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Why I Hate Pornography

Why I Hate Pornography

Introduction

This take will be about why I hate porn, even though i hate porn I'm probably going to end up watching it after this. I don't think I'm obsessed, maybe a little addicted & I wish I wasn't.

Why I Hate Pornography

Pornstars

Pornstars are real people with real every day problems just like me. This bothers me because I was watching this video online, I thought the girl was very hot, the video was very hot, I was about to get off...something told me to look in the comment section, so I did. Turns out the lady had passed away not too long ago.

My heart dropped, I just said "R.i.p" & closed the browser.

Why I Hate Pornography

Insecurity

Porn makes you so insecure. You know how many guys I have been jealous of? It's crazy.

Why I Hate Pornography

Distracting

It has kept me from doing important things, including attending school/work regularly.

Why I Hate Pornography

Problematic

It's made me question myself, it's made me question my manhood, it has also made me question my sexuality. Things get so complicated with porn, without it life seemed simpler. Also it has made me think that the opposite gender likes certain things which they actually hate.

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  • Sounds to me the problem lies with you and not porn.
    I have never compared myself to pornstars. That's ridiculous.
    And yes they have lives. But you're watching a movie created for entertainment purposes. Do you let the fact that Arnold Schwarzenegger cheated on his wife while you watch one of his movies detract from the story you are watching? Or that Tom Cruse is an idiot irl? Or that so and so has been busted for the tenth time dui, endangering children?

    No- you suspend reality for the brief period you watch and enjoy the fantasy presented.

    Sounds to me like you have some issues and you are shifting it onto porn. When porn has been so good to you!

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  • My problem with porn is that so much of it is just so fake and over the top bullshit. I like real lesbian porn with real couples which is getting harder and harder to find for some reason.

    Watching bad porn is like going from UFC to WWE and just being dissapointed with how fake it is. It's just like wrestling these days in that it seems like they make it for kids.

    • Please don't tell me you think you are straight.

    • @bekkesmash I'm not straight. Why you got a problem?

    • With you? No. With women who masturbate to lesbian porn yet claim to be straight? Yes.

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  • If porn does all of these things to you, then yes, for you it is horrible. I for one love porn and though my wife doesn't watch hardcore porn like I do, she loves it as well. I learn new positions, strategies, etc.. that actually do work. People always say porn isn't real life, and while yes the average lady isn't waiting naked to have anal sex with the pizza delivery man, the sex is very real and many of my favorite porn stars (claim) to have real orgasms which is why they often work with the same man many times... because they like it. That being said, porn has it's benefit, and not that I am married, I do think there is more benefit to married men than to single men (I won't get into that here).

    1) That's crazy that you found out the lady died before you blew, that had to have been awkward. But honestly, her profession was to have sex on camera for men all over the world to get off to. That was her profession. I don't feel weird listening to Michael Jackson just because he is dead.

    2) If you are becoming insecure, then yeah you should probably exam your habits. But never be insecure. Think about how many women are in porn, now think about how many men. The men in porn are the absolute creme of the crop. Despite what the internet shows/depicts, the average penis is under 6 inches erect and 10 minutes is above average. But not to be a dick, it is easier to say this with a 7 incher who can 90% of the time cum when I decide to after multiple orgasms from my wife.

    3) YES! It is ungodly distracting. Absolutely! Because the chemicals that are released in our brains during sexual activity, staring at images is just as addicting as the real deal. Mix in millions of wannabe porn starts and it never gets stale.

  • I hate porn too but I can see that if I was single it would be a lot harder to resist

  • Yeah, you've got a pretty good addiction going on dude. And if it is harming you or affecting your life in a negative way then, it's time to do something about it.
    I too don't have a great liking for it, but I enjoy watching. (Yeah, could I be more paradoxical? lol) But it's true. The thing is I like porn, but I don't compare it to my real life. I stopped doing that a Looooog time ago. And that only came with real life sex experiences. The one thing I have to do most times when I have sex with a woman is to tell her to put her leg down when we're in the Side-scoop. "We're not filming this! There's nobody watching us!" I say that because it forces their kitty into a tighter fit around me. (> que sinister grin). But I try to keep it as real as possible. "Play it in your head, NOT in your bed."
    Insecure? Me? Not even a little bit. Because I KNOW any guy bigger than me, is supposed to be in porn. I am a "universally made to fit" kind of guy. Two females told me this during one of my only two threesomes ever. They were glad I wasn't "swinging" down there. Or that I was not hauling around an "elephant trunk." The porn industry can DESTROY your self confidence if you let it. Don't.
    Distracting? Not even a little bit. I'll admit when I was younger my mind wandered every time I saw a phat ass or big breasts on a pretty female. Most of the time it was women I worked with. But I had to put them in their place. And that wasn't sexual fantasies. I simply began to pay more attention to the women as people. And news flash, many of them are faker than $3 bills. Major turn-off and by proxy not starring in any distracting fantasies any time soon.
    As for porn making you question your sexuality, that too can be remedied by real life. The more real life you have, the more assured you are of your accomplishments. Why? Because YOU did that! But if you don't have those experiences and stay in a dark room wishing you had that girl, then ofcourse you'll only reinforce those doubts. And here's a bit of fact I had to read to realize it was true: THE MORE PORN YOU WATCH, THE MORE ESCALATION YOU HAVE TO HAVE. It's like wanking off too much mate. You become desensitized. So you seek out more... taboo porn to get the same hard-on; not realizing its been the last 1hr and a half of wanking giving you an erection instead of the "transgendered big tit cumming without hands" porn you've limbo-clicked into somehow.
    Rning out of space mate, so to solve yr problm: Watch Less PORN...

  • I fucking appreciate your point on pornstars being real people and Insecurity. I honestly can't remember ever thinking that guys actually do get THAT insecure while watching porn and compare themselves to porn stars as well. And never once have I thought that some porn stars are suffering from mental depression or health etc behind the scenes or have a life of their own, I guess I never really cared and just saw them as "lifeless". Those are something new to learn for sure, thank you.

  • I am coming around to the belief that porn is screwing up the wiring in people's minds.

    I'm not saying people shouldn't watch it, but everything in moderation. Don't get addicted to it, and don't assume it's any kind of a reflection of real sex.

  • personally i love porn and masturbation but i understand why you see it as a problem. very good and honest take

  • I don't hate, but and I don't like too)

  • Worse, it creates an unrealistic idea of what real man-woman romantic sex is about, and becomes that of an expectation of the same kind of stimulus, the same depraved acts, and no real person can compete with the constant stream of visual stimulation. It's all a giant FAIL.

  • Porn does not show you what real sex is like!! Communicate with girls in real life to learn what they like, not from porn.

  • Just don't expect the greatest quality from it.

  • Sexual addiction isn't a real thing and "porn addiction" was invented by religious nuts. Neither are actual psychological conditions.

  • It's definitely fake as silicon tit's !!

  • good on you buddy I have just grown out of it for all these years watched documentaries on it

  • I love porn. It's a great way to start the day. :D

  • Porn is simply very boring, Fake and Disgusting. its literally a big turn off to me. but i dont feel insecure by porn.

    • I'm so glad there are guys out there that find it a turn off!! I totally agree and I think a lot of women would love if their partners agreed too

    • @HereToProveMyPoint yeah, seriously, its a big boner killer for me.

    • You really have no reason to feel insecure though ☺

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  • lesbian and interracial are my face categories

  • You're not alone fella. Porn sucks.

  • I don't know why

  • I can't watch it

  • Porn stars are real people too? Not if you're into ANIMATED porn, which is the only kind I watch.

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