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Sorry Guys, But Size Does Matter To An Extent

Sorry Guys, But Size Does Matter To An Extent

A significant amount of women will offer you a sugarcoated response when you ask about your penis size. They will say it's all about how a man works it and place little or no importance in how many inches he is.

The fact of the matter is, in some cases that simply isn't true.

To some extent, size matters to a woman and can be a deal breaker.

Sorry Guys, But Size Does Matter To An Extent

Yes, it's true an un-aroused vagina is an average of 4 inches deep, but that does not imply that's the size a woman needs to please her in bed. During arousal, the vagina lengthens and widens and is ready to accommodate a penis. This allows a woman to be able to take several inches longer than that size.

So, what can we learn from this?

When a woman is fully aroused, in most cases 4 inches just isn't enough to please her no matter how "great" you are in bed.

Sorry Guys, But Size Does Matter To An Extent

Some men like to wrong women that simply state that they prefer a certain size over another.

I have to ask men that condemn women, would you like to have intercourse with a vagina that you couldn't feel?

I mean, one that's extremely loose.

During sex, don't you want to feel as much as you possibly can?
The same goes for women who prefer a certain penis size, these women want to be able to enjoy sex as much as they can.
A smaller penis doesn't give them the ability to feel as much as they'd like.

Sorry Guys, But Size Does Matter To An Extent

For the smaller men out there, I know this is a difficult pill to swallow.

We all want to live in a society where we are accepted by all.

But let me ask you this, how realistic is that?

Even men that are on the larger side, may experience similar problems of rejection.

I doubt, they have nearly as a hard time as a guy with a smaller penis but some women

find sex far too painful with a man who is well over average length.

This leads her to wanting someone who is in between.

Sorry Guys, But Size Does Matter To An Extent

You're probably thinking, what size is ideal for most women?

I am sorry to tell you, that is a question that cannot be answered by just one woman alone.

Each and every single one of us are different.

Some women will be direct with you and will tell you what they prefer.

Others will sugarcoat their answers and tell you what you want to hear.

The only real way of knowing, is to establish a relationship with her and eventually time will tell if she was honest with you about her likes and wants.

Sorry Guys, But Size Does Matter To An Extent

Cheer up, guys!
There's no point in dwelling on what cannot be changed.

Be proud of what you have.

I guarantee if you try to look for approval in each and every single person, you will be sadly disappointed. Every one of us has different tastes, wants, needs, likes and desires.

The best thing to be, is happy with yourself and sooner or later you'll find someone who feels the same way about you.

Sorry Guys, But Size Does Matter To An Extent

Some women say, it's all about the size.

Others say, it's all about the motion in the ocean.

The remainders will say, BOTH hold equal importance.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I'm shallow and have only been able to handle a few inches even when I'm really turned on. And when you have penetration, It's true you can feel different girths. But after a few minutes it all feels the same srsly. And when I use toys I prefer the thinner ones because it's less strain on my body. I love fingering more than sex too...

    • And even when I sue different toys, the materials don't feel very different once they're inside me. So it's not like the vagina is super sensitive anyway. I have heard of some girls having problems with really wide dicks, but generally the sex feels the same with all the dicks once you get used to them.

Most Helpful Guy

  • So amazing to see a woman admit how true this is. I get tired of women lying and denying that they care about penis size when many really do, and then trying to blame it on men's "egos." For me I've worried if I'll ever be TOO big for the final lady I'm still waiting to meet, but I think I should be okay.

    • Penor size?

    • The thing is when we're being honest, we would need to get ready with the name calling (sluts, whore, bitch). I remember telling how I prefer it to be at least 6', I get mocked and blocked by some dudes.

    • @desidoll Honestly, it really doesn't bother me for women to want big dicks like it bothers other guys. It makes no difference to me. I love big tits, and I'm vocal about it, and some women hate me for it and women in general are ready to say it's shallow for men to like that, especially if they're flat chested. Guys are sad when girls want big dicks, and girls get mad when guys want a girl with big tits. So everybody gets even.

