Good Reasons To Avoid Good Girls

Good Reasons To Avoid Good Girls

1) They Won't Change No Matter What You Say

A lot of guys waste time seducing good girls. A woman has decided whether she wants to have sex with you very on upon meeting you. What this means is that if you were the exception to her rule, you'd know it. The reason is that it has nothing to do with how "cool" of a guy you are. It doesn't matter if you have a great personality or are physically attractive. It's a rule that's built to make herself feel like more feminine. She's been taught to treat her vagina like a priceless artifact and so it continues to collect dust, while she waits for a guy to "commit." So, eh, we don't need them...

2) Good Girls Are Not "Normal Girls"

One major psychological trick (I don't think they do this intentionally as a weapon but it comes across that way) is to suggest that all "normal girls" don't want to hook up even if they're feeling the guy and all "normal girls" wait until the guy is their boyfriend or have known them for months to sleep with them. What she's doing unconsciously is pulling you into her reality, meaning her way of thinking which she believes to be very true. If she believes her truth more than you believe hers you're likely to go along with it. However, most guys are just as convinced about how important sex is and such is the nature of a lot of early conflict. The reality though, for both, is that "normal" varies greatly. There are a lot of sexual girls there are a lot of prudes and there's a lot of in between. Trying to see all women one way or the other is not effective or true.

3) Good Girls Are Rightly Terrified That Their Mindset Drives Men Away

A big thing that seems to drive good girls is their belief in the higher purpose of their resilience and stubbornness. They fully expect men to not like their attitude towards sex. Thus, even if you would have come around to it, any initial resistance will have them heading for the hills in fear that you might be "just like every guy" and reject her because she won't have sex.

4) Honestly, Non-Hot Good Girls Are The Scraps Other Men Don't Want

Yes, you can become a lot more attractive both mentally and physically, but given a positive attitude anyone can find like minded people. Usually if you're shy, a lot of the girls you meet are easy to meet because, surprise, not many dudes want to eff with them. These girls have gone through countless experiences of a guy trying hard to change their mind then leaving after having wasted valuable time and probably money. It creates a lot of bitterness and shame when you can't even bag a girl that no one wants but the irony is that no one wants them because they can't be bagged. They want a relationship. They've made it clear. You only have yourself to blame for wasting your time and money when she made it plain.

Worst Offenders:

-Ex-Sluts who traded one extreme for another

-Good Girls who intentionally show off their butt or cleavage to get male attention and then feel like that attention should be paid to getting to know them ( Not talking about girls who actually just show off a lot of skin and don't have any interest in male attention for it. You can tell the difference.

-Virgins

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Most Helpful Girl

  • And what makes all those guys who rejected her think they'll be good at sex anyway? If he can't even talk about a relationship or commitment, then how's he capable enough to communicate and listen in bed? He did her a favor by leaving early, srsly.

    • i don't think the comparison holds up.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I think we have different definitions of what a "good girl" is.

    • define.

    • You seem to think they're prudes, waiting for a commitment before doing anything sexual. Also kind of stuck up, based on what you said on point #3. And basically the whole Take seems like good girls are actually not bad. To me, a good girl is a girl who has her head on her shoulders, she has her priorities straight, knows what she wants, and doesn't play for it. She knows her flaws and tries to fix them. She's neither a prude nor a slut. And she's certainly the type of girl 90% of guys would like to date.

    • fair enough. good reasons to avoid prudes

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  • 1. Lol, I'm a 'good girl', and I fuck all the time. Just bc I'm not having sex with random thirsty dudes doesn't make me bad XD Even 'bad girls' don't let random players play them or hop into their vaginas. A woman can be selective and be good or bad.
    2. I agree, everyone wants different things. People should be upfront and compromise when they want and only when they want.
    3. True I guess, some guys don't want to wait a month or two to get official then a bit after that. Sex is a sort of investment, so biologically, women typically are more selective just like men are typically less selective (not all, we have our brains to make up our minds and commit to action or inaction)
    4. Right, I think a guy is a dumbass if he goes after a 'good girl' because if the only valuable time is in her pants (you make the time when he's trying to change her mind about her values (which was bad in 3 for the woman to do...) seem taxing on him) then wtf is he doing barking up the wrong tree? If he wants sex, wouldn't he just pander to women who want sex vs trying to go after the 'good ones'... the more shy ones... seems a bit creepy. But good girls being scraps is also rude af bc you're basically saying, women who don't want to have sex with random dudes are worthless... women are worth much more than their vaginas...

    It's sad the guys in this take show an interest in sex and have money and time to give vs the women in this take, their only feature/capability is to have sex, waste a man's time and frustrate him.

