Do women have dirtier sex with guys who don't care about them? What about this one?

Do women care more about those who care about them? Or are not only physically attractive, but who they really click with?

Do women have dirtier sex with guys who don't care about them? What about this one?

Or do they mirror the guy's behavior and treat you how you treat them? Some argue that by treating her like a "slut" she behaves like one. It's an interesting topic, what does everyone think? I always thought that the woman would want to be her dirty sexual self with someone she wants to submit to.

Take the following example and let's discuss what you all think.

The woman = Sweet and kind girl, very feminine. Cute, enjoys scenery and nice people. She does like dancing (classes) and having girly days. Also going for meals and taking pictures of her surroundings when she travels. Interestingly lots of guy friends as well as girls.

The guys =

Guy 1 is a kind and smooth guy friend who is someone she rates highly. He's always impressed her and is someone nice and also talented in many ways. She loves his energy and words, as well as him being polite and a really great guy. She poses with him closely in group and solo shots. Always uplifts her talking about qualities and she's excited to keep in touch and hear from him. Sparse physical compliments, which are genuine and make her blush - is he flirting? Seems very cultured, and her age.

Guy 2 is a brash guy in a different social circle of hers. He can be fun and is a little quirky or posey. Most of the girls know he's a bit of a show off. She has posed a bit like a model in group shots, otherwise pretty normal in solo shots. Very active on facebook and into photography. Ever so slightly younger, in dance class, more frequent physical compliments to many women.

She met both guys when she was already in a relationship. Both are attractive, if anything guy 1 is more physically attractive than guy 2.

Explain which guy she has more care and affection for and who means more from her sexual experiences with both of them below:

FOREPLAY STAGE 1


Guy 1 = they share a passionate kiss after sharing a moment. He moves from her lips to her neck as she breathes heavily and giggles as he moves his head down her breasts to her waist undressing her. She starts undressing him as he lifts her and guides on her onto the couch. He kisses her and gradually moves down to her thighs licking them. He then proceeds to go down on her and she moans in pleasure. He says "Do you like that my sexy girl" saying her name. It's his first time and he's the second person she's ever been with.


Guy 2 = She's just posed for one of his likeaboss photos with other girls. He kisses her lips strongly after a high energy night and they're briefly alone at a houseparty after a club social where she's drunk a little and feeling a little loose. She's taken by surprise as he moves her hands onto his crotch as he rubs her vaginal area through her trousers fast. She's a bit unsure about this, but his touching her down there seems to have aroused her. She happens to be wearing a loose top which he takes off. Can't believe his luck to be with the innocent and sweet girl and she's making out with him. He puts his hands on her shoulders and pushes her onto her knees.

FOREPLAY STAGE 2


Guy 1 = totally turned after receiving and after making out a little and looking at him with adoration, she moves to her knees and takes off his trousers. She licks nervously and then sucks him.

He says "Oh god yes, you're so hot! Yeah lick me like that!" She looks at him and moans for him.

He says "Oh yes my dirty girl, you love sucking me don't you!" to which she replies "Mhmm yes I'm your dirty girl, do you like it?" She loves how excited she's making him.

Stroking her hair, he says "Look at me, oh you're so good! Yes lick it up and down you sexy thing!"

She proceeds to turn him on a lot moaning and laughs and smiles a lot looking at him.

"Yes tell me you love to suck me!" he tells her.

"I love sucking your cock your highness!" she proclaims.

She puts her hands behind her back when he mentions it and then he says "come and join me up here" moving her up to the couch and commands her to "Get on her knees".

Guy 2 = He's still got his clothes on, and has moved her own hand to unzip his trousers. He just moves his cock near her mouth and says "Suck the boss." She sucks the tip and his moan tells her how much he likes it. He starts taking his top off and lets his trousers fall to the floor.

"Yes, suck me, that's it! You love sucking cock don't you". She's a bit loose and running with it and kinda moans a little.

"Moan louder, yeah, that's it, spit on it, go on spit on it!" The command keeps her going despite being nervous.

"Oh f**k yeah suck me you dirty slut!" She continues to suck him a little and moans a little oh.

"F**k yes, what are you, say you're a dirty slut!"

