An age-old question here on GirlsAskGuys focuses on men wondering what they can do to get their ladies to have an orgasm, the Big "O(hhhhh)," climax, push her over the edge, etc... You get where I'm going with this. Well, I am here today to take it one step further. Compiled below is a list of ways to get your woman to the promised land without - yes, I said WITHOUT - touching her.
"How is such a thing possible," you may ask? "But I want to touch her! Where does that come in?!" Great questions, dear reader! Here is the thing, what I have written for you are things that will stimulate your boothang's mind and heart, not just her lady bits. Get her mental juices flowing first and then you can put your hands all over her. Why? Well, these suggestions may make it easier for you later because it has been proven time and again that women have trouble getting there for a multitude of reasons, including psychological ones. If you can get her to relax her thoughts, ease her worries, and let her know you care, you will have a higher chance of getting her to climax in the bedroom, in the car, on the kitchen counter, or in the shower.
Okay, so without further ado, here we go!
1. Give Her Compliments
From the time we are young, us girls have seen beautiful women in the media, heralded for their feminity and gorgeous assests. In today's world, that means she needs to have ample breasts and a big, ol' booty. Hey, if that is what you are into, I totally get it. However, not every man is into those things (or simply do not care that much) as many male users have posted over and over again on this site. Many females may be having thoughts such as:
- "My boobs are too small. I am not as much of a woman because of this."
- "My butt is flat. Every guy wants a bubble butt. No one will want me."
- "I have an outie vagina. How gross. What man wants to be around that?"
Whatever you may like, let the woman you are with know how beautiful you think she is. You are with or interested in her for a reason after all, no? If she feels desirable to you, it will be easier for her to forget about her self-esteem issues, feel sexy, and open up more during sex.
2. Communicate with Her
Knowing how to use your words properly will work in your favor. You can make yourself a very desirable and sexy person yourself to a woman if you can communicate well. If you can hold conversations and not ask about her tits... or simply just stare at them constantly, it goes a long way to her. It makes her feel less like a sex object that you will hit and quit and more like you truly care about her as a person. Again, this allows her to feel closer to you, ultimately allowing her to let her guard down.
Also, it is totally fine (and encouraged) to tell her that you miss her, that you care about her, that you love her. Sure, actions speak louder than words, but that does not mean it would kill you to call, text, or tell her in-person that you have been thinking of her.
3. Have a Sense of Humor
"If you can make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything." ~ Marilyn Monroe
Okay, so that quote may not be entirely true, but it is not entirely false either. Most people love to smile and have a good time. If you show your girlfriend, your date, or whomever that you can enjoy yourself and are not serious all the time, it shows a lot about you as a person. We want to laugh. It eases tension and stress from our daily lives, which - yep, you may have guessed it - can cause females (and men for that matter) to not be able to climax. Too much eating away at our thoughts can detract us from fully enjoying being with our man. Make her giggle and get her mind off of the negatives and onto savoring every pleasurable moment with you.
4. Show Your Intelligence
Let's face it: intelligence can be super attractive. Knowledge is power. A man who knows how to hold a conversation as mentioned before; make witty, sexual jokes to combine with the above point about humor; and get her thinking will stimulate her mind. There is a reason many women like to read erotica over watching porn. It gets her wheels turning, and a guy who can do the same is golden. However, keep in mind to not make yourself seem superior to a woman with all that you know. That just ends up being a turn-off.
5. Be Ambitious
Showing your lady that you have goals and a drive to succeed, to do more, is ridiculously attractive. Lying on your old, ratty couch all day and every day, eating Cheetos, albeit delicious, does not send someone the best message. The same thing goes for whining about your dead-end job and doing nothing about it. Stop it! Go out there and show that you want a better life for yourself by applying to different jobs. Both show that you are lazy and do not want to work hard. That can translate to, "He is lethargic in all aspects of his existence, including the bedroom."
You do not need to have a six-figure income, a mansion, and three cars, but you do need to show that you care about your life. Ultimately, showing some passion for the things in your world can demonstrate that you will have a fire with her as well.
Okay, folks, my time is up for now. Keep in mind that there are other traits or qualities that could be added to this list, but you get the general idea. Feel free to comment and add the ones you think are important!
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