Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

Why women like and prefer older men

Very often young women are after older men for relationships and not men in their approximate age range and here is why:

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

1. He has an established career, money and a high paying job

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

This is a no brainer. He can spend money on her and pay for the dinner out of his own pocket because he can. She has to doll up, show up and order from the menu.
Yay today's capitalism, biased social conditioning and double standards.

This is the main reason why. It's also the only header here. The other reasons next are just minor factors and even if a young man may have them all but the first one, women will still prefer the older man. The reason can't possibly be any more obvious.

2. He matured and is serious about life

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

Well I'm young and just as serious about life but I couldn't find young girls being as mature. Many of them are still stuck up on high school drama.
However the older men are more likely to find repeating the word penis everywhere to be boring and immature and pointless. Or watching twitch livestreams during university lessons or practical labor.

3. He has his own place

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

He probably lives alone or has an upper class home for himself. There is enough privacy and it's a proper home without any bug infestations from poor maintaining landlords and janitors and the sanitary utilities are in working condition compared to students tiny dormitories. That means undisturbed sex is easily possible. And it's comfortable.

4. He has a car and a drivers license

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

But so did Elliot Rodger actually and he died a 22 year old virgin. His reason for being unsuccessful with women however was very different - it was his terrible attitude and his feeling of being entitled to women and sex.
Women love to get around between places and having their man driving her around. Sorry to disappoint you young guys, who don't have any wheels.

5. Older men are experienced

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

It's like applying for a job. Women prefer men with experience. Even I wonder why they don't like the journey of both being young and inexperienced virgins. In my opinion this is where romance really starts to bloom because puppy love.
Older men know when, how and what without her saying a word. Women love it when they can be readen like that.

Inexperienced virgin guys in their 20s can only get jealous and the pressure adds up with each passing time interval. No wonder why men watch porn.

6. Less video games and he is already educated = more time for her

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

Although young college/university guys if not employed have all the time in the world they have other areas, where the older man has the upper hand. Read this one again and you will see: Not employed. The older guy is employed.

7. Older men's physique are usually in good condition

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

Since young men are normally financially poor and even worse busy working a hard, minimum wage job draining him from his time and energy (I mean its still better than being unemployed), results in fatigue, partial starvation and being skinny and weak, women are turned off by that. That's how life fucks with us all. It's a bit similar like the concentration camps in nazi Germany.
It just shows, that the young, starved guy is already beaten by his life duties and he can't protect nor provide for her.

8. Older men have stuff

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

A fancy smartphone, a powerful and cool computer, a pair of blasting speakers, a wide range of clothing… you name it. That shows he can afford it. And maybe even give her gifts. Turn ON!

9. Age

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

It is just a number but there is a reason why some say, that men age like wine and women age like milk. Some Women just prefer, that this number exceeds their own. It's just their preference.

10. They are past the partying wild stage

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

Or at least they're not as active anymore as the typically young men. I get it why partying everyday until the morning and fucking bitches is a turn off while not studying for the upcoming exam. I really do and understand it and all but not all young men are this type or are so lucky to be part of it. Me included.
But guys in this wild partying stage can't be taken seriously for LTR. Some Women are bewaring and it's good for them.

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

It is what it is. If you happen to be a young man like me and are looking for a serious and committed, long term relationship, odds might be you're luckier with older women starting from their 30s. You might even really like them because they are likely to be as mature as the older men are. And also more likely to be mentally stable and less to deal with stupid drama. I also heard, that women start getting sex crazed in their 30s like men in puberty would. You can only try. Good luck!

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  • Personally, I don't care for older men. I dated one that was old enough to be my father and that was TERRIBLE!
    I'd never do it again.
    I prefer younger guys actually. Not too young. Mid 20s is about as low as I'd go. Kind of depends on his maturity level though.

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  • Man it makes women seem like such hypergamous prostitutes, so much emphasis on money and the material.

    • I fucking know, right?

    • Weak minded women who NEED a man to function will latch onto older men.

    • I will never finacially support a women

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  • So not true about virgins. Girls who don't like virgins often sleep around anyway. You can't put virginity into this equation. It's mostly about maturity, not everything you were talking about. Sounds like your talking about gold diggers.

  • I thought it was gross at the start but now I *know* I'm gonna be sick. I would never consider dating someone more the 5 years older than me and only if we got along really well. Otherwise it'd be 4 or less years by choice.

    • It's okay if other people feel differently but that's my preference & I think it's fair.

  • I would say for me is that some, not all are more mature. They think better and know what they want. But most guys are into games nowadays young or old. Meh, I'm through with men lol

  • This is interesting as I have found older women are attracted to me. I think it is my "cute baby face" that never really went away with age. This works out for me, too as older women are more mature and many of them will fuck the laces out of your shoes lol

  • Meh... I dont think It does any difference under10 years.

    It's more psychological age. I'll date a guy a year or two younger but in terms of being seasoned by world experiences usually they are far lacking.

  • I would become permanently celibate and join the nunnery before dating someone significantly older than me. As an 18 year old the idea of dating someone above 20 freaks me out let alone gaps in decades.

    • my great uncle is 92 and would be perfect for you...

    • @zagor hahahahahaha

    • Which is completely reasonable. Honestly when I was 18, I was annoyed as fuck by girls who wouldn't give me a chance because they were dating guys who are my age now. I get hit on by girls your age a lot and I'd totally hook up with an 18-year-old but I couldn't imagine actually trying to date a girl your age.

  • Or they just have an attractive face. That's the only reason I've ever looked at an older man. Everything else on this list I can already have for myself.