"Get on the couch yeah on your knees" as he sits down and guides her head down with his hand.

She replies a bit nervously "I'm a dirty slut!"

"Yes you are, f**k yeah suck me." She sucks the tip bobbing her head up and down.

"Yeah you want to be fucked hard don't you!"

THE SEX

Guy 1 = both of them are panting and she puts her hands on the couch rest as he slides his cock into her vagina and starts fucking her doggystyle. She moans "Oh yessss" and so does he as he pulls on her hair. She turns to look back at him with a sheer dirty look of pleasure. They both moan in pleasure as he starts softly and starts to fuck her harder.

"You love that don't you! Yes tell me to f**k you harder!" he says

"Yessss f**k me harder hehe" she moans and giggles. He even slaps her ass, though he's nervous about that, but as she purrs his name her does it again.

After a little while, he slowly pulls out and says "Come here".

He sits and has her straddle him and she rides him as they face each other cowgirl.

She moans "Ohhhhh" a lot as she sucks his finger and bounces up and down on him and they hold each other's hands, kiss each other a lot.

Guy 2 = On her knees, she's feeling a little slutty, but then he puts his hard cock into her and she starts to feel turned on. He starts immediately to roughly pound her.

"Yes, you love it hard don't you!" he says and she does start to moan.

"Yes, you dirty little slut!" he slaps her ass as he pounds her and tells her to tell him to fuck her harder.

"Yes f**k me, fuck me harder!" she says as she starts to get going.

He keeps at it, pounding her really fast and hard.

"Yes, you dirty slut! What are you?" he shouts

"I'm a dirty slut!" she sighs as she is starting to get off now. He keeps going focusing on fully enjoying himself.

"Say it again you slut! Tell me to f**k you! You love f**king a hard cock don't you!"

"Mhm yess, f**k me!" she says nervously as she begins to reach pleasure.

ORGASMS AND ANOTHER ROUND

Guy 1 = they hold each other's heads with their hands as they look at each other and both cum moaning each other's names. "Yesssssss!" from both of them. After cuddling and him giving her a massage she proceeds to massage him and then ends up getting him hard again. He looks at her mouth and stands up and she giggles.

She proceeds to give him head and call him her highness again. This time, she knows what he likes and licks his shaft from bottom to top and looks right at him.

"Yess my dirty girl! Suck me, oh god yesss!" he proclaims.

"Mhmmm do you like that!" she moans.

He orders her to put her hands on her knees and "Beg for my cum!" moaning her name.

She isn't quite sure what to do, and opens her mouth moaning and smiling up at him as he cums on her face, in her mouth and a little in her hair. She laughs as she swallows a little and it actually tastes quite good. They both giggle and then they make out.

They cuddle again and fall asleep together. The next morning, they awaken, after he massages her, she gives him head in the shower and they have sex against the wall. Later have breakfast across the road.

Guy 2 = Pounding her as she moans and then pulls out. After a short while of him having maybe dozed off, he briefly fingers her and then guides her hands to do it herself, as he says "Get on your knees yeah!" and guides her lips to his cock as she continues to finger herself. She is almost climaxing as she sucks the tip. He starts to thrust a little into her mouth holding her head.

"Yes suck me!" He mentions her name for the first time in the interaction and then goes "Oh f**k yes, suck me you slut!"

He briefly even takes out his phone and videos it, commanding her to suck him.

As she moans getting herself off, her moaning and sucking are driving him wild and he pulls out and shouts "Beg for my cum you SLUT!!!"

Before she's done anything, he blasts her face with his cum as he moans "F**kkkk!" It's a hot finish for him and she takes it on the face.

He slaps his cock a little on her face afterward laughing. She does a little laugh, but can barely believe how much cum she has on her.

She goes to clean up discreetly in the bathroom and sees him later in the communal lounge where the party stragglers are. He just smirks and they part ways at the end of the night. She sees him at her dance class socials again, but doesn't interact with him intimately again.

WHO DOES SHE CARE FOR OR ENJOY THE MOST?

Your views on the guys, the girl and the sex?

Do women have dirtier sex with guys who don't care about them? What about this one?