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  • All I can really say to this MyTake is that there are also women who don't care. Because one thing you forgot to mention is that women also differ greatly in terms of how easily they are aroused and how easily they can have an orgasm. I am somewhat below average (just about 5 inches or even 4.9) and I have been together with my girlfriend for 6 years now. We have great sex and I can make her cum every time (and no, she doesn't lie about it because she's not that type of girl... you would understand if you knew her). Heck, I even offered my girlfriend to sleep with other guys and she refused. She always tells me how happy she is with me, sexually and of course also non-sexually. So to be honest, I know I'm on the smaller side but I really couldn't care less what other women think and whether they judge me for it. As long as my girlfriend is happy - which is very much - I am happy too. We are looong past the honeymoon-phase (first 2 years) where you just care about fucking each other's brains out. And yet, we're still very happy together. I'm pretty sure there are lots of guys with huge tools who, despite their endowment, didn't manage to get such an awesome girl or be in such an awesome relationship :-). Hence, I have nothing to envy in this regard.

    • There's always a story of success regarding every issue. However , my main goal wasn't to say there's no such thing as being happy with a guy who has a small penis but rather to say there's more women that lie about liking one than those that are telling the truth.

    • That may be true. Having only been with one girl sexually, I also can't really judge that. However, one thing I do know is that frankly, most women also don't have ANY kind of feeling for size. In 90% of all cases, you could have a 6 inch penis and the girl would later tell her friends that you had 8 inches (or 4 if she didn't like you ;-)). I don't mean to rummage in the stereotype box but this is actually a true cliché. Most women absolutely suck at estimating lengths, weights etc., this also includes penis sizes.

    • Women, who have a fair bit of experience are pretty good at giving estimates when it comes to telling a guy's size. And by experience, I don't mean age but of course the number of sex partners. (Some women are under 20 and have already had a fair amount of men). Also, yeah some women do lie about a male's penis size being small just to embarrass him (very childish in my opinion). Who would really believe that? Especially, when she was probably with him for a while (most likely a bad break up and is using a immature tactic).

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  • Glad I am gifted, but my other question is should boob size matter? Does how well you give BJ's matter? How about how many boyfriends you've had?

    • Then she may come back with should how many girlfriends you had matter? How well you lick her pussy matter?

    • Penor size?

  • Well said. About time. I think women need to be more honest and vocal about their preferences with out fear of backlash from society. Every woman have a preference and what is or is not a deal breaker.

  • There has been so many articles and posts about penis size to fit a library, yet why hasn't this topic been resolved? In fact, we keep seeing people post it everyday. Ita because not many times is the core of the topic is mentioned. Most men actually don't have a small dick, but it is the men's OWN insecurity that keeps fueling this. Its always the men who wants to be encouraged that they're big enough and that's all it comes down to. To feel that we're "enough" or more. As a society we all put emphasis on penis size, men do this to ourselves, by watching porn and thinking it's real. We all have a preference, yes. But you have to realize that you are enough to fit that preference. Just like how women with small Boobs or butts are enough. No one really talks about that do we? That's because we don't give the topic of Boobs and ass power like men do to ourselves about the whole penis thing.

    I want to see the day when science has made it possible to genetically and naturally enlarge a man's penis to any size. Then what? Are all guys gonna be happy then? NO! We'll find some other bullshit thing to complain about because your penis wasn't the source of your insecurity! Feeling that you aren't enough, is. Done ✔

  • It matters for different aspects, but good sex is not penetration alone - not by a long shot. The skill comes in knowing you don't have the biggest tool but pulling other tricks out the bag to make sure sex isn't all about the size of your dick.

    But people do sugar coat it sometimes but for entirely understandable reasons. A man with a small dick shouldn't be led to believe that he won't be able to satisfy a woman in bed because it isn't true, unless she's a size queen in which case you're in the wrong relationship.

    • Yes, there are other ways to satisfy a woman but then again this comes back to preference. Some women are more oral lovers while others are really into penetration. A man needs to know what type of woman he is involved with sexually. A woman that loves mostly penetration will not be fully satisfied with someone who is great at oral , she will feel like something is missing.

    • I agree.

  • What you should add to this take is the effect of memes and the media on people.
    Most of the women who you deem as being dishonest are not really dishonest. They are just in an internal sunconcious conflict between reality and the brainwashy effects of media and memes etc.
    These effects are so big and impactful that they should never be excluded from such a topic.

    • Not necessarily , the media doesn't influence what feels good to you in the privacy of your own home. I know if a penis is too much for me or not enough without tv influencing that , so do other women. Women aren't discouraged from posting here , it's just that there are more women that are dishonest about liking certain sizes due to backlash and criticism they will receive after , like what I have.

