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Why I Prefer Men Sexually

Why i prefer men sexually

Introduction:

Okay, so this take will be about why i prefer men sexually.

This is my personal opinion, i'm not saying men are better at sex, i'm just explaining why i prefer men.

I have had 4 sex partners, two men & two women.

I only like men sexually & not romantically, i have only been romantically involved with one woman.

My sexual orientation is Bi - sexual. I am both submissive and dominant, but i have never been submissive during sex, every time i get sexually involved with someone they only want to take it.

I do have a type, i don't like hairy men, & the man has to be feminine & thick because i like bigger butts, and i cannot lie.

Why I Prefer Men Sexually

Penis size
The most popular question ever asked;

"Does size matter?"

Although i have never had any issue with being too small, my penis size literally does not matter to a man. Men do not care about penis size at all, literally. If your penis is 2 inches, a man will still love your penis just for the fact that it's a penis. You don't have to be insecure about it at all.

With the women i had been with, it was totally different. They were probably solely with me because of my size, If my penis were small, they probably would have talked about me behind my back.

With men, size literally does not matter what-so-ever.

Why I Prefer Men Sexually

Insecurity:

Too Ashamed to explore with women

The past two women i had been with were both straight supposedly, they wanted a strong heterosexual dominant male, That's not a problem.

I am both dominant and submissive, sometime's a guy like me get's tired of being dominant.

I like butt rubs, i like to have every part of my body touched, but Most women probably won't do these things for a man.

They think it's too dirty, or weird that a man would like to be touched this way.

With most men, this is different.

A man will not be grossed out or judge you over something like this, its expected honestly.

Why I Prefer Men Sexually

Assurance:

Men know what they want

Let me explain.

The whole reason a guy is gay is because he knows what he wants.

especially in bed. With women, it tends to be more of a mystery. When you're with a girl you have to try many different things in order to get her off. One thing i hate to hear a woman say in bed is
"You can do whatever you want". I mean yeah it's hot at first, but what do you want?

tell me what gets you off because getting you off is what gets me off.

A guy knows what he wants & won't be afraid to tell you exactly how he wants it.

I could never be romantically involved with another man, not because i don't believe in it, simply because i'm not attracted to men romantically, i could never go on a date with a guy

Or hold hands, or kiss him, its just not something i'm into.

Casual sex is all i can do.

Thank you for reading my take, all opinions, suggestions & feedback accepted.

Please no hate comments, like i said, all of the points i stated have been my personal experience & opinions.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I appreciate that you said MOST women to most of your point. However, you stated you've only been with 2 women. That isn't a fair sample size to represent the female population. I know you said in your experience, though.
    I think you'd be surprised what a woman will do for her guy. Some women would shy away from things you like, like a full body massage type thing but not all. Personally, I would do it if my partner asked. Sex is about giving pleasure.
    You said getting her off gets you off, this is true for a lot of women as well. My pleasure takes a backseat to my guys. However, I know my guy won't leave me hanging. Some women have experienced selfish guys though. This may make them more willing to take than give.
    Size does matter, but again if that's not all women. Do I want a really big dick? Hell yes. But that's not going to be a deal breaker for me really.
    As for women telling you to do what you want. Again, personally I will tell you what I want. I want to cum and enjoy sex as much as the guy. I'm not a blow up doll there for your pleasure alone. I think you have beem with women that aren't comfortable sexually yet.
    I think you've made good points though. You do you. Whatever makes you happy go with it amd enjoy. 💋

    • I agree, if a woman REALLY likes you, she will do almost anything for you.

    • You're right I hav not been with enough women to judge how all women act. It's just the women that I had been with I constantly felt like I had to be perfect for them. I tried to be what they desired, but with the guys I think was with, I am what they desired. I didn't have to alter myself to try and be something they liked because I am what they liked. Reading your opinion makes me think I should go on dates more to try and find women who like what I am, because women aren't all the same & neither are men.

    • Sorry didn't mean to put think

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I really am not surprised by this opinion. I had so much fun with my ex who is bi sexual. I can bet that if I date in the future, she will stand out as for sure one of the people that I remember that knew very well what they wanted sexually. I agree many women sadly just expect men to always be dominant no matter what just as many men expect women to be submissive. These stereotypes can ruin the fun of relationships. I'd personally prefer a girl who could work with both and try both out. I think it'd be so much more fun then one or the other. I think many guys like dominant women a lot more than they admit. There's a reason why women super heros are so sexualized. Hell any woman there is in existence is often sexualized. Once they are seen as such, it means they are reflected in a positive light as having good traits. Often they end up idolized. There's a reason guys BEG just for a girl to flash just for a second and even pay money for sexual things. To many it's a show of WOW! Amazement, awe, love. They are all often things men see as dominating too. I doubt any guy would completely abandon sexual activity with a girl suddenly because she's getting more aggressive with it. It almost always makes it more pleasurable than before.

    • I really don't care for dominant women, I feel it's their thing then I would explore it with them I just wouldn't want a woman to judge me for being submissive

    • Yup. I say to each their own. Even if many women do judge men for being submissive, it's too damn bad. Men can be how they want. So can women. If the majority of women can't accept that, then it's their problem and it won't stop me from how I like things. That's just me personally. Also, plenty of women EAGER to be the dominate in sex anyways so it's not like they aren't out there.

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  • I don't care what you wrote or what his is about...

    Just thatbguy is so cute at the top!! The first photo!! Lol 😯😍😜🤷🏼‍♀️!!