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  • I had a friends with benefits relationship with three lovely girls in my teens but im married now so no I wouldn't but when I was 17 during the summer holidays for a month I managed to convince my hot 15 year old cousin and her friends to have a foursome with me, now that was an amazing. We met up three or four times a week for sex sometimes all together sometimes with someone missing or just individually, I know they met up for sex when I couldn't make it. When the summer ended I went on to college and the last time we met up was at Thanksgiving for sex the three girls having gotten very good at pleasuring themselves and each other. After Thanksgiving the girls got caught having sex together at a sleep over by my cousins parents and my cousin was sent away to a strict Christian straight camp and of the other girls one got beaten so bad by her father that she ended up in hospital and the other was sent to live with an aunt so as not to shame their family ehrn she gave birth to my son which was adopted by the aunt.
    I miss those innocent days, what I shared with those three girls wasn't just amazing sex but a very intense emotional connection and though we three were young and immature it was love though conservatives and liberals alike would both damme and dismiss what we shared as illegitimate.

    • Interesting story. Damn bro you had a foursome, how can a guy get that with some female friends? :-D So are you saying women are more slutty for guys who they don't care about? Cos it seems weird you wouldn't put in more effort for sex with someone you do care about. In this example above, what's going on - does the woman (described at the top) put in more effort for either guy? Who does she enjoy more and be dirty with?

    • Your thinking about only male sexual gratification and im talking about four people making love, their was no lack of effort from anyone and all were completely into it.

    • No I mean gratifying her as well. That's the whole point, but to try out positions or let go and be fully dirty, she has to also do that right? In this example, as I asked you before, was she being satisfied by one guy more than the other? Did she put in more effort for one? Who did she care for more?

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  • No. 1... Hands down.
    You can tell she cares for him more. And you can tell that there's a much deeper connection between them (i. e. holding each other's heads, cuddling, laughing together)... I didn't really see it quite as "mirroring" so much as just being in sync with each other and feeling an intimate, more genuine connection.

    Now for Guy 2
    Guy number two just seems like your typical cocky douche to me haha. But as far as mirroring goes, I see mirroring in the sense that she doesn't feel quite as comfortable with him and to me it felt like she was just doing what she THOUGHT he wanted her to do; if you want to call that "mirroring". I honestly cringed reading certain parts, I'm not sure if it just wasn't described as well but to me, it pretty much sounded like he was taking advantage of her and that she was uncomfortable... And that ending? He didn't even have the decency or respect for her as a person to give a damn second's notice? No. Then proceeds to slap his cock on her face. Nope.
    It just sounded like he was using her and didn't give a shit if she came or not.

    Number 1 for sure.

    • Great answer! Let's discuss, so, No.1 = Right, that's good! So what made you say guy 1 in terms of her caring more? Because she was definitely connecting with him and voluntarily trying to please him/talking dirty right? He seemed to care about pleasing her and enjoying that moment (his first time). They still had naughty sex and was she giving her all to try and please him and be dirty? I mean she did reaffirm him asking her whether she was his dirty girl and her loving it and she answered enthusiastically? No. 2 = Yes I agree! He just seemed to be someone who wanted to get off and had to convince her to say she was a "dirty slut". Lol on the guy not caring about the ending or her having pleasure. So do you think she would want to be dirty or please this guy or want to be dirtier for the guy 1? Who was more sexy and dirty? Thirdly, can good guys like guy 1 (an myself) be fully sexual whilst being romantic or do only guys like guy 2 "get away" with calling women a dirty slut?

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  • You write a lot. I have sex with a guy I like, simple as that.

    • His point is I think... women put more effort into sex with douche bags/people that don't care about them/guys that sleep around and hit the gym every day basically... they find a nice guy they like who cares about them... they don't put in that same effort and/or interest into sex.

    • fuck nvm that was his last post... this one is a porno thread.

    • Yeah just wanted to be clear, so that you don't get those people who respond with irrelevant stuff! I like your point about you have sex with someone you like. So connection is important? Did she like one guy and the sex more than the other in this case? Did she try to please one more and where is the affection?

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  • I'm going to go with they try and mirror his behavoir. So you got into her pants then him? Or is this just a fantasy that you imagined with her?

