7 Ways to Make Sex Better for Her

I know I said I wouldn't write a new take for a while but I have been feeling a little down so I thought I'd make a helpful post to try to lift my spirits. So the age-old question: how do I make sex better for her? Guys pay attention.

P.S: I'm single ladies! Hit me up! (I'm being facetious if you couldn't tell)

1: There's more to pleasing a woman than her vagina

7 Ways to Make Sex Better for Her

Lets get something straight guys. Women like sex just as much as we do. However there is more to pleasing your woman than having sex like its a job. It's for the betterment of your relationship. Treat every passionate moment as if you'd never get to see her again. Women like a variety of things. Sure penetration is good but there's more. Your best bet is to ask her but if she doesn't know here are some things to test out.

-Bite/lick/suck on her neck

-Lightly scratch her back if she's on top

-Nibbling ear lobes (I enjoy this one personally)

2: Kissing is important but there's something so stupidly simple you'd never think of it

7 Ways to Make Sex Better for Her

Ever wish you could make sex more passionate or make it feel more personal? This is a simple trick in the bedroom that could make the difference. Sex isn't JUST about satisfaction. There's lots more to worry about. It's something you should use to bond with your partner on a more intimate level. So do you want to know my little secret? Love her whole body! Sounds dumb right? How I do it is I kiss her neck and all the way down her body and run my hands over all her curves feeling all her body. It sounds insignificant but ask most women and they will agree that loving their whole body in this way can be amazing.

3: A quick change of the angle

7 Ways to Make Sex Better for Her

You know that face she makes when you hit juuust the right spot? Ever wish you could find a different way to hit that or maybe even a whole nother spot all together? Well the angle I use (look out guys it hurts a bit but the face she makes is worth it) is a higher angle. I move my hips up a bit and move slowly. It's basically using the shaft of your Willy to put pressure on and rub against the clitoris while at the same time penetrating and thrusting. With enough practice you will get better at it. I had a girlfriend tell me stop once because she didn't want to soak me. It's very minorly painful so be careful.

4: Pace is a BIG deal

7 Ways to Make Sex Better for Her

You aren't running a marathon guys. Calm down. Sure fast and rough is good but slow and sensual is even better (depending on her preferences obviously). Slowly from base to tip over and over. Maybe even speed up a bit then slow down a bit. Variation is key though. Don't maintain the same pace for too long.

5: If she can feel you go in you're fine

7 Ways to Make Sex Better for Her

It's not the size of the wand it's the magic in it. If she makes that holy shit face when you first go in? Don't worry about your size. If she can feel you you're good. Trust me.

6: Don't ignore the clitoris

7 Ways to Make Sex Better for Her

If you can, play with her clit while you thrust. Don't play rough with it. Just gently.

7: A secret spot

7 Ways to Make Sex Better for Her

Now take heed, this doesn't work with all women but if it works with yours it's the ultimate tease and she will be begging for it. As we all know foreplay is important. You know the spot just above the lips? It's called the vulva. If she's horny her vulva, clitoris, and vaginal lips will swell. With SOME women if you put your flat palm on the vulva and apply gentle pressure just above the vaginal lips you will stimulate the base of the clitoral nerve. This is where the nerve is most sensitive. I've seen some crazy shit happen with this trick. It doesn't work on all women mind you. Though for the ones it does? Trust me it's worth it!

That's all I have for you guys. I enjoyed sharing my knowledge. Girls feel free to corroborate. Guys feel free to share your own knowledge and experiences.

Cheers guys!

~The newly single Jarhead :P

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Agreed. Palming and rubbing right above her opening does wonders.

    A few random things...

    1. TONS of women love when you're rough. Don't treat her like a glass object.
    2. If using fingers, do a "come hither" rubbing gesture once inside her.
    3. Scrape your teeth on her nipples and make her feel it. But make sure to listen about what's too rough.
    4. Find out what she likes. A lot of women want what men have been taught is flat out abuse. Be willing to go with what she likes and be a manly man.

    • Thanks for sharing bro!

    • ask her first b4 you get rough!

    • @SovereignessofVamps see point 4

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  • Beautifully Done, @ThatJarHead, I must say. You have Indeed Written the Book on this, I commend you.
    Good luck and Great going. xx

    • Is that to say you're corroborating my points and suggestions?

    • I like your Foreplay moves and groves. xx

    • Awe thank you Paris. I don't feel like getting my ass kicked by your husband so I'm gonna stop flirting with you XD

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  • ain't nothing here that I dont already know.

  • Why these sex tricks takes are coming up when I'm single? It hurts.

    • Right?

    • AHAHAH i feel your pain

  • 1 and 2 so true, I haven't had much experience for the rest. I remember one guy completely skipped my boobs and neck, I've since realised just how much kissing and nibbling/Biting, especially those areas, turns me on.

    • Well good job for figuring those things out!

    • Indeed it is.

  • Truth tho

    • Awe thanks :)

  • I have a question for you. My husband doesn't care if I cum or not. He is not interested in foreplay and just wants to put it in and cum. I have spoken to him about it and he said I am too hard work, and he just wants to f**k. I am getting so frustrated, and am at the point where I fantasise about other guys, and I am worried I am going to cheat. Why does he not care about my orgasm?

    • Selfishness? I mean he might just be an ass. I suggest trying to talk to him on a more serious note. Tell him it's not fulfilling and that something needs to change. Either that, leave him, or get yourself familiar with your hair brush.

  • That's pretty much how I do it, but I never tried the palm thing. I am going to try that ! One thing I like is to rub her entire pussy with my penis while I kneel between her legs. I start slowly going up and down and eventually going left to right faster and faster and end up rubbing her clit. It makes her go crazy.

  • Great take - I have noticed two good takes today on how to please a woman - The female users of GaG might be discussing a few things tonight with their SOs - Happy playtime.

    • There's gonna be some discussions between lovers I imagine indeed.

  • Why does it seem we get a shit ton of takes on how to please women for relationship, and sex but yet very few articles for men?

    • guys do most of the work usually lol There'd only be girl on top posts.

    • You actually make a fair point! I'll write one soon!

    • Well thats why I usually do what he says.

  • Variety is the spice of (sex) life. ;)

    • Clever. You get a cookie from me Fathoms.

  • Yes, this is a pretty good take. Especially the first one.

    • Thank you Betty White :P

    • You are welcome!

  • Very excellent Take, bro. A man has to make love to a woman's entire body, and make her feel sexy and appreciated all over! :)

  • Will take note for futire sexual conqusets.

    • lol I'm now imagining you with a little notebook XD

  • loved it especially the angle tip

    • Thanks :)

  • Is big dick surgery an option?

    • Yeah sure but it'd probably be expensive.

    • not as expensive as compensating by buying a sports car.

    • NO! Dont do it trust me. Its not worth it. The nerves may get damaged and you won't be able to go erect at all and if it is successful it won't go straight or up while erect. It will be like a swinging club. And dont take pills either. It only works on a small percentage of men in the whole world and when yous tart taking them you will have to continue taking them for the rest of your life otherwise it will go smaller than it was before. Do some research on it.

  • Great myTake

  • I will keep this in mind for the future

  • so true

    • Thanks for corroborating!

  • go hard or go fap yourself to death

  • Let me give you one reason why I don't.

    1. I don't care as long as I bust a nut

    • I'm not sure how to respond to that.

    • Aw here's the 'decent guy'

    • @Touchmehxx Oh no its you again... you're just trouble

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