    Ok bye!! Hope others read your stuff! 😂😂!!

    • Thanks for commenting.

  • I overall agree with this, but what I think you're capturing his heteronormativity. I feel the same way but with men, and I think for me it's heterosexual sex that's less attractive. Some of the things you were saying like how "a woman thinks it's strange if a man wants to be touched that way" gets at straight people's expectations in relationships. Because there's so much more straight media and examples of straight couples, I think straight people are pressured into "performing" romance in a way that's acceptable. Queer people on the other hand, we have very few examples of ourselves in media, so we basically have no rules. Everything that a straight person assumes is "normal" in a relationship, queer people ask as a question. "Do you like being touched that way? Do you care if I'm on top this time?" I think it makes queer sex more free and gives partners the chance to actually vocalize what they want instead of feeling like they have to play into certain gender roles.

  • Yes your right men are sexy lol

  • You are bi on the edge of gay.

    • that was pretty irrelevant

  • I agree with much of what you say here. I also could never be with a man romantically. It's never more than sex. But I disagree about penis size. I don't want to be with a guy who has a tiny dick. I like something I can hang onto! But much more important than size is quantity of cum. I like a guy who can produce a decent load. Unlike you, I'm a bottom, so I want someone who can give me a real mouthful.

  • Didn't read the MyTake! The jeans in the first pic were fantastic! Thank you for sharing! 😉 👍🏻

    • THanks for commenting.

    • That pic made my day! 😉

  • Everybody loves men

    • God bless you if lesbians and feminists love us

  • I'm sure if you look specifically for a dominant woman, you can find her. Just ask. Don't just keep it to yourself. You don't get to be submissive if you're not going to speak up. No reason to be ashamed.

    • Most women don't enjoy casual sex. Otherwise Tinder would be have a way higher success rate. It's way easier for a gay person to find casual sex. (only downside being a much higher std rate) so why would he put in the extra work for women, if he can get his desires easier with men? Especially because: 'Or hold hands, or kiss him, its just not something i'm into. Casual sex is all i can do.' These are 2 main sticking points that a lot more women do desire in a relationship.

  • for me, I think it's all about pheromones. Sex with men lacks the female pheromones that allow my instincts to differentiate between sex and masturbation. Plus, guys are oddly bad at blow jobs. Girls like to suck on it, and that's what feels good. Guys seem to think that if they just rub their mouth on it long enough, I'll cum. And while true, it's just awkward.

    • ahah weird, the bisexual boys I know have pretty much all told me the exact opposite (= that boys give WAY better head).

    • @redeyemindtricks hm. maybe I'm just unlucky, then ;-P

    • nh I think you just heart women more. lol. I mean, you even said it yrself — there's no pheromonal shabam! with boys, for you. IE you just aren't as turned on... and that, of course, is going to influence absolutely everything here. Like If you're 0% turned on, then, NOTHING will feel good. Everything will either be like the bad kind of tickling, or like the nothing kind of nothing. If you're 100% turned on, then, almost anything can induce ecstasy. You're probably just w% turned on by women and b% turned on by boys, where w >>> b for you.

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  • Just always be honest to the women you date. Some women doesn't want to be with a bisexual man. Other than that... live your life the way you want.

    • Most people can’t tell I sleep with me no & I don’t really see why itd Be important

    • It might not be to you. But it might be to someone else. You must sleep with a bunch of hoes that don't get to know you first.

  • I understand because I think homosexuality is more natural because who are you gonna have more in common with a girl or another guy? But yeah, I just don't understand you saying you're not romantically attracted to men.

    • Homosexuality is MORE natural? Please. If homosexuality was the optimum scenario, none of us would exist...

    • I was raised and taught that homosexuality is wrong So there is a part of me that cannot fall in love with a man There is a part of me that still believes homosexuality is wrong It’s because of how I was raised, it’s not my fault.. It’s my wants fighting my beliefs

  • Interesting take but I think your preferences are more personality based than gender based - Are gay men or straight women more likely to correspond to your take, possibly who knows but it seems to me you are looking for a personality rather than a gender, a personality which could be either male or female.

    • I guess you could say this It's just men naturally have the personality I look for Like I said in a different comment, I should really start going on dates find the personality I'm looking for

  • Thanks for sharing!

  • Fair enough, but I can't agree with your argument, "if a guy is gay he knows what he wants. With women, It tends to be more of a mystery." I think it's a broad generalization without any facts to back your stance up. People who do not communicate are men and women, not just women. Tc

  • I thought this was written by a chick until I read "my penis". Whatever.
    It also allowed me to see things from a different perspective regarding women, and how I've also gotten the impression it may be rare that they aren't as expresive in their sexuality towards us (the example you gave that chicks rarely seem to touch you vs. guys).

    • There may Ben women out there that will but those two just didn't

  • Actually, men care more about penis size than women. According to the book A Billion Wicked Thoughts, all guys are aroused by penises, especially larger ones. "Big dicks" is a popular category on both straight and gay porn sites. Non-straight guys are especially more drawn to bigger ones.

  • Because you're homosexual, duh.

  • Good to know. I truly don't find anyone from my same sex attractive, I gotta see boobs, ass and something else only women have.

    • I am a visual person, but my mind can be stimulated without needing to see boobs or whatever That’s why sometime I read erotica (sexual stories) I don’t need to see things like that in order to get off

  • Something about their protective instinct is such a turn on

  • "I like butt rubs, i like to have every part of my body touched, but Most women probably won't do these things for a man."

    If true, the women you've been around suck!!!

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