is a B.

Chloe Moretz is an A-cup. She's less well-known than the others I'm listing, but it is overwhelming how sexy many men find her. Many men were counting down till her 18th birthday & there are videos on YouTube about her "sexiest outfits" etc that men claim to fap to. The aforementioned facts are gross but they show that women with smaller breasts can still be sexy.

Rihanna is a B.

Finally, my favorite example is Alexandra Breckenridge.

She played a sexy maid in American Horror Story, and if you look at ANY video about her, it will be full of comments - from both men AND women, who say they would "go gay" for her - talking about how HOT she is.

Not ONCE did I ever see "she'd be hot but she has small tits."

A lot of her hotness comes from her demeanor and the way she dresses.

Anyway, enough admiring Alexandra Breckenridge and back to the point.

More benefits to smaller breasts:

- We can choose whether or not we'd like to be sexualized. If we want to be sexualized, we can go braless, wear a pushup bra and/or a low-cut top, or act in a sexy way, like Alexandra Breckenridge above. If we don't want to be, we can cover up easily. But women with bigger breasts don't have that much freedom; they're more likely to be sexualized even if they don't want to be. It's easy to make smaller breasts look bigger and/or sexier, but it's hard to hide bigger breasts if you want to.

- There's evidence that men who are richer, & less sexist, prefer smaller breasts.
www.medicaldaily.com/treasure-chest-what-mans-breast-size-preference-says-about-his-personality-traits-319504

- Small breasts are more erogenous, which is fun in the bedroom. Women with smaller breasts also orgasm more easily. https://out-of-limit.com/5-reasons-women-smaller-breasts-better-life/

- Less potential for sagging.

- Less expensive bras.

- It is easier to go braless.

- Less annoying while running and/or exercising, among other things. They get in the way less often.

- Less likely to be sexually harassed on the basis of your breasts

In sum, small breasts are pretty awesome, because ALL breasts are pretty awesome.

Check out this site for a gallery of normal breasts, and see how much diversity there is:
https://www.007b.com/breast_gallery.php

Love your breasts, ladies.

If a guy (or girl) rejects you because of your breasts, then they didn't truly love you anyway. Be grateful that your breasts served as a filter to get rid of people who didn't truly love you for who you are.

[Anonymous]

Everything I've read is actually even a little more positive than you suggest.

Something like 1/3 of men -prefer- small breasts to large. 2/3 prefer large to small.

Half of each of those groups cares much about size, the other half doesn't care much.

So if you're small breasted, 1/3 of men like it better, and another 1/3 prefer large but barely care and it's not a driver of how they decide a woman is hot.

I think women overestimate the proportion of men that like large breasts for two reasons:
- teen boys are more biased to large breasts than adult males are. I believe this is because at their age it's an important marker of sexual maturity - a non issue past age 20. Women don't realize that bias fades.
- Men in public look at large breasts much much more. This isn't ncesaarily because they prefer large breasts though - it's because large breasts are often more visible through clothing. We like seeing breasts. We are pretty transfixed by a cups with nipples poking through a tight sweater as well.

[mistixs]

Your final point is a good one. We women often think that simply because "my eyes are up here" is a more common thing for women with big breasts, that means that men only like big breasts, or even breasts in general. What I mean by "breasts in general" is that I was shocked to learn that most men were ass men, not breast men (although most still love tits). I conclude that my idea that men preferred breasts to ass is because we women notice men staring at tits more often, for obvious reasons. The same may be the case for the issue with big vs small breasts. Men's eyes may be more drawn to bigger breasts than smaller breasts but that doesn't mean that most men don't find small breasts hot too. Bigger breasts are simply more attention-grabbing than smaller breasts, which I guess we smaller breasted women should see as an advantage, because most women prefer men to look us in the face. Just because we notice men staring at bigger tits, and tits in general, doesn't mean they don't

[mistixs]

find smaller breasts, and asses in general, hot. And I suppose we shouldn't care as much what teen boys think anyway. They're more often immature & more likely to "only want one thing."

