Introduction;
My girlfriend & i have been going out for two years as of last week, She is 20 years old, & i am 21.
My girlfriend is sort of a shy girl, she does not open up or speak to anyone but me really..
That's fine by me, and one thing i should tell you about her is that she has an obsessive rape fantasy.
My girlfriend is a very seductive person & we have sex daily.
Recently she opened up to me about the cause of her rape fantasies, & i thought i'd share it with you all.
I'm going to be using fake names throughout this Take, it's going to involve other people & i would like to keep identities a secret.
So the name Wanda will stand for my girlfriend
& the name Dan will stand for her ex boyfriend.
Origins;
Wanda had met a boy in high school named Dan, she liked Dan, Wanda and dan became good friends & soon became a couple, at the time Wanda was 15, and Dan was 17.
Dan started wanting sexual things from Wanda, & Wanda liked him so agreed to letting him do sexual things to her.
Dan would bring Wanda home with him to perform sexual intercourse,
the thing was he was a bit rough.
he would put Wanda in rape-like positions & situations, Wanda liked him so she let him do whatever he wanted.
It started happening daily..
She would come over his house everyday just for his own sexual pleasure.
She was basically walking over his house everyday to be molested, she realized what he was doing was wrong, but she liked him & she liked the sexual pleasure just as much as he did..
This is where she developed her obsession.
She liked it just as much as he did, but she didn't like their relationship situation.
Eventually Wanda's parents caught on to what was happening & moved, she was forced to leave him which sent her into a deep deep depression..
Boyfriend:
This is where i come in.
I met Wanda at university, she was the most beautiful thing i had ever seen in my life
she was so quiet & shy..
I did end up speaking to her & it took awhile for her to actually even start communicating with me,
i mean weeks..
We did start talking, dating, & eventually we started having sex, the sex was & is amazing, but there was one thing that was odd about her, she was unusually submissive.
She would do things in bed that made me sort of uncomfortable.
We talked about it & i found out that she had "Rape fantasies".
She basically wanted me to rape her like any man on the street would, i never understood this and thought she needed help, but i realized that people do have fetishes & fantasies.
Sex with her took some getting used to..
When we have sex she likes to resists & wants me to force her.
Example;
she repeatedly says "No", "Stop", "Please" during sex, but she doesn't really mean it.
she wants me to keep going, It's apart of her fantasy.
She likes when i put my hand over her face,
hold her down,
pull her hair, etc...
She likes to feel "Pathetic" in bed
I know all these things sound normal, but the way she wants me to do them is pretty abnormal...
she wants me to do all of these things like i'm actually raping her,
She wants me to put her in rape-like positions, (they're basically very uncomfortable positions)
she wants me to tell her to shut up, she wants me to yell at her..
It's just pretty awkward,
i still believe there are some things about her ex that she didn't tell me, but i will not force her to tell me.
Could you give me your thoughts, Suggestions, experiences, & feedback?
It would really help.
Thanks.
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