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I hear it all the time: Guys love virgins! Guys wish every girl they sleep with could be a virgin!
I have no idea where this ridiculous idea comes from and while I kind of get the appeal, let me assure you, ladies: While BOYS might want to sleep with virgins, MEN want to sleep with women...experienced women. Let me tell you why.
Less danger of a misunderstanding
These days, girls are raised to be terrified of both sex and men. They hear nothing but horror stories about rape and abuse and weird sexual deviant males hurting women. So it's no wonder that the first time they go to have sex, they're basically cowering in a corner. This is not only a turn-off but it also frightens guys, because how can they be sure you're even consenting? How can they be sure you're not going to turn around and scream rape when it's over, because you sure as hell didn't look all that enthusiastic, and you were confused and even scared.
There's no ambiguity or questioning when it comes to experienced women. If they don't want it, you'll know. If they do, you'll know then, too. No ifs, ands, or buts.
4. Who wants blood during sex?
I remember losing my virginity and frankly, it's just not much for for either person. The guy, especially if he's a virgin himself, is afraid he might've hurt you when he sees the blood, and you're not feeling all that great. I mean, even if you had an orgasm (which is unlikely your first time), there was still some pain involved. On top of which, your brain is still struggling to catch up, so combined with the blood you've got a sort of dazed girl, who isn't even really sure what happened. That's just not a great finish to any sexual escapade...and the blood really, really doesn't help.
3. There's little chance the guy will enjoy himself with a virgin
One of the reasons I don't get why people believe guys love virgins is because every time I talk to a guy about sleeping with a virgin, he always says it sucks. Always. Hell, I know some guys who absolutely refuse to sleep with virgins anymore because they've had several bad experiences. The bottom line is that the girl just doesn't really know what she's doing, and that will invariably lead to a mediocre sexual experience for the guy. Yeah, guys always orgasm but don't think for a second that there aren't levels of orgasms. Virgins can't blow a guy's mind. Sorry, they just don't have the necessary know-how and every guy I know confirms this theory.
2. Experimentation is a GO
Virgins can't deal with experimentation; they're just trying to get their feet wet. But experienced women can be all about experimenting in the sack, and they'll often encourage creativity on the part of the guy. This means men can try all sorts of new things and instead of the woman being scared, she'll likely welcome the ideas (provided they're not too twisted or off-the-wall). And while some women still believe guys don't care about creative lovemaking and only want to "get off," no experienced woman believes this to be true. We know it isn't true.
And because we're more open to talking about the ideas, too (we're no longer afraid of the subject), we're ready to listen to your nifty thoughts. ;)
1. Guys go in knowing they have to step up their game
Okay, a little pun in that subtitle there but you know what I mean. With virgins, guys figure they don't have to do much of anything. I guess one of the benefits is that a virgin doesn't know if a guy is any good, but an experienced woman absolutely does. This might put more pressure on the guy at first, but many men love the idea of stepping up because the woman is gonna match them stride for stride (or thrust for thrust). I guess a good analogy would be this: If you're playing in the majors, it wouldn't be much fun to play with some random dude from A ball, right? You want some competition; you want to play with someone who can bring out the best in you. :)
Just trust me when I say guys do NOT want virgins. Well, again, I'm not talking about men, not boys.
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