    • That is a baseless claim, since you did not experience a portion of your life devoid of media and memes and then another portion of your life exposed to them.

    • Ignore this reply. I posted it before scrolling down and seeing your level of maturity when it comes to discussions/debates. I want no part of this as it will nowhere.

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  • Being a grower, I face so much problem. I have a flaccid micropenis. Two girls criticised me on face for that when we first had it. One said "wait! Is that a little mouse?" While other said "Aweee how cute baby". But when it got errect and we finished, they were like OMG!
    Yup! A lot of girls are size queens. 25% girls criticise, 25% praise and rest 50% girls were just neutral (happy) and didn't give a fuck.
    That's my personal experience.

    I wish I were shower because some people say, "first impression is the last impression".

    • Penor size?

    • @fartsniffer2016 1.5" flaccid xD

  • I, respectfully, disagree. I can't speak for all women, and neither can anyone else including the OP, but average is just fine for me. I have had to big where I couldn't even get him in, very frustrating. We had other life goal issues as well, so while we did break up it wasn't over that, However, I have never had to small to reach the big O. No I am not just trying to spare some poor guy's ego or sugar coat it.

    The truth is we come in all sizes and shapes as well. If your vag is cavernous maybe you need a massive peen to fill the void. If you are normal, then a normal size peen is what you will be most pleasured by.

    Think of it this way if massive penises were what all women wanted, the smaller/average penised guys would have been eleminated from the gene pool over the history of mankind by selective breading. However, most guys are "average" (I think around 5.5 erect), why? Because over the history of mankind, that is the size of penis most women wanted.

    In my opinion, just my opinion, any size penis is just fine and will get me off as long as it is attached to the right guy.

    • I am not saying women want larger only. I stated average is ideal (like you said). Smaller however , more women than are willing to admit want someone a few inches larger than that (not to say with an exception of other women they do not mind such as yourself)

    • Actually, "Bigger is better—at least when it comes to a woman's penis preferences, a new study says. The findings suggest that female choice may have driven the evolution of larger penises in humans." news.nationalgeographic.com/.../

  • I'm a grower, and it is what it is. Mine is extremely small when not aroused (like 1.5 inches). And it varies on how turned on I am when I am aroused. It usually ranges from 5.5 inches, to I believe just over 6 inches. I'm not sure how much the girl can actually "feel" how turned on I am. It would be an interesting quirk for someone like me.

  • Speak for yourself. Huge penises are a turn-off for me because of how painful they are during sex. Average size works very well for me. Black women seem to be more into huge dicks because they're bigger as well. To each, her own.

    • I said that in my article. But clearly you read only the title and then scrolled down to drop a useless comment. No surprise here

    • Actually I saw a study showing that black women had smaller vagina's than white women... but again studies are only a small group of people in one area... just like penis size studies.

    • @NJ_Casanova No, they're bigger, which makes sense because black men are bigger on average.

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  • My knowledge comes from what women have told me, including a number of previous partners, what I have read, what I have discerned from polls and replies to penis-size questions on this site.

    Yes, some women do want a Texas Tallywhacker, but most women don't. Many guys with big dicks act like big dicks and their personality is a turn off. Some of them think that a big dick is all it takes to please a woman and you will get 1-2 minutes of wham-bam and then he's done. Some women feel uncomfortable or even pain when they are with Harry The Horse.

    Of course a guy needs to have a long enough hose to reach the fire but I have never heard of a woman breaking up with a guy because he only has 5 1/2". Any guy with at least 5" can satisfy 80-90% of women if they try to be a good lover instead of being a selfish bastard. However, especially on this site, guys who are too chicken shit to ask a girl out will use their Mini-Johnson as an excuse when the truth is that no woman other than their mother has ever seen it.

    • That last sentence was funny.

    • @BigBallerSodaPop Because there's some truth in what I said! :)

    • what women say is not what women think. and what women think is not what women do.

  • Yeah size matters due to if its long enough to reach the spots that make it easier to orgasm.

    • What been average size for guys in your personal experience? Not studies

    • @rleaf18 I have no idea since it's hard to tell just by looking.

