Have you ever wondered why it's seen as an accomplishment for men to have sex with multiple women and why it's seen as a disappointment for women? I know a lot of you are going to dislike this take, but keep in mind I'm just being honest & telling you the actual reasons. This is why society prefers women to be virgins.
Lady like
It's simply not lady like. I know a lot of women reading this right now are boiling in their seats. Well, that's one of the main reasons, it's not lady like at all for a woman to want sex with multiple men. It's like she's chasing after penis which is very unattractive. People believe women are supposed to be like butterflies, you chase after them but never catch them, until one day a butterfly lands on you, and you know that butterfly is yours to keep. That's how it is in books, movies, fairy tales, and just in general. It's not very lady like to have slept with over 10 men. Imagine this discussion with a bunch of other females, telling them you've slept with over 10 men, and the rest of them are probably virgins.
Overused
Men don't like women who've had sex, because they believe the vagina would be all used up and worn out. I know it's been proven that vagina's are elastic, but think of it this way. I'm pretty sure you all know what a mouth guard is right? A piece of equipment athletes use to protect their teeth from being damaged. Would you want to use someone else's mouth guard? That they've had all in their mouth for such a long time? They've got their spit all on it and whatnot, would you want to use that? Even if they wash the mouth guard, you still wouldn't want it? No, you'd just prefer to get your own brand new, never used mouth guard.
That's how men feel when it comes to vaginas, why would we want it when we could just get a fresh brand new one. The only difference is, another mans penis was actually in the vagina, so it's even worse. Would you put a mouth guard in your mouth that's had some guys penis on it? Even if it's been washed... no, the fact that some other man has put his penis there is not attractive, especially if multiple men's penises have been down there. With penises, you won't be able to tell the difference, no matter how many times a guy has sex, his penis will still feel the same. Vagina's on the other hand do stretch, and the feeling slightly changes after she's had sex a few times.
Experience
Men like to impress women, believe it or not we do. That's why men show off in front of women, we like to make them smile, giggle, and just impress them. Well, you can't impress a woman who's seen and done it all. Men love to see a woman's grimace, or just to hear her say "Wow". When a woman has had sex with a lot of men, most likely you're not going to be the best she's had, so nothing you do is going to surprise her at all, she's already done it. Also, it makes it even worse when she pretends to be surprised.
It's very easy to make a man say "wow." Literally, you can make a guy say wow just by flashing him, even if he's seen your breast a billion times, he's still going to be impressed.
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