My Girlfriend's Rape Fantasy

My girlfriends rape fantasy

Introduction;

My girlfriend & i have been going out for two years as of last week, She is 20 years old, & i am 21.

My girlfriend is sort of a shy girl, she does not open up or speak to anyone but me really..

That's fine by me, and one thing i should tell you about her is that she has an obsessive rape fantasy.

My girlfriend is a very seductive person & we have sex daily.

Recently she opened up to me about the cause of her rape fantasies, & i thought i'd share it with you all.

I'm going to be using fake names throughout this Take, it's going to involve other people & i would like to keep identities a secret.

So the name Wanda will stand for my girlfriend

& the name Dan will stand for her ex boyfriend.

Origins;

Wanda had met a boy in high school named Dan, she liked Dan, Wanda and dan became good friends & soon became a couple, at the time Wanda was 15, and Dan was 17.

Dan started wanting sexual things from Wanda, & Wanda liked him so agreed to letting him do sexual things to her.

Dan would bring Wanda home with him to perform sexual intercourse,

the thing was he was a bit rough.

he would put Wanda in rape-like positions & situations, Wanda liked him so she let him do whatever he wanted.

It started happening daily..

She would come over his house everyday just for his own sexual pleasure.

She was basically walking over his house everyday to be molested, she realized what he was doing was wrong, but she liked him & she liked the sexual pleasure just as much as he did..

This is where she developed her obsession.

She liked it just as much as he did, but she didn't like their relationship situation.

Eventually Wanda's parents caught on to what was happening & moved, she was forced to leave him which sent her into a deep deep depression..

Boyfriend:

This is where i come in.

I met Wanda at university, she was the most beautiful thing i had ever seen in my life

she was so quiet & shy..

I did end up speaking to her & it took awhile for her to actually even start communicating with me,

i mean weeks..

We did start talking, dating, & eventually we started having sex, the sex was & is amazing, but there was one thing that was odd about her, she was unusually submissive.

She would do things in bed that made me sort of uncomfortable.

We talked about it & i found out that she had "Rape fantasies".

She basically wanted me to rape her like any man on the street would, i never understood this and thought she needed help, but i realized that people do have fetishes & fantasies.

Sex with her took some getting used to..

When we have sex she likes to resists & wants me to force her.

Example;

she repeatedly says "No", "Stop", "Please" during sex, but she doesn't really mean it.

she wants me to keep going, It's apart of her fantasy.

She likes when i put my hand over her face,

hold her down,

pull her hair, etc...

She likes to feel "Pathetic" in bed

I know all these things sound normal, but the way she wants me to do them is pretty abnormal...

she wants me to do all of these things like i'm actually raping her,

She wants me to put her in rape-like positions, (they're basically very uncomfortable positions)

she wants me to tell her to shut up, she wants me to yell at her..

It's just pretty awkward,

i still believe there are some things about her ex that she didn't tell me, but i will not force her to tell me.

Could you give me your thoughts, Suggestions, experiences, & feedback?

It would really help.

Thanks.


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  • I'd suggest you two get a stop word that you can use in case she really wants you to stop. As for the fantasy of getting raped... certainly not everyone would like it but I love it to. I'm verey submissive and love it when my boyfriend spits in my face and chokes me and calls me a whore. I also tell him no and stop. It's just something that's a huge turn on for me. We do have a stop word and we didn't start of having sex like that. If you feel uncomfortable about it jus ask her if you can have regular sex sometimes, tell her you want her to take control. It's not my kink either but I do it sometimes to switch things up.

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  • Some people are gonna say its fine, nothing to do with her past and some people are gonna say its no good, etc.
    I can tell you one thing, appreciate the trust she has placed in you. She has opened up and trusts you can handle this. Some women are very, very submissive. Like @Warmapplecrumble said, it could be a phase. In my opinion, she might grow out of it, or not.
    Either way, she is yours, all yours and trusts you. Dont abuse her trust and dont judge her on this either. I would suggest being sensitive and caring after you do this.

    I can tell you in my experience that I have known some girls who do like this and that not all girls are saints and angels. Dont let this bother you and dont expect anyone else to understand, some people won't.

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  • She's trying you to repeat the past in a more loving way, till she comes to peace with it.

    It's a phase she might stop eventually.

    She might have days she'll hate it and cry. Days she'll like it.

    Remember what ever you do at the end always be very comforting and emotional with her.

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  • I believe us girls evolved the desire to be roughed up really hard and degraded and humiliated to cope with the reality of sexual abuse and rape. We all experience sexual abuse or harassment at some point in our lives and we hate it in a real situation but we have a strange liking toward it in a safe and controlled setting. I feel like losing my virginity by rape, having an abusive and rapist ex boyfriend, and being raped by a homeless man while I was homeless hurt me less than it would hurt a guy because as a girl I'm pretty much designed for it...