[Opinion Owner]

I'm actually not sure teen boys are really more or less likely to want casual sex can say 30 year olds. But the key is again women may 'learn' in high school that large breasts are what everyone wants and not notice that stopped being true. Most men I know who like small were indifferent on size as a teen.

[Lliam]

For me, it's much more about shape than size. I've seen amazing, pointy, A-size boobies that stick straight out into space and look amazing. Tits of most sizes can be wonderful. Except, I think my limit on size preference might max out at 34DD or so. I do like breasts that are large enough to bounce, sway and jiggle. But upturned, erect and pointed is my biggest preference. If they hold their shape but are still large enough dance in circles when a woman is on all fours, I'm in heaven.
I also have nipple preferences, too, but, again, I wouldn't hold hard and fast to any rules.

I think you are right about the fact that the main reason women think guys prefer large breasts is due to the fact that they are more noticeable. If a beautiful woman with prominent melons walks by, guy's jaws will drop and their eyes will pop out. We just love that cantilevered female form. We can't help it. But that doesn't mean that we would necessarily prefer that our partner have boobs that could smother us. .

[Anonymous]

The Hollywood myth is that all men prefer big breasts. Teenage boys believe this myth and, to prove their "manliness" to other guys, they will talk endlessly about how they like big boobs. Guys who prefer smaller boobs keep their mouthy shut because they think their preference is weird or maybe someone will call them a pedo for liking women who look like little girls.

Over the past 4 years, I have conducted several polls about guys preferences for boob size. It is a fairly even split between prefer small, prefer medium, prefer big, or have no preference. Interestingly, despite the fact that Hollywood helps to perpetuate the big boob myth, many sexy stars have small boobs, such as Keira Knightley, Kate Hudson, and Mila Kunis.

I prefer small boobs on a petite women. They are always so sensitive! My current girlfriend can orgasm just from having her boobs licked and sucked! Small boobs are definitely NOT a handicap!

[mistixs]

You had no need to be anonymous :P

[ThisGuyDucks]

This is wishful thinking, men are attracted to a nice, protruding, round, perky pair of tits they can grab on to.
We like women who look like women, big breasts are a signal that a woman has gone through puberty and is capable of feeding your kids.

Men don't have tits of our own, we like women who have a nice rack, if we liked flat/small boobs we'd date other men.

There's no point in being with a woman that doesn't have a nice pair of tits, no thanks.

And i can assure every guy would eventually get tired of a woman with no tits and will start fantasizing about women with great boobs if he's been with a flat chested women for a while.

We like something we can grab onto.

[mistixs]

Yeah, you're right. No men are attracted to women with small breasts. That's precisely why the breast size of the average pornstar is smaller than average. www.yahoo.com/.../...ruth-sex-stars-122610225.html

"big breasts are a signal that a woman has gone through puberty" so are pubic hair, leg hair, and armpit hair. Yet men aren't attracted to those, so that's an invalid argument.

"is capable of feeding your kids." Breast size has no bearing on breastfeeding ability. The extra size in big breasts is fat, which is not the part of the breast that creates milk.

"every guy would eventually get tired of a woman with no tits and will start fantasizing about women with great boobs if he's been with a flat chested women for a while." The vast majority of people fantasize about people besides their partners, regardless of their partners' body type.

[ThisGuyDucks]

Lol what? Most pornstars have big tits, they purposely get implants all the time, and it doesn't even matter what most pornstars tit size is, no one cares about them, you just watch porn and jerk off. And what? Body hair is very different than tit size, body hair doesn't signal puberty. Big tits very much signal a woman is done through puberty, it's triggers a man sexually. And no, when men get very attracted to their girlfriend all they think about is her and they rarely fantasize about other women.

[mistixs]

"Most pornstars have big tits" not according to research.

