OK, before I start this relatively short, rants take, I want to state that I'm a virgin and I don't really care.
Anyway, I find that this whole virginity thing is being taken way too out of hand. How?
Well, there's a bit of a double standard for viriginity. Men who are virigns get made fun of, are often portrayed as losers with no life, and are basically considered pathetic. So when they get laid, it's like the best thing ever. (Sarcasm)
For girls, being a virgin is so awesome.(Sarcasm) Just kidding, it sucks too, but not as bad. A girl may be called a prude, uptight or whatever, but she'll probably have an easier time getting laid that. A guy. But that's not the point of this take.
Another reason why this whole virginity thing has become so ridiculous is because people are so desperate to get rid of it. Seriously, I've seems so many questions asking, "Im a 23 year old virgin, is that bad???" NO,ITS NOT BAD,ITS OK.
Its funny how we start off as wanting to wait for the right person to lose our virginity to,or wait until marrige, to treating virginity as a disease that needs to be gotten rid of as quickly as possible. Which is fucking stupid.
I recall seeing a thing on here a guy that was so desperate to lose his virginity that he lost it to a prostitute.
Honestly, it's more sad how people will call others losers for not having sex at a certain point in there lives, when these same people are losers for putting so much importance on something that's not a big deal, and think not having sex is the end of the world.
Lastly, so many people treat virgonity as a ticking time bomb. If you don't have sex by the time you're in your 20s, then your genitals explode. Just kidding. There shouldn't be a designated age to have sex. Sure, when you're in you're 20s, you're young and in your prime. But shouldn't you focus on college, getting a nice job, and just having fun as an adult? Not that sex isn't fun, but it shouldn't be the #1 priority.
The point of this take was just to say that being a virgin isn't the end of the world and you should focus more on your life and enjoy it, rather than about something so trivial.
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