    • sex isn't everything but it's part of the equation and something thats fun and exciting. I don't understand why some women want a man to choose between her and having sex. i totally get not being attracted to a majority of men but even this isn't true. a lot of it comes down to is the guy thirsty or is he interested in the girl minus having sex. the fact that men can more often get sex by not wanting it and lose sex by wanting it is ridiculous.

    • Your take makes it seem like all you want is sex, not a relationship. I mean, why stress how frustrating the wait time for sex is if that's not your sole goal?

    • HAVING A WAIT TIME FOR SEX IS EFFING STUPID! A woman's vagina is not like a roast turkey that needs to cook for a really long time before it's ready. Either it feels it or it doesn't. It's stupid to create a wait time like its some kind of challenge.

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  • made my day with that stack of Illuminati non-sense x)

    what's next? "Nice girls" are parts of a world wide conspiracy to teach men not to be thirsty ass?

    • lol i'm just saying good girls are just the worst for men... they demand you play their game or bounce.

    • there's no game at all and no such thing as "good girls" there's just immaturity, on both sides of the fence

  • So I am not normal? Yap, I am not normal. Ok. ('-' )

    • nope!

  • Well i do agree with you if you're after sex, if iam after sex i avoid these girls completly but if i want anything serious i actually pursue such girls, good girls may sound prude, and like they have issues but they are shy, usually dont cheat, loyal and by waiting til you 100% commit to them you know they are not easy to bed and probably one or non other men have been with them.

    for sex , avoid them
    for long term relationship they're the go to girls

  • I see where you are coming from to a point, good girls are hell bent on getting what they want and at time may end up alone for that reason. Sometimes we have to compromise, looking for a lawyer/model/singer who volunteers at animal shelters on the weekends isn't realistic and a lot of good girls can have that mentality.
    But if you can get one, hold on tight!

  • Seems more likely that women should avoid you, than you avoid some of them.

    • I vote this MHO ! Lo

  • lol dude So basically all you want is a good fuck while those girls want a relationship. And no matter what u do, you still don't get to fuck with any of them. Am i right?

    • basically, i think these girls hold absolutely no value in the dating world. men should avoid them. men who still want to pursue them shouldn't complain or become bitter because women are like above because not all women are like that just a minority are. good try at shaming though

    • @pavlove Basically you're obviously still young and don't even know what you're talking about. Men should avoid women like you that think this way.

    • Or women lol my boo boo you still have zero clue.

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  • I actually agree with you. You shouldn't waste time trying to change someone's mind. Just respect their life choices and move on. All these men trying to get her in bed are idiots that she shouldn't bother with in the first place.

  • I relate so much to this. My dilemma in life is that I always attracted THESE types.

    • you're repressing your sexuality

    • ... and I say this with a bit of regret. I know. You are 100% right. The only difference is I realised this about 6 years later than you. No woman represses my sexuality anymore. She either is a sex freak and if I keep attracting nice women (which lately I'm not) I hit the escorts. That's my journey.

    • i actually believe prostitutes can help "nice guys" understand how to be dominant. not only can you explore your prowess judgement free but you can learn how to operate without constantly looking for that approval.

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  • Hhhhmmm a lot of butthurt I sense here.
    Good girls are just smart enough to know to hold out for a good guy willing to marry them and not waste time on guys who just want sex from them.

    • lol you are truly whipped and/or a woman

    • Nah I just married a good girl.

    • married at 26. we're different men.

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  • lmfao weak!

  • I wouldn't say I avoid girls, but I don't care for relationships. I don't think they're worth it. I also feel like I will have less negativity in my life

    • all the more reason to avoid the "good" ones

  • Well good to know since I'm a good girl.
    I can certainly tell you I'm not the most normal

  • really dude lol

    • yes really

    • you sound so depressed lol

  • NOT BECAUSE U HAD BAD WITH GOOD GIRL experience doesn't MEAN ALL GOOD GIRLS ARE SLUT

  • Everything has a price. You assume women should be okay with giving sex for nothing while men can take all the time they want to make a commitment?

  • You can happily go after sluts and whores, as you are just a fuckboy and a player, just like they are.

    • its 2017 your church girl act isn't impressive to anyone. if you feel you need to withhold just to get a guy to stick around, well, there's work to be done...

    • You don't care, all you wanna is fuck. Shame on you. Idiot.

    • You are a loser that can't control his desires. Hahahaha nah dude. Don't say anything to me, loser.

  • 1) They Won't Change No Matter What You Say
    and that what I need.
    good girl.

    • i don't want them to change. i want guys to avoid them.

  • Then go for whores and sluts they are much easier and up to your standards.

  • None of these are bad points.

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