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Why I Don't Believe in Female "Sexperience"

Why I Don't Believe in Female "Sexperience"

First of all I am not being hateful. I want to simply explain my points of view and I really expect you to give me rational responses. Yes I am a virgin who wants to please her future lover very much. 🍌👅 Please don't make any remarks about my "INexperience". If you believe in female sexual experience then explain details by details WHAT A NON VIRGIN GILR CAN DO THAT A VIRGIN GIRL CANNOT DO. I have asked this question to my non virgin friends and none of them gave a concrete answer. They have said:

1. Virgins are a dead fish

OKAY. But non virgins can be dead fish too. AND virgins can be passionate and active and they don't have to have a dick inside them for being able to touch and kiss the guy's body. IF you ❤ someone why won't you show affection to them?

Why I Don't Believe in Female "Sexperience"

2. Virgins get attached after you take their virginity.

This is funny. What does being attached have to do with experience. ANY woman who ❤ and has feelings for the man gets attached to him after having sex with him. And is there anything bad with being attached to your bf? Should she be cold after the sex? Would you like her to act cold after you banged her? I am sure any guy would feel insecure if a girl you had sex act like a stranger to you. You would think you are a bad lay.

Guys complain about frigid and cold girls yet they also complain about girls being attached to them? Please explain why wanting to have sex with you again is annoying. 😂

3. Virgins bite your 🍆

Seriously, biting is a choice. You don't bite accidentally.

Why I Don't Believe in Female "Sexperience"

ANYONE knows biting genitalia is not pleasant. And you can always use your lips in a way that your teeth won't meet your partner's sex.

Why I Don't Believe in Female "Sexperience"

4. Virgins can't deep throat

Sure. Like all non virgins deep throat. 😆 Some people have a good gag reflex. And bj can still be good without deepthroating. Am I right, guys?

Why I Don't Believe in Female "Sexperience"
Why I Don't Believe in Female "Sexperience"

5. Virgins don't try new things

Yes like you try new things everytime you have sex. 😂 Have you never repeated the same sex position? If you are really that into new and different things then you will like sex with a virgin as it IS indeed different compared to sex with non virgins.

6. Virgins are not kinky

If you are only for kinky sex and not into passionate lovemaking then you are a bore. Kinkiness in mind, non virgins are not necessarily into kinkiness. Many adventourous women have had wild kinky fantasies in their childhood (before losing their virginity). Some women get less kinky after having actual sex. So virginity doesn't stop a virgin from having kinky mind as well as losing virginity doesn't necessarily arouse interest in kinkiness.

7. Virgins don't go on top

Actually I have heard many women losing their virginity on top of the guy where they control the depth and speed for they don't feel pain.

If I am wrong then enlighten me. 💖 I am always eager to learn. 👍

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  • I don't know where some of you come up with these things. I have never heard these things said about virgins other then the clingy thing. And on that one you really don't describe it properly. What has been said is that the virgins get supper clingy. I don't know if that is true. Even if I had the option when I was younger, I wouldn't have wanted a virgin. Don't be a woman's first... or last...
    the rest is just hogwash. A lot of guys, like me, don't like deep throat. If I don't like it, why make the woman choke? I also hate the woman being on top. Some women can only orgasm from intercourse if they are on top. So we do it until they cum, then we switch. I am pretty vanilla when it comes to sex, so don't care about 6 either. I lost my virginity to a woman that was 23 and very experienced. She scrapped my cock with her teeth a lot. So it isn't just virgins. But it was a blow job and I was till smiling after. I also don't get the "dead fish" analogy. What is a woman supposed to do during sex other then lay there? If she moves, it throws me all off. and how is she going to move with me, at 6' 3" and 290lbs, being on top of her?
    all of this is typical nonsense young people come up with.

    • I liked your comment and read it twice

    • Yep, guys are all different! Just like girls.

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  • A lot of experienced people, don't know how to have good sex, so don't worry. I agree with your list. I think communication is #1. You can experience lots of sex, but not experience great sex. And yeah this applies to me too! If you don't talk, then how can you have awesome sex?

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  • i am a sex-positive woman, and i don't think any of these assumptions are valid criticisms of virginity. it's like people saying, "all women who enjoy sex are sluts", or something equally ridiculous... it's a matter of personal choice, pure (pun intended) and simple.

    in my case, i never planned on saving myself for marriage (mostly because i never planned on getting married either). but the only valid concern i can think of is that some people want to "try before they buy"- as in, if your partner ends up being lousy in bed and you have to spend the rest of your life training him or her. that's a deal-breaker for some folks, but definitely not all.

    /my 2 cents, for whatever they're worth.

    -von

  • by the way, this is a reply to SarahsSummer, who blocked me in the process of writing this post. Given the level of passive-aggressive vitriol in that post, I very much doubt that. And even if it were true, just because your current steady sex-partner (FWB? Frequent hookup? Or boyfriend? Don't know, don't care) is happy with you having 'garnered your experience' by riding the cock-carousel to your heart's content back in your teens and early twenties, doesn't meant that any guy will be. I don't give a fuck about your flaunted 'expertise'- you're an absolute novice when it comes to me, what I want and what turns ME on, in exactly the same way that the OP is. And unlike you, at least she'd be willing to learn, accommodate and adapt. You? You're too obsessed with the notion that you already know it all when it comes to sex to be bothered even trying to learn anything about a new sexual partner. You may well be a pro at sex, and at getting guys off. But I don't want a prostitute (of which there'll be plenty with superior skills to your own). I'd much rather be with a sexual amateur. Because it's the emotions and the feelings associated with it which matter, and which really make a relationship worthwhile, not 'going through the motions' and just having sex.