    • I do have to agree that they just appear innocent after you get to know them you do get to realize how much they actually have experienced. These two sisters I thought would hate deadpool because of the gore in it. Nope they cared less about the gore but they covered their eyes during hpthe sex part. Granted I did also but they are not completely innocent I have heard them talk about sex several times with friends but they act way more innocent around me. I do still think that they are virigns though neither of them are outgoing enough to just get laid and they are waiting around for Mr right without looking so I doubt they will find him anytime soon. Lol I hope they are enjoying their vibrators cause fake is all that they are probably going to get for a while.

    • Interesting! For that deadpool thing, once there was a friend who told me there were too many innuendos in it and she didn't get it, so does that mean she likes innuendos or not? She's innocent haha, but I like to imagine she's naughty in reality. I dunno for instance if she's a virgin - she's had 1 boyfriend. Now they broke up. But how do I know if she is interested if she acts sweet/innocent with me (mixed with funness)? As for the above question, what do you think about the care and affection she has for the 2 guys? So let's say she had a boyfriend, she broke up. She was away from guy 1, her friend being in another country. So she did the thing with guy 2 first. But when she slept with guy 1 as described above, he teaches her a real blowjob (despite being a virgin himself). Their descriptions of how they all met are at the very top. Based on the dirty talk between each of them, what do you think she perceives them as? Cite if you can

    • What do u think? The people are defined at the top, and each stage of the sex is described, so who has her attention/affection and say why?

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  • First time sex is udually standard sex. With guys who don't care about me I don't have sex multiple times. Hence I have kinkier sex with someone I'm very close with and trust.

    • Ok that's a good point, so you'd opt for close. In this case, both guys were in her social circle. What do you make of the sex she had with each? Was she trying to please one more than the other? Did she show affection to any of them? Was she dirtier with either?

    • I have no clue, sounds like you're overanalyzing it a little

    • Hypothesize, I'd like to hear your thoughts my feline? :-)

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  • This entire take sounds like it was taken straight from a porn script or something. Is there a point you're trying to get across here or something besides the fact you think every woman is going to give it up for some guy who doesn't care for them?

    I'm not going to drop my pants for a guy like that. The relationship has to at least be going somewhere first.

  • This is just a generation. It depends upon the person. Maybe true to some

    • Did you read the descriptions of all 3 people involved at the top? Read that and then tell me what you think.

    • Anything?

    • Really useless lol!

  • Since I cannot speak for this non existent girl, I'll say my pov. Unless I first found that guy attractive either by looks or character, then I probably won't find him suddenly attractive later.

    And didn't you answer your own question, if I never interacted with him intimately again it = bad sex. So she would stay with the first come where she came, enjoyed herself and had sex with multiple times.

    • Ok I'd like to hear your pov, you make an interesting point! So guy 1in this case, is probably more attractive. Did you see the descriptions of the two guys at the top? As for before the sex, who is she affectionate for? During the sex, does she try and please either of the guys more? Is she voluntarily being dirtier? Who does she enjoy and have affection for after sex?

    • Those three generally come under the same answer. It's not always the case but being single and getting drunk makes me hornier and more likely to want sex (not that that's actually happened, but it's been pretty close a couple of times). And when that happens I'm a lot more passive and will basically do as I'm told so to speak. She went with the first guy he was patient with her and she enjoyed it very much. I don't think so it's more she's drunk, it's not that she's being dirtier it's just he's more vulgar. Like I already said she cummed, enjoyed herself got her man off and then continues to have sex with him. Obviously she has more affection for him then the guy she never has sex with again.

    • I kinda see your point. I mean if a girl is drunk does it mean she will just run with it tho? To clarify, with guy 1, she was perfectly sober with him. They were at her place and a kiss let down to the night of passion. With guy 2, it was at a houseparty and she was drunk yes. First see their description, as I don't know if u saw this bit at the top?

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  • Sorry I know you asked me to comment on this but that's way too long to read right now.

    • Be great if you could. It's very readable I promise! The details are there to avoid any misunderstandings. Basically the 3 people are described and then the intimacy. So trying to gauge/discuss who she was affectionate for in terms of personality etc before sex. Then who she tries to please more and wants to please more during. Who she enjoyed the most. Where is the affection after sex for whom. Be great to hear your thoughts, you seemed clued up!

