I was a virgin.
I was going to save myself for the right guy.
Wait until I got married.
I did.
The guy (my ex-husband) then left me after the night we got married.
He said he became obsessed with "deflowering" me!
So, he took me on all those dates, met my parents, spend money on a wedding, only to use me for sex in the end.
Now, I'm not a virgin and divorced.
I am a virgin waiting for marriage and what you just described to me sounds like a perfect nightmare. He is a loser for just running out. The two of you couldve talked about it.
It is a nightmare. Not likely, which is why I called it a tragedy. Good luck to you !
@myTakeOwner, thanks. I am sorry this happened to you, but this isn't the end, there is someone who will make you happy one day.
@MyTakeOwner thank you :) :) :) :) :)
Your post has made me rethink a lot of ideas I had. Thanks!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!holyshit that's horrific! i'm so sorry..
that's a horrible thing to happen. but really don't worry about being divorced or not a virgin, I'm guessing since you were saving yourself for after marriage that may be hard to accept, but any guy worth your time won't care about that, he'll love you for you! seriously, anyone who would ever judge you on these grounds can fuck off!
that's crazy.
I thought he was normal. I thought he was the one.
That's sick! But don't worry, any guy who got his shit right will understand and never judge you for it. You always remind yourself that YOU were on the right path.
I was on the right path, but I can never be again... Once you lose your virginity, that's it.
But you still didn't lose your purity. Don't fret over this silly thing, shit happens to all of us, and, again, you're all good!
I don't believe this
It is true. I'm sure I'm not the only one. Do you think it is impossible for this to happen?
I just find it unlikely that a guy would spend all that time and money to fuck a girl once and then leave. How long were you dating? Five months?
One year and two months. Then he was my fiance, then we got married. I agree it is unlikely. That's why I called it a tragedy.
I actually have a friend this happened to as well.
if you are not a native speaker i might believe this. otherwise it sounds made up.
It is true. I'm sure I'm not the only one. Do you think it is impossible for this to happen?
it's the way you worded it
I know it is unlikely, which is why I called it a tragedy.
That's really quite awful. He's a sick dude.
It's not your fault, and no good guy is going to hold that against you.
I'm glad to hear you would be willing to date a divorced girl that is not a virgin :)
I would be. You sound very sweet.
sad :(
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