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  • I actually participated to a point in force play, I also am active in a kink community. First off, it's not weird to have those fantasies. I know some people who want to play out whole scenarios like where to pick them up, where to take them, all just in character.

    I would probably suggest, for both of y'all, to maybe use a safeword. That way you know when there is a line you are crossing. Also, discuss with her what you will and won't do. It's not just her having sex here. Your feelings in this matters too.

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  • Some of you are missing the whole definition of 'fantasy' it is just that, no one in their right mind should compare to a real rape? It is the fantasy and something as a submissive I enjoy playing. But ultimately if you are not comfortable doing it... then don't

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  • It's that- some people just want different things from sex. Some people do it for love, others relationships, bonding, child making, etc. She wants it a certain way and that's that. Daisybuchananxoxo down there has a good idea.

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  • She is in a retarded and dangerous fantasy. As someone who's been raped I think it's disgusting that people actully think they want that to happen to them. She's a dumb bitch in my opinion who's has no idea the reality of it.

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    • Fantisy rape is ok, real rape is not, in any way, but you have no fucking reason to just call some man's girl a dumb bitch you fucking cunt

    • @LoganShultz I agree, that's really disrepectful

    • @LoganShultz
      Thanks guys o didn’t even see this

  • I appreciate the effort you give her to fill her sexual pleasure, you may get to know her more deeper and at least known her secrets following what she like..

    But isn't it that she turning you out like her ex, thats why, you feel discomforted. Cause youve been put on a situation that you are more in roleplays.

    I dont think continuing to fill her rape fantasy is a good thing.

    At all its not normal that a woman obsessed so much of one thing, too much always lead to worst scenarios and other.

    So you better think, how you can talk about this issue.

    At the end of the day, she might be abbusing your moral will. you're not a guy who rape.

    But now you're ending up to be a rapist, she's training you to it.

    Some guys are not born to rape.
    Your inner will tells you that its so uncomfortable to do those things.

    Trust your inner wipl, iknow you may love her. But im afraid, you might completely forget about yourself. What like she turns after her ex.

    Her ex is still hunting her down in her sexual pleasures and fantasy, thats why. she's dominating you to do such thing. You need to help her out move on from those, not tolerate it like continuing what he has done to her.

    I hope this advice help you

    You have to talk about this with your girlfriend. And you can't continue what your doing. The fact is , when a person dominating your inner will. you're turning into someone you are not.

    Its not good that you feel discomfort and awkwardness.

    In the end. Just talk to her. And help her move on. isn't it feel great if you know she's giving you the satisfaction to the way you wanted. Not the way she wanted

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    • To add up. I think her ex is a rapist. That turns her to be dominated by that pleasure. She is so much used to it. And you're tolerating that part of her

  • I have that fantasy too and I have never had any sort of abuse at all. My boyfriend literally waited 6 months to have sex with me and always made sure I was really comfortable and happy and wanted it. It was like the least abusive thing possible. I still like rape roleplay and imagining he's raping me. It really is all in your brain and is sometimes nothing to do with your past!!

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    • This is the same I have heard from other girls, so I do agree with this user.

  • she is a mentally ill person and you are not helping her by reinforcing her illness... .

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    • i'm not reinforcing anything
      i'm just exploring what she like's.
      it's uncomfortable yeah, but there are things she would be willing to do for me if i asked to how could i say no?

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    • how are these my sadistic perversions?
      how is this now my fault that my girlfriend has a rape fantasy, man
      you women sure do know how to make it the mans fault.

    • First thing; she is a S-type, sex submissive/slave specifically. Type of people who's sexual desire involves them being dominated and used for their Dom's pleasure. I know this personally, as I am a Dom.

      Second; NONE OF THIS IS A MENTAL DISORDER. They are more psychological and BDSM is more physical. There are those who ABUSE the other person, that is rooted in a mental disorder, but myTake Owner, gonna call him Bob is not this. Dan was.

      Finally; this part is in my personal post as it doesn't fit here and the 1k character limit.

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  • Oddly a lot of women like being dominated. As guys we think it is weird but that is just cause we are wired differently. With some fetishes you just have to give in and give it to them. However don't let your needs to unfilled. Maybe make a gave where you "rape her" until your done then she has to act and do things that you want. To her she loves not having power and submitting. Man women like that so use that. To be more persise use her for your pleasure like she wants.
    Also make sure that you have legal proof that she wants it that way. Just encase the neighbors get to nosy.

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    • That's crazy that i'd actually have to get legal proof about something like this

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    • @HereToProveMyPoint asking for written permission might help his relationship cause he is sexually going to give her what she wants.
      I also suggest sound proofing a room.