    • Oh ok, well this may sound odd but what kind of phone do u have

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  • I dont like a huge penis, its very painful and not pleasurable. Maybe Im small there but an 8 is too big for me. I prefer 6 1/2.

    • Says I don't like huge penis... Prefers an inch above the average... :P

    • @YourFutureEx I meant I had an 8, was too big for me! But 6 1/2 is above average but that's how much I can tolerate.

    • Yeah I know, I was just pulling your legs :P It's not a bad thing even if you strictly prefer a huge one. Everyone has rights to set up one's own preferences.

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  • Of course it does!

  • Preferences are normal, but we spend far too much time announcing them. I honestly don't understand the purpose of this post. Are you directing this to the many insecure men who feel bad about something they can't control? Are you trying to help them with something? Are you trying to defend your preferences?

    • What I like is not included in this post. The full purpose of it is to make men aware that women care more than they actually admit. When I look at penis size questions all I see is women given sugarcoated answers. I wanted to reveal the truth here. My purpose has been served , to open eyes for those who did not know.

    • Idunno. I mean... everything matters to an extent. Isn't that stating the obvious? You seem like a cool chick from what I've seen, so I'm not trying to push your buttons, but things like this just sound snooty because it seems like needlessly rubbing salt in wounds for the sake of being right... when it's not even right to begin with so what's the point again? Something like penis size is just not even near a priority for most people and that's not sugar coating it. I mean, even look at ancient art... are they all glorifying the big penis? lol. How much it matters is so negligible in real life (outside the porn industry), because in real life, you cannot predict penis size based on a man's appearance. People seek partners based on what they can see. It's just reality. Maybe you care and that's your choice, but I truly think you are in the minority.

    • If I was the only one who cared , why is this topic so popular and the most asked here? Why have I received thank yous from men because I am speaking the truth which most females tend to hide? Why am I further getting private messages asking about penis because a great majority of women like to condemn men on this issue and their insecurities? I'm a open book willing to answer. What is obvious to you isn't to others. For the first time , women are admitting the truth and that is what I want. There's nothing wrong with having a small penis but what these men should know is how a fragment of women really feel. They can obviously compensate elsewhere. Also. You are incorrect you cannot tell a penis size by looking at a man. I knew someone 6'3 with a very small penis and one 5'5 with an 8 inch.

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  • Another well written take. Thanks! The thing about the "size" questions on here that bug me are when men say we choose our guys soley based on what they have in their pants, like it's an audition at a bar or wherever that we need to see their package before we even decide to date or talk to them, which is just plain stupid.
    But I digress, great mytake @Stacyzee

  • It does matter. Only on this site it doesn't matter. I never sugar-coat my answer whenever guys ask about the size thing. I rather tell the truth with the consequence of getting attacked and called names.

    • What been average size for guys in your personal experience? Not studies

    • @rleaf18 5 inches

    • Really? How many guys have been about 5 that youve been with? And what race were they

  • I was surprised when I saw my boys boy for the first time. He's such a sweet guy, but he's packing heat to the point where it's surprising he's not a big headed asshole (big headed in more than one way). But there really is such a thing as too big. I'm only little, and taking him in took a very long time. We've learnt to prepare and sex is mind blowing now, but there was a point where we nearly decided to end our relationship because we just couldn't have sex. I'd still prefer him to be smaller than he is, but I love him for him, and we take the good with the bad.
    For some reason, men don't seem to understand that they should be happy with what they have.

    • Is He too big and thick as well? Any idea about the exact size?

    • @Youusername Length isn't really an issue. He's very long but he can just control how deep he goes. It's his width that makes it hard. Can't do anything about that except lots of foreplay before sex, and lube. 22.2cm is what I measured him at when we first started dating. That was somewhere in between rock hard and soft (as in, he wasn't fully hard).

    • :o :o scary!!! 22.2 cm sure? That's practical?

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  • 😂 do you know how many times I've said size does matter and I've gotten so much hate.. lol but no you do need to know how to use it too. I wish women wold be more honest about shit they know they are lying about.

    • What is the perfect size in your opinion?

    • If I was a woman I to think size would matter, an I'm just an avg. Guy here

    • @Scottyboy160..7 inches

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  • Okay, but 6 inches is still universally good right?

    • I hope so 😬

    • @Bandit74 no. That is too small

    • @fartsniffer2016 haha k

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