"it doesn't even matter what most pornstars tit size is" Exactly

"when men get very attracted to their girlfriend all they think about is her and they rarely fantasize about other women."
Research disagrees with you: "80% of married women will sexually fantasize about men other than their husband, while 98% of men fantasize about women other than their wife."
www.psychologytoday.com/.../fantasy-lovers

[ThisGuyDucks]

Men don't watch porn because they want to look at fake tits on blondes, men watch porn to let the cum built up inside out. Men watch weird kind of porn, I watch porn of shit and jerk off to shit I'd be disgusted by in real life and so do other men, what men watch in porn try don't want in real life. I can assure you, small tits are not attractive, flat chests are not attractive, again, if we liked that kind of bodies them we'd be with men instead. My opinion as a man is more significant in this matter than yours ever will, you don't get to decide what men like, men do. Just because you looked up some inaccurate BS study from Yahoo doesn't mean men like flat chests, i can assure you that's not how world works. Bustier women get larger tips than flat chested women, they get more attention, they get more of everything.

[mistixs]

"If we liked that kind of bodies them we'd be with men instead." So why don't men watch male pornstars then, instead of watching pornstars with smaller-than-average breasts? "you don't get to decide what men like, men do." And check any one of the sickeningly over-asked "do men like small breasts?" questions here on GAG. Most of the men say yes. So I'm not deciding what men like... men are.

[ThisGuyDucks]

Your arguments are so bad, so bad they just don't make any sense. Men don't watch male pornstars because they're attracted to women, and women have boobs that men do not, boobs are big round protruding fats that stick out of a woman's chest, men don't have that, if a woman has small boobs she's useless. And most of these men here are desperate pussy whipped virgins who'll fuck anything with a hole. And they're lying, they'd always pick a woman with nice tits over a woman with flat boobs.

[mistixs]

"Men don't watch male pornstars because they're attracted to women, and women have boobs that men do not, boobs are big round protruding fats that stick out of a woman's chest, men don't have that, if a woman has small boobs she's useless."
Except studies show that the average pornstar has breast sizes that are smaller-than-average. So by your logic, why don't men watch male pornstars instead?

Are you satisfied with your partner's breast size or penis size? ↗
Roughly the same percentage of men with small-breasted partners are satisfied, as the percentage of men with big-breasted partners who are satisfied.
Why are your claims more valid than those of the majority of other men on this site?

[ThisGuyDucks]

Do you have small boobs or something?

[Red_Arrow]

Really had to laugh at this kid insisting that the majority of men think as crazy as he does. Throw out the research for him and he argues it is all a lie. Not worth talking with someone who thinks he knows it all and will not listen to others. (Reminds me of a certain president.) It is no surprise he hides his identity.

[mistixs]

@Red_Arrow Yeah especially how he said "big breasts are a signal that a woman has gone through puberty and is capable of feeding your kids."

The world's average breast size is 327ml which is equivalent to a small B-cup. Half the world's countries have an average breast size of A-cup or below. By this guy's logic, a majority of women worldwide are doing a bad job breastfeeding their kids (despite the fact that the average BMIs were also calculated, and none of those BMIs were unhealthy).
https://www.worlddata.info/average-breastsize.php

[mistixs]

Yeah, small boobs are never sexy. That's why Riley Reid, despite being a small A-cup, was the most-searched pornstar in 2018. Because small boobs are always nonsexy, men never like them, etc etc.
www.papermag.com/...-pornhub-star1-2540855607.html

[mistixs]

by the way, you called @Red_Arrow gay, while you're the one admitting that if women didn't have tits, you'd date guys. So you would date guys, yet HE'S the gay one? As if there's nothing else different between men and women besides tits. How about vaginas vs penises? But you'd be just as happy sucking a dick, as eating pussy? Then maybe you should recognize that you're bisexual or gay, & stop referring to other men using homophobic terms, because it's hypocritical. Anyway, using your logic, you're a pedophile if you prefer women without body hair. So you're a pedo. by the way it's hilarious that you told me to "piss off" my own post.

[jemismyname]

@mistixs i would tell you "dont feed the trolls" but it is actually pretty entertaining when you do.

[roland77]

@mistixs Sorry to disappoint you. But porn stars are not the exact measurement for what most males are in. I had to admit, that I like any breasts of size for two different reasons: small are nice to grab while big are good for breast-fuck because they are big enough for that. So both have their pro-sites. Sure big are heavier than smaller but a good bra can hold them.