    • Yeah, I suppose she'll be more open to it since she gets what she wants. I'd prefer to be in a relationship where you just trusted enough though

  • This happens, even to real raped gals that found it horrible at the time.
    There's a tiny bit of not having to do the work nor be creative "lazy" in this but not the prime motivator.
    An acquired taste that has led to breakups when it goes too far due to alcohol or revenge (e. g. she took a job far superior to yours, she's contemplating moving away for a spell) ERGO WHY the "safe word" stop sign that you NEVER blow through once uttered.
    In time, you'll get better at this and all this mellows out into something more loving, less reluctant/forced act.
    You can search this latter bent in Literotica. com erotic stories to print out some "scripts" to follow when naked. Usually one reads (her) while the other does the work as written.

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  • this is a great my take, i must say that it would appear that a lot of women have this sort of desire/kink/fetish. i know that when i have talked to my wife about it she has said that she would like to have this also. but like you i am not sure what to do about it and dont feel comfortable. my question is what dio you do to make it a rape fantasy? what makes it like rape and what dosent?

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  • There's a few things to unpick here. First things first, from a legal standpoint, if someone says "no" and "stop" during sex, and you don't stop, there is always going to be the risk of facing sexual assault charges, even if you thought you were just playing.
    Okay, that aside, irrespective of Wanda's past, she's now looking to share her sexual fantasies with you. And you're right, they're very confronting. You can choose to play along and fulfill her desires, but I can see you're not that comfortable with it. Alternatively, you can tell her you'd prefer not to do this, and open up the risk that she'll leave you for someone who will. In regards to her past, she probably should speak to someone about it.

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    • Yeah, i have been wanting to talk to her about getting help, but i'm scared as to how she would react..
      she did explain to me that is was nothing but a fantasy, but the way she carries it out makes me want to think she actually has a problem..
      that's where i'm at right now..

  • I really think you should consider changing your terminology like rape fantasies? Rape positions? It sounds more like bdsm. As in for her resisting being dominated saying no Are you sure she’s still playing along when she’s saying that? FYI... Rape is very ugly word don’t use it unless it’s has really happened. I don’t think you would really want it to happen to you some random person grabs you and beats your ass into submission then fucks you in your ass. Or maybe you might like it?

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  • There could definitely be bad legal implications. Since so many abused women defend the abusers, often incorrectly believing they are at fault, many states can go on with abuse charges even when a woman objects. She admits this dynamic in that past relationship. If a neighbor overhears and calls the law they would have no way of knowing that she wasn't just trying to lie to defend you. You could get convicted based on the statement of neighbors, even if she insists she "wanted it"... Damn I hate typing those words.

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  • If you love the girl, you need to fuck her in the manner that makes her happy.
    You are a man, you can work through discomfort.

    I myself am in to sex slavery, it's not as rough as rape fantasy, but just as dominating and domineering.
    You could try that.

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  • Hmm, that might be fun a couple times, but if that is how she always wants it, that would get annoying.

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    • I know, it did get somewhat annoying, but now i've sorta adapted.
      the only thing that still gets to me is when she begs me to stop, its hard to get off witht the other person begging you to stop, but i'm adapting..

  • As long as you and her understand where to draw the line there shouldn't be a misunderstanding. On the other hand, the rape sex is something she's been carrying from the past relationship. Since she's in a relationship with you, this would be a good time for you to explore other types of sex with her. Perhaps see how she would like being in control and then leaving the hairpulling, ass slapping, verbal abuse for doggy style at the end

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  • There is no point in denying that woman adore to be dominated,
    she want you t treat like princess and fuck her like pornstar in the bed
    but you G. F is in to rough sex and special case too.

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  • She likes to feel submissive. Okay, that's fine.

    Just it doesn't require to be rough about it. I would ask her just to serve me as I wished.

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  • Best advice I can give is; google BDSM rape fantasy, or go onto the subreddit, BDSMCommunity and ask there. That is what it feels like to me.

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  • Break up with her

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  • I don't know if that's healthy

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  • ❌❌❌Personally, I couldn’t make myself hurt a girl. It would make me feel guilty. I’m not the man for her.

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  • Wow... so hot take

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  • My girlfriend made fun of me because I have small penis...

    Then I convinced her for threesome.. Then I called my roommate... Then we had it together...

    My roommate fucked her first then I fucked her...

    He fucked her three times that day in front of me... I have fucked her twice till day... but he fucked her three times that day...

    Today she insisted to do that again... I denied...

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  • My girlfriend has the same fantasy, although she wasn't my girlfriend and she never said she wanted it, but I gave it to her anyway.

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    • So basically you're a rapist

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    • @Bella505 sometimes I accidentally have anonymous sex because I can't read the tombstone.

    • omg thats a joke right

  • Record her admitting that she actually has this fetish and wants to do it. And save the video onto multiple hard drives just in case. Who knows what she might do if something goes wrong and she breaks up with you. That video will prove that she wanted this and you agreed to follow through. No trouble for you.

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