    • She has given bj to guys since 16. Totally gross

  • #3 is definitely not true, lol. I messed up the first couple of times with that, solely due to inexperience. It sounds like you've never given a blowjob.
    As for the rest, you have points regarding those things that virgins can do that non-virgins also can, but there are many things that non-virgins have that virgins simply lack.
    Experience comes in handy with knowing timing, various sensations, what pleases a man, what you like yourself, having skills that are only gleaned from experience (case in point - accidentally using teeth (among many other issues)), the list goes on.
    It seems like you're a virgin trying desperately to be seen as having the same attributes and skills and experience as someone who's had sex many times, and it's not really working for you.

    • What can a non virgin do that a virgin can't do.

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    • I explained this in my comment.

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  • As a girl who lost her virginity later than most in my peer group (22) I can actually say that this is true. While I was absolutely not an expert, I wasn't an incapable deadfish so I actually agree with this take. While everyone's experience will be different, a little patience and lack of biased opinion helps everyone in the long run. Just communicate, ask questions, and act fearlessly. <3

    • You were good for the first time because of your age and your charisma I think

    • Thanks, I like to think so.

  • 1. I agree, actually had this discussion with my ex that his current girlfriend sometimes does that haha
    2. Well considering when I lost my virginity I pretty much ran out of there... no they dont all get attached.
    3. Think thats more along the lines of its something to get used to knowing how to stop it as teeth do get in the way rather than biting.
    The rest I completely agree with. But thats not. limited to virgins. Thats just something people use to insult anyway

    • I don't like when people deadfishness, dickbiting, prudeness limit to virgins lol

    • Oh I get that but it isn't limited to just virgins

  • It kind of sounds like you're putting your virginity on a pedestal.

  • Basically its argued to convince women to act a specific way, mostly promiscuisly. I don't know why this is the goal as data shows it has many negative consequences, especially to women, but that is how society does it. Perhaps its a justification, if every one does it they will feel better about doing it or maybe its an attempt by women to try and convince themselves that the behavior is not adversely affecting them (women have a knack for this, hence all the articles written by women proclaiming how great it is to be single (which eventually leads to them writing another article admitting its bullshit and they are lonely). Their is nothing wrong with being a virgin and quite honestly if you look at the data the fewer partners you have the more satisfying your relationships become so it can very much be a benefit.

  • with experience comes knowledge. Unfortunately you have neither.

    • What you can do that I can't do? And are you sure I can't do?

    • I don't want to put you down but as with anything you've practiced, you get better. Surely you know that. If that were not the case, there would be no schools. Would you make your proclamation if the topic were figure skating, chess or mathematics? Sex isn't just about getting into position A or position B, lick this, suck that. it's about being able to read your partner and his body language to know what he likes, dislikes and loves. These things only become evident from trial, error and good old sweaty practice.

    • Schools? So learning how to be good in bed is smth you have studied in school? AndI don't have to sleep with other men for me to know what my partner likes

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  • I never cared about virginity anyway. A virgin *does* show her inexperience though. The more you do something, the better you get at it. Also, you can make love to a virgin the same way you do with an experienced one. If you are not careful, you can hurt her. Still, I don't care, I'll be gentle.

  • There is a kinky inside of everyone

  • I'm not the author!!!
    :p

    • Lmfao

  • I don't understand the title at all? Seems irrelevent to the actual take. I am tired of seeing takes about sex from people who've never experienced it tho, in my experience virgins are boring until they learn.

    • Have you had sex with virgin girls?

    • If you are tired of seeing takes about sex from people who've never experienced it then why did you bothet commenting on them,?

    • I've had sex with virgin girls and virgin guys. So yes. I comment on them because this is a site where people give opinions and I'm as free to give my opinion as anyone else. The difference is I don't agree with you.

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  • Lol yea the guy didn't even think I was a virgin until later on, we went like 2 rounds in diff places he lasted forever, and I got on top once so nvr say nvr lol

  • Loved your article. Sometimes this topic can get quite annoying when discussing it with someone who thinks that both virgins and beginners are still bad at sex in overall.

  • So you made all this up cuz you're a virgin? [shrug]

    • I said what I thought

  • I think the difference is you know what you like more and you tend to enjoy sex more with more experience. It's not about the sex being better for the guy.
    If you want to wait for the one right guy though, more power to you.

    • I am not saying sex for the first time will be as enjoyable FOR THE VIRGIN GIRL as sex after the first time. I am saying that it is wrong to think sex with a virgin is boring

  • I agree that virgins can be kinky and fun too. There's nothing wrong with someone being a virgin. I would actually prefer it for a long term relationship.

  • This is probably the stupidest thing I have read so far :D

  • hope you feel positive about virgin guys.

  • First of all the picture of a child with this time of question is illegal. Use any picture of a child with clothes or without clothes in any sex tone is a crime.

    Be a Christian, I am proud of myself in being a virgin till I got marry. It was a great honor for my wife and me. Knowing she is the only one who had me sexually. She was also a virgin and I am the only one she had. Sex is not a recreation activity. Sex take place in marriage between husband and wife. Those who are virgins are normal. They have a high level of respect for their self and others. Virgin who are Christians knows they keeping their body holy to God. Virgin people are more trust, lovely, caring, not self-center. They also have a more honest love for others.

    • Preachhhhhhh👏🏼

    • the basic christian viewpoints :D

    • God Bless You! You saved yourself for marriage!

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