[roland77]

@mistixs And stop stereotyping us, god damn! I'm loyal as nobody else is to her. I could even hold a Scorpio lady being easily jealous and she won't become because I'm 1000% loyal, means not just in body but also in mind. I will never getting tired of a woman with small breasts! That is crap! Or do you get tired of a man with a lower-than-average but still no mini-penis? Or is also a mini-penis okay for you? Same thing just turned around.

[Ophion]

I don't understand one thing: why do people have to weaken others to reinforce themselves? Just embrace yourselves and that is that.
Don't you get it? If you say X is better than Y it puts you on the same page with people who judge and look down on others because of physical attributes they can't control. Maybe you didn't intend it to be but this whole article is about bashing women with larger breasts. It is just as wrong as bashing women with small ones.

[mistixs]

I never said small breasts were better than bigger breasts. In fact, I specifically said in the beginning: "Women who are bigger-breasted may not want to read this. *Know that your breasts are just as awesome as smaller breasts, & that there are many aspects of bigger breasts that are advantageous over small breasts;* however, this particular MyTake will focus on smaller breasts." "In sum, small breasts are pretty awesome, because ALL breasts are pretty awesome."

[Ophion]

You really don't get it. You just compared the two and made up hypothetical advantages against the other. Textbook discriminative comparison. " But women with bigger breasts don't have that much freedom; they're more likely to be sexualized even if they don't want to be. It's easy to make smaller breasts look bigger and/or sexier, but it's hard to hide bigger breasts if you want to." Simply not true, but perfect to prove my point. You want to make one side look good at the expense of the other. It is wrong, even if you don't want to see it.

[mistixs]

It's true. I'm not bashing them; I'm acknowledging a struggle that they have. Oversexualization is a common complaint by many women with bigger breasts.

See this Tumblr post by a woman with bigger breasts:

66.media.tumblr.com/.../...cm7paieR1svjbm5_540.png

The tumblr post has almost 100,000 notes. coffee-cigarettes-and-cinema.tumblr.com/.../people-without-big-boobs-omg-i-wish-ihad-big

I'm not trying to bash women with bigger breasts. I sympathize with them and I wish society would stop oversexualizing them.

[mistixs]

I'm not trying to make women with bigger breasts look bad. In fact, if anything, I'm trying to make SOCIETY look bad for treating the women this way, so society should stop. It's a big problem that bothers many women with bigger breasts, as exemplified by the fact that the woman mentioned it 5 times in her post, and the post itself got thousands of notes.

[jemismyname]

just say no to titbashing!!! (unless she is into that sort of thing). it sounds so violent.

[roland77]

Good point! Thank you for making it clear. Besides I like any breast size.

[Anonymous]

I've got big breasts, but I really loved this take. Everything is so true. I don't mind my size, nothing I can really do if I don't so I've gotta be ok with it, but I have always kinda wished I could have smaller breasts because of the reasons listed. Every single reason you listed. But the reason I don't mind my size is because of another thing you mentioned, which is boobs are just great haha, doesn't matter who's boobs, they're all awesome. In a way, they're like penis, they're always awesome, but even if you have a preference, as soon as what isn't your usual preference is attached to somebody with other good features or somebody you like, it suddenly becomes your type. No girls need to worry about their boobs, literally none. No matter how big or small, they're great and look fabulous.

[Red_Arrow]

You are completely right! I have always preferred smaller breasts, but also like large ones. Who I prefer to be with is not based on boob size. I married a woman with larger breasts and loved them (and of course, her). Breasts are wonderful regardless of size and preference. Accept and love what you have. We men do.

[roland77]

@Red_Arrow For sure! I'm for all sizes in. Small: good to grab, big: nice for breast-fuck and cuddling up between.

[Married-in-PA]

Who said I was looking at your breasts?

[roland77]

She has big boobs and ask for admiring small ones... Makes no sense unless she is unhappy that porn stars tend to have smaller boobs. Besides: I don't mind small or big, just not flat-land or over-sized boobs like E+.

[Stacyzee]

Great take! I <3 how you did your own studies on this.

[AlphaMale1]

If her breasts are big enough for them to massage my cock and have her lick it then that is awesome. Even if she has to press them together to make this happen.

However, there is something very erotic about small-breasted women. Especially when she is either slender or fit.