    • O then let's discuss then. So would a girl take cumshots, beg, be tied up etc with a guy who means nothing or a guy she likes (e. g. good guy friend)?

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  • Somewhat true. They say that men have a "Madonna whore complex" in which they feel affection for a woman they love, but don't want to really have gritty sex with her, while he wants to "degrade" a woman who is sexually reknown or has had a lot of sexual experience with men. Women are no different really.

    • Haha ah yes the madonna whore complex. It is interesting and a bit strange though right? I mean personally I'd rather be dirty with an innocent sweet friend than some bitchy girl. Explain why men might do that though? When you say women are no different, so how does it apply to them? Why would you not put in more effort to please a guy who cares about you or who is a good person? In the example above, given their descriptions, did the woman try to please one guy more than the other? Who did she enjoy and voluntarily was dirtier for?

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    • I agree with u, @ManOnFire. So many men seem to want primal nasty sex with a naughty promiscuous whorish woman, but with their own woman they sink into the lovemaking role exclusively... and the woman has to tell the man she loves to fuck her like a nasty whore. :-P Every guy experienced in relationships has probably had this same scenario happen to them.

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  • This whole take is bullshit. It's just an excuse to write some smut in which the woman (of course, never the man) succumbs to the man. If you want to write this kind of crap, take it to a private blog or something but don't subject the GaG public to it. It is nothing but objectifying.

  • girls tend to have dirtier sex with the guys they dont care much about...

    • Yeah I heard that too. In this particular case though, was she voluntarily dirtier for a particular guy? Did she try to please one more than the other - give me an example?

    • What do you think about the woman above, if you skim read it?

    • Thoughts?

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  • I'm not sure. I've never had sex with someone I didn't care about...

    • That's good for you, and I think that's great. Neither have I, I believe it's so much hotter if you like someone, you know someone really cute, sharing that naughtiness with them is really sexy. In this example, briefly skimming the guys and girl involved, and the different language used and actions, what do you think? Was she more into one guy than the other? Did she try and please one more voluntarily than the other and enjoy herself more? Ultimately who does she have affection and sexual attraction for?

    • I enjoy the intimacy of sex with someone. To be their friend and to also know what makes them squirm and scream. Also I didn't read the mytake. I just answered the question

    • Yes I totally agree on the intimacy part. For me it's the same. I like to know who they are, be their friend, them to be mine, to have that sweet girl open up to me and have her pleasure me and pleasure her. The fact I know she's a friendly sweet girl and being intimate and naughty is really sexy. And it's great like you said to know what makes them moan in the bedroom away from the rest of the world. I'd love to hear your views if you could skim read the take as well given your excellent answer to the title question? It's very readable I promise! You seem to be pretty clued up and a great girl?

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  • That's true when a person is not judged and knows that no matter what they do won't come out in real world makes then more dirty and freaky

    • Thanks for opining! Ok but explain, I don't think I get it. In terms of who she was not being judged by in her belief? Who did she like before sex more (see description of their relationships at the top)? Who did she want to please more in bed? And who was she dirty with? Who did she feel satisfied by and wants to be with after sex?

    • It depends on her if she is a shallow person,.. A gold digger a fame whore and less educated she will enjoy the second one more!. Because she second guy is more sexual and fun!.. But if she has a PhD and has study hard,.. Read many novels and has a taste for royal educated guys who could make her wet with words and loves soft sex then she will enjoy first guy more!.. It's like each lock has a different key

    • see the description of both the woman and the guys at the top. She's a sweet girl. Then explain your thoughts

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  • just dont date sluts. its that simple.

    • Lol, did the girl want to please one more than the other? Why is she a slut, the 2nd one happened first by the way. Did she voluntarily try to act more dirty with one guy and please them? And who does she care for?

    • i didn't read it. but if a girl doesn't do something for you she's done before she's not worth your time.

    • Yeah it requires you to skim it, she did do it for guy 1 and more?

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  • Its usually the other way around

    • Really? Ok, so why's that? And in this take, did you see the description of the 2 guys and the woman involved? After skimming it, does she try and please one guy more than the other? And show more affection to one?

