Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Many clueless girls here, that never bothered to learn game, (cause well.. they are straight girls) come with corny cheap ass articles in the flavor of "do x, y things guys to get a partner. smile, dress well". forget all these things. they have NO IDEA how a girl is seduced, despite being girls themselves. i'll tell you what is your REAL PROBLEM.
you lack social savviness and core confidence. in a few words you lack GAME. what game is? its a very misunderstood concept and while many think its a pua coaches' scam its much more legit than you'd ever imagine.
There are two main types of game. Inner game and Outter game. For optimal results you need to develop both.
Stop using excuses. Stop being a beta fag whining that "girls only date tall, ripped rich guys with full hair and thats why i never stand a chance". you can be a short balding, ginger nerd, living in your momma's basement and still get laid. oh yeah. Your body language, posture, voice tonality volume speak much more about you in the eyes of a girl from the ver first seconds.
Things most women are attracted to Universally.
Non neediness
Life is peculiar. What you want you can't have and what you have in excess comes plenty.
And here we go to a core concept which is
Abundance
Girls are emotional creatures. Their antennas are quite accurate, and they cringe in the slightest smell of neediness. Thus the concept of being "creeped out" that you hear frequently girls say. Its not that you approach, its the deeper motives behind your actions and the desperation every fiber of your body reeks.
"Want to be the guy on the left or the distressed beta on the right?"
Light Spirited
You can't approach a girl, especially at a nightclub setting, and talk to her about quantum engineering. No matter how good you are at it, that ain't the shit she wants to hear. Its best to start with a fun atmosphere, jokes, flirting, slowly escalating. Noone wants to hear you recite a phd thesis. Also girls want you to be a carefree guy overall. being overly serious and stuck up will guarantee you losing her sooner or later.
Empathy
Most guys never bothered to learn why and how women react as they do. From an evolutionary standpoint women are creatures that seek the best, most savy, and successful mates. And as creatures that give birth have to be very selective and fast rule out unwanted mates, cause pregnancy was a long lasting and irreversible process. But even this isn't satisfactory and complete explanation cause
Feelings
Girls are emotional leeches. After all, girls just wanna have fun. When you are a walking pile of misery and boredom and non assertiveness, then you are guaranteed to fail. Women are like sales in a shop. You have to get the customer from the start, on a roller coaster of positive feelings, and maintain this up to the end of the interaction. But if you stress yourself in the process its a sign you are not a natural yet, and you put too much effort "faking it hoping you'll make it".
Teasing
Flirt ain't flirting without it, its just chatting. Some guys think that being a "good guy" and teasing are two incompatible things. Poor them is all we have to say to them. Nagging, teasing, pushing and pulling, all useful tools in your seduction process.
Passing her shit tests
Girls shit test. They do it all the time. Get over it. Call it a defense mechanism to filter out the betas, call it whatever you want, its real and they do it constantly either consciously or unconsciously. When a girl goes like "i bet you say that to all girls." or something along the lines "but you are short. i only date basketball players". if you get all defensive or start stuttering and losing it, you have already lost. You must either play along with her shit test by enhancing and self amusing. Or even better turn it against her in a sensual way so its a win win. Example, girl goes like "i bet you only want to bed me thats ur agenda right?" if you start being all apologetic and beta "who? me? oh dear.. i... i'm not that kind of guy ya know" you lost. you can turn her own shit test against her like "wow we just met and you already bring sex into discussion? Where is your mind at girl?" so you will have succesfuly passed the shit test AND you would have implanted the parasite of horny thoughts with you in her head ALSO making her believe it was hers. So thats triple bonus for you. But during the whole thing you should keep your cool, and be consistent. and thus we come to
Congruency
Which is what most men lack. Being consistent. Many men fake confidence, but few truly have an unshakeable core confidence which is congruent all the time, and the words they spit externally are in allignment with their inner status and beliefs.
Smoothness
You have ro KNOW how they talk to women. If women is that totally alien thing to you, and you better understand rocket science than their thinking, then you have to start from scratch cause simply you have zero game. You have to master timing, when to say something, when not say something, how to say something, what vibe to give off, when to escalate physically. How to doit in subtle steps instead of bigger, more aggressive steps that can be rejected. Show you are considerate at every step, make on little step back when needed and push again. What approach each typeof girl requires and how hard you should push her buttons.
Presense
The real guy, is present in the moment. Doesn't live in his head. Doesn't feed the little ego front he made to survive through peer pressure and growing in his family. He is a force of nature but calm and concentrated at the same time. He is self amusing and is definitely not the class clown. Cause even that is a form of coping and a defense mechanism. He is savy, he talks with everyone in the club, he knows how to neutralise the annoying friends and wingmen and isolate the girl, and he scores.
Which can only happen with PRACTICE. Endless practice. The first couple of years, get a notebook and right down your every night, and all the things you believe went wrong and you could have done better. You have to break off your ego. Completely. Take all your insecurities, fears, and masks you've put to "fit in" up to this point in your life, and slowly throw it to the trash bin.
You need to find your original core self and be in an upward spiral in all facets of your life. girls will be just a side effect of this. although as i already told you, you can even be an xbox playing basement dweller and still develop that level of game. But men who are CONSUMED by game, and live for it only, usually fall to depression and drugs. i've seen men getting destroyed in the process that's why i have to warn you. and that's why developing parallel inner game and seek general life improvement is optimal.
Youtube channels i recommend. RSD channels, 21st convention, Fearless man, Coach Corey Wayne.
Good luck, and develop some game dudes, it can change your lives. And ours.
Yeah its that hard for guys. Its a hard, incredibly complex, lifetime art. Get over it. You can be the beta loser that devices excuses to avoid it, or the alpha 3% in the world that exploits it to the fullest and dates and bangs the hottest girls on earth.
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