Now, most guys, despite claiming they understand or try to understand women, seem to believe women get as much of a sexual pleasure just from seeing them - like they do from seeing women.
Dispelling the misconception: NOPE! Not true. Not even close. Never happened, never will.
Why?
While men are visual beings women are more tactile + mental beings when it comes to sexual attraction. it's just what it is... We didn't ask for it, but we got it.
You can say it's easier for you...which, in part, might be true, but it's also harder [no pun intended]. While you do get aroused much quicker, you are also, a lot of the time, cursed with this - getting aroused by almost nothing, being aroused too often, how do you hide it, what do you do? Is it worth the bother? That's for each of you to decide.
While you get turned on by seeing breasts, hips, butts, vaginas...basically any naked part of a woman's body, we aren't the same.
Now...what turns a woman on?
It's simpler than you might think.
While some of you are savants and already know what I'm going to write, this is for all you guys who are still living in doubt and concern of how to one day turn on your lady:
1. Be funny, make her laugh. Oh yes, the ultimate aphrodisiac. Anyone who says this isn't true...isn't worth a bang. (But seriously, do it in a loving relationship...)
2. Be a good person with an edge, someone who's not afraid to be sterne when need be, but also display your kind side from time to time. She wants to know she's not dating a bad person. (Now, this excludes the emotionally damaged women who still go for the 'emotionally challenged bad boy'...but you already knew that.)
3. Touch her firmly and with obvious intent. Now...depends on the girl, what she likes and on her mood at the time, but - almost every woman will tell you she likes this...80% of the time.
To conclude: Yes, looks matter, but you aren't going to get any women (not talking about teenagers) sexually aroused by standing there without a shirt OR pants on... It takes more than that.
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