Either way I would never let a woman's breast size influence my being in a relationship with her as I am in it with the whole woman.

[LankyGerman]

@Mistixs I take yours are small and Perky. I am currently B cup.

[MlleCake]

I have very large breasts, but I think there is no one specific "good" way for breasts to be. Tiny to huge, breasts are beautiful.

So, don't assume that big breasted women won't like when someone praises smaller breasts.

The only kind of breasts I don't like are the kinds with cancer.

[Dave-from-Illinois]

All I need is a mouthful and I am satisfied.

[Yourluckypenny]

I totally love my perky 34 bs

[MrMysteryMan]

I love women!

[mistixs]

Love women... or love our bodies? Lol

[MrMysteryMan]

Both! I've hung around women as close friends and as lovers. I have nothing bad to say about women in general. There are some that aren't nice because of how their lives have gone or how they have lived or things like that, but in general, women are wonderful! I wouldn't be her without one. If you believe in religion, God made women to be the perfect mate for us men and they are if you ask me.

[Greenfield25]

why does everyone care so much lmao it's not like you're gonna be arrested for tiny tits or massive ones

[godfatherfan]

anything larger then a handful, your risking a sprained tongue...
guys can suck on small ones just as much as big ones. I look at them as a bonus. if they are there, awesome. If not, they aren't the best part of on a woman anyway... I can spend more time on my favorite part...

[mistixs]

What's your favorite part?

[godfatherfan]

lol... is it really something you have to ask? The vagina is the single greatest thing on the entire earth. mmmmm. mmmm. good...

[godfatherfan]

and I was strictly thinking sex parts tits, pussy, ass... if you want to get into that "her brain is the sexiest organ... yada..." that is fine... but my mind is completely in the gutter on this one... lol. and even considering the brain... my previous comment stands...

[roland77]

@godfatherfan you cannot stick a penis or tongue into a woman's mind. ;-) Oh, how bad of me. I must be thinking with my penis again... :-P

[roland77]

mind -> brain

[MissMickey]

I actually agree with this. Great mytake babe :)
Having a big chest can be a burden sometimes. Not saying I wish I had no boobs at all, but somewhere in between would be nice haha

[i1T2daty]

Great idea but I'd much rather embrace your small breasts. I think they look fab. also, esp. if worn with Cami

[stevie123]

I enjoyed this take.
I enjoy all boobs, but prefer smaller ones.
I wish that girls with smaller delights were more comfortable with their original equipment!
Boobs don't make the girl.
Bigger is not always better.
There are many guys like myself that adore smaller, so keep the faith.

[roland77]

Characteristics make us humans and what we are, not body "equipment" sizes. To be honest, I don't want flat-land (no boobs at all) but D doesn't hurt, too.

[Spiorad_Aisce]

Great take but preaching to the converted here - My preference was always average or smaller - If I am in the minority, it is a pleasant minority to be in.

[WhatTheHellAmy2]

As an A cup I feel triggered since those are huge compared to mine lol

[Jaycrowe]

Nah A cupz r good

[helva]

I had the same idea when I saw Chloe Moretz on the picture here.

[BlacklightShade]

I asked in a poll a while back which sized breasts people preferred and was really surprised that most said they liked them smaller.

What is your ideal breast size? ↗

I have big breasts that I am happy to have, mainly because the men I've dated liked them and gave them a lot of attention. There are things we can do with them that might be more difficult with smaller ones. There are times where they get in the way and I'll wear clothes that hide them. I think I've developed a stronger personality partly because I'm trying not to come off as a bimbo with big tits.

[TokyoGhoulLover]

heh heh I cam here cus I saw bewbs

[wankiam]

32A the best

[Paige90]

I wear a 34b bra and I love my size! I don't want them any larger!!

[GingerGuy]

It's amazing how insecure women seem to be with their breasts (just all the posts I see on this site alone) and why I don't really understand? Most guys do not care honestly. We love them all. Yes, we have our preferences but they usually aren't deal breakers if they're not the "perfect" size. Great take, embrace whatever natural size you are. Don't be insecure.

[roland77]

Exactly! @GingerGuy And so women don't mind about penis sizes.