  • This is just Old Men, not older guys... You could get your grandad to spoil you and you wouldn't have to suck old wrinkled dick for it...

    • That comment ruined my breakfast, now old wrinkled dick is on my mind.

    • @thatguyfromtoronto better than in and around your mouth...

    • :- that's gross

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  • Money?
    Please... no brainer...

    • Yeah. Women love money 💰💵🎁!

    • And stupid old people love to fool themselves thinking it's anything but... Also - everyone loves money, dude, stop trying to make yourself feel better...

    • Yeah but girls love money even more. Just look at how they can be bought and be impressed using that paper. They are willing to let their relationship be dictated by it.

  • i've dated 2 older guys in their mid 30's who are handsome successful intelligent and dominant .
    i let them tap into my curiosity for conversations my submissive side and my sexual energy .
    the problem with these older guys is they wanted to shape my thinking desires and future .
    i'm not ready for that . and I let them know that . there's a lot of living experiences
    and college i want first . one guy i don't see anymore . the other guy i still hook up with
    bc so far he lets me be me . until he gets bored with me . or I won't have time for him .
    taking me places . meeting interesting people . even in a sexual frenzy choking me i feel safe .
    the lines on his face drew me into what i thought would be the depth of his intellect and soul .
    i believed on a psychic level i could absorb his spiritual energy and awareness sucking his dick .
    that's right . laff if you want . but not so much anymore . the lines are not as attractive
    a year or so later . now maybe i realize he is not as brilliant as i first thought him to be .
    ntl the pros of dating older guys are intriguing exciting stimulating and darkly romantic .
    the cons are controlling . boring . ex-wife drama . a jerk in disguise . not financially stable .

    • " they wanted to shape my thinking desires and future.
      i'm not ready for that..."

      Yea I get that a lot... women have this weird thing about having to experience life, the good and the bad (mostly the bad) up close in personal whereas men can do so vicariously... usually in regards to life advice. Enter the term 'mansplaining." Enough older men tell me XYZ about life, i'm going to put that information in the back of my mind in case such a situation arises. Women will do this teenage "you're not the boss of me! crap... only to end up in a fucked up, dead end life. Thank GOD for the endless safety nets and second chances though...

      northdelawhere.happeningmag.com/.../...e-years.png

      From our perspective its more like.

      Age 10: Whatever dad/older male.
      Age 14: Whatever dad/older male.
      Age 18: Whatever dad/older male.
      Age 25: Whatever dad/older male.
      Age 30: *Dating a 45 year old man*

    • @demonics "they wanted to shape my thinking desires and future. i'm not ready for that..." you see that was me girlsplaining . but you don't see that . in stead . you take something i say out of context . and you go off the chain into some loopy nonsensical sweeping condemning rant manifesto against teenage girls and women? u sad miserable little old demon . lol . back to class . singing to myself... father mckenzie "only to end up in a fucked up, dead end life" . all the lonely people .

    • You wouldn't have been with those men had they been broke.

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  • Prefer my age range only.. 27-37 .. wouldn't like to be with a man that looks very old or young compared to me

  • Men tend to the same, not for money but usually looks.

    • Excuse men for actually being attracted to the opposite genders looks not being prostitutes.

    • @bekkesmash what?

  • I think it comes down to maturity. It’s well document that women mature faster than men, so in order to find a guy at our maturity level, we often have to look to older men.

    • This is laughable. I see girls in my age still stuck up on high school drama

    • While what you say may certainly be true regarding some girls you know, my comment is far from laughable. Try to not get your panties in a bunch over scientific facts.
      healthland.time.com/.../

    • Facts. But who decides, that these are facts? Or who gets to decide whether someone is mature or not? And what is mature? In these contexts it seems just subjective. But i have yet to meet a young lady in real life, who acts mature or like her age in terms of being the gender, who mature faster.

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  • Not for me thanks

    • What's the age difference for you?

    • Only five years. I had dated guys younger than me.

    • Well, it's not like i want to give or not give approvals or anything. But then again, who am i to decide how old is too old or who should date who depending on age. I'm into older women myself. For me the reason matters more. But typically older men means richer boyfriend for girls.

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  • Grandpa's physique are usually in good condition? you lost me there, also it's all boils down to money and gold digger personality, it's not complicated.

    tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/GoldDigger

    • Exactly. That's hypergamy we are taking about. It's so obvious.

  • Ummm. so you use a mass murderer as an example because he had a driver license. Are you 17? Why on earth would you use him? Women don't date men for having a driver's license. Past the age of 17, most men have it.

    Young women date older men because it is something new and exciting. Sometimes they do it for shallow reasons like money and being spoiled. But I am sure plenty of young men have fantasized dating older women. Lord knows that is also a thing.

  • And sometimes they're just genuinely physically attracted to an older man.

  • I prefer older men (ahem ahem 3-4 years older at most) not at the age of my grandpa, cuz couple years younger than me are looking for casual sex, and i am past that point in life.

  • Because women do not want to deal with these teeny bopper fuckkbois.
    And when u sa older men why do u put these anglo saxan pasty dudes? why not george clooney, john stamos, idris elba and the like?
    Older men are all around BETTER!! especially in the bedroom!!
    and women will usually marry a man older than them! Women do not marry guys younger than them.

    • My step sister is married to a chap ten years younger...

  • i don't think its about money i think its mostly about not having to deal with someone who's some kind of "party animal" like who tf wants that?

    • That's what i said in number 10

    • I agree, plus most young guys don't want to get serious

    • @itwasmelaniasfault totally agree

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