    • Did you have to dislike my comment just because I didn't agree (if it wasn't you I'm sorry for accusing you )

    • No it wasn't me bro! I don't up or down vote till the discussion has continued for a bit lol! Might be this other guy, the fake alpha below who posted some useless comment earlier. What do you make of my points?

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  • Seems like guy 1 is more preferred, was like a page from an erotica novel for porn. Interesting mytake

    • Oh yeah? Thanks I guess! Right, so guy 1? Could you explain why? And whether she was trying to please one more than the other?

    • Seemed more passionate

    • Interesting point! So with guy 1 she was more passionate and volunteered to please him much more? What do you think?

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  • i think number 1, im not a girl so i dont really know.

    • Fair enough on that point haha. That's cool, so why number 1? In terms of how she behaved, tried to please voluntarily and affection, dirtiness etc?

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  • first thing first - looking innocent is part of seduction. they may be looking innocent but sure as hell some women are not. it's just a game. if you dont get pass the test of saying something more than a stupid you're pretty her attitude will change and she will commence giving you shit test

    howhever

    the more you are confident the more she wants to get dirty, plain and simple.
    if you're too nice you end up as a friend BUT if you're really good looking you can be a mix of the first and the latter case

    dude, dont ask me to analyze every scenario tho - every woman have some basic istincts as males does, its up to you to get to know her but look to what i wrote up there. point, i dont have anything else to add.

    • I get that on innocent. But how do you know if she is interested? I don't really think you addressed the question about her care and affection?

    • if she's interested ask her out care and affection comes later. first is seduction, sex and romance. dont even think to change the order - the Whole deal of "im taking care of you" comes AFTER sex. otherwhise you pass as the nice guy

    • Erm, dude I'm talking about the take, did you actually read the very top? All 3 people are described. Then each stage of sex is stated with the dirty talk involved and the actions. If you read that, who is she giving her all for and affection etc? Say why?

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  • I would have sex only with a guy who cares about me, including dirtier sex ;)

    • Nice, good girl! ;-) In terms of the people above (they are described at the top), who is she affectionate for before sex. And during the sex, who does she try to please and enjoy being dirty for? After sex, who is she affectionate for?

    • Thank you ;) 1. The second guy 2. Evenly 3. The first guy

    • You're welcome, you are a good girl. 1. Oh the second guy? So why's that, explain, from the descriptions of the relationships at the top given both of them are her friends? 2. Is it even, does she voluntarily try to please each and talk dirty to one more than the other? 3. Who is she enjoying? 4. So affectionate for the first, explain?

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  • i guess out of the two guys id prefer guy 1 the most. id never have sex with someone i dont like and someone like guy 2 would almost immediately turn me off. sex is suppose to be pleasurable but guy 2 seems to only be looking for his own pleasure, not the girls. I would hate it if i was with guy 2 lol.

    also the whole calling her a slut whilst she sucks your dick thing and pulling hair thing is an extremeeee turn off for me. i would leave in the middle of sex right there.

    Hope that helps x

    • Very great points. Yes I too think sex is about mutual pleasure and a connection. So do you think the lady above had a better time with guy 1? Was she trying to please one guy more than the other voluntarily? Did she show affection to one guy more than the other? As for the dirty talk, which did she participate more in and could you clarify the "slut" naming?

    • I'm a 100% sure that she had a better time with guy 1. Any girl would. She was able to give and receive a fair amount and that's what makes sex good. As for the slut thing I would find that disrespectful to the next extreme as I will already be thinking "am I doing it right? Does he like this?" If u call me a slut during sec all my confidence to do it will be gone. I'm so sorry for the late reply but I hope that helps!😘❤

    • That's great, I appreciate you getting back. So she had a better time with guy 1? Could you explain why with him and not with guy 2? As for the slut thing, I understand, so did she enjoy the dirty talk with guy 1 much more and try to please guy 1 more?

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  • I don't get it?

    • Hi, if you skim through the description of the woman and the 2 guys at the top. Then skim through how she acts with them during sex below that. Thoughts on who she was trying to please, impress, who she was dirty for and who she was enthusiastic with

    • What is this all hypothetical? Or did this all actually happen?

    • Happened, your thoughts pls

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