Women Who Dated "Bad Boys" Now Want "Nice Guys"

I'm not writing this to insult the asker or shame her in any way. This is also not meant as an attack.

The asker in question wrote this. And when girls say things like "I dated a lot of bad guys and I had enough, now I want a good guy" I can only take it as insult.

Women Who Dated "Bad Boys" Now Want "Nice Guys"

A lot of us "nice guys" (as an aside, this term is toxic as hell; The implication nowadays is that a "nice guy" is just a dude befriending you for sex) have to wait a long, long time before women our age finally sober up.

Basically, while you're out partying with "Jamal" and having a good time, we are holding a steady job and being mostly alone, because we aren't "bad" or "cool" enough. Meaning we actually cared, we actually wanted to be romantic and good to you, but of course, that wasn't exciting enough.

Women Who Dated "Bad Boys" Now Want "Nice Guys"

And then, after years or months of you having your fun and your fill with the bad boys we get the older, weary you as second helpings. We were the 10th choice (after you get exasperated with bad boys), or the 20th... the whatever we are the last in line, because we are stable, nice, loving and caring. Something it takes you years of dating to figure out you really wanted.

And MOST of us nice guys waited so long for a mate of any kind we succumb and simply accept this, that we will always be the thousandth fiddle to whatever fun wild flings you had, that we never got to experience because of the nature of our lives versus yours, and you reap the rewards of a stable lover and a life of fun and wild times.

While we get what? A tired burnt out lady seeking stability? As I said I'm not here to insult you, or shame you, or any of these things. I'm here to point out the injustice of this, and hope women see it.

Women Who Dated "Bad Boys" Now Want "Nice Guys"

I'm not one of the nice guys that call you slut or a "cum dumpster" because you had plenty of sex with the bad boys. No. Some of the guys here writing takes about "Nice Guys" are telling you a truth you need to hear but they are going about it the wrong way. Insulting you will not get you to listen to them. I'll try to explain it to you without the insults and vitriol.

What you need to understand is that these nice guys you passed over, who in many cases are no longer acting like nice guys anymore, are human beings just like anyone else. For years they have tried to get your attention and be the kind of guy they thought you wanted, and had to sit back and watch while you passed them by and turned your own attention to guys that they felt did not deserve you. They had to sit at home alone and make love to their socks while you went off and had wild sexual adventures with jerks and assholes.

Women Who Dated "Bad Boys" Now Want "Nice Guys"

Over time this made them bitter and this made them look at you differently. You were no longer this sweet girl that they wanted to treat as their princess, you were just another chick who wanted nothing to do with them and instead gave attention and her body to the same two or three top dogs that all the other girls were trying to get with.

Then, after all of those lonely years, they hear you saying:

"Well, that ride was fun, but now it's over so I'm willing to grace you with my presence now".

How are these guys supposed to react? "Well I'm glad you had fun and don't worry about all those years I've been sitting here by myself waiting for you"? It doesn't work like that. Just as you are no longer the girl who rejected them for all those years, they are no longer that nice guy that you passed over. The fact that they are now either bitter lonely guys who want nothing to do with you, or they have actually improved themselves and make a life of their own to just not wanting to settle with a girl that has been all used up by the bad boys.Your rejection of them is a big part of the reason they are like this now.

Women Who Dated "Bad Boys" Now Want "Nice Guys"

There's no going back now. You can't "unfuck" all those guys who ended up treating you wrong, you can't "reverse" all the emotional baggage you took for all those years, and they can't get back all those lonely nights they spent pining over the person they thought you were. It's a sad ending but that's the reality for girls who do this and for guys who were worth having. Eventually you'll most likely find a guy who will swallow his pride and pretend he's OK with your past and probably end up letting you walk all over him in the hopes that his acquiescence will get you to stick around....but will you even really want that guy?

Talking for myself, I've seen many questions and myTakes of girls explaining why they no longer want the bad boy and why there are no good guys left, but spend barely a paragraph on why a nice guy should be interested in them.

Women Who Dated "Bad Boys" Now Want "Nice Guys"

While you were partying or crying over being stood up, nice guys were writing you poems, trying asking girls on dates that may never happen or ended up badly, going to church (religious guys), volunteering to charity, visiting and helping seniors, working hard and advancing their careers and probably finding a nice girl that does the same along the way. Much like how you realized that bad boys aren't worth the effort, nice guys learn that women like yourself are best to be avoided as well.

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  • LOL... i totally agree. girls go around slutting themselves out and after they are all broken down then they decide they want the good guy. i just shake my head at all those used up bimbos in their 30s hitting on younger guys or well-to-do guys in the bar. if you're over 30 and you can't count the number of dicks you've sucked and fucked on 1 hand then there is no hope of a happy life for you. a woman's un-attractiveness as she ages is directly proportional to the number of men she's slept with and the number of cigarettes smoked. i'm not saying be a prude, but it's pretty easy to figure out if a guy is boyfriend material or just using you for a pump and dump. most women never understand that their value goes down as they age while men's typically goes up. i mean they are aware on a certain level- but because they can still attract a man for sex they delude themselves with the idea that somehow it will morph into a happily ever after- and it almost never does. so while they (sometimes literally) bounce from cock to cock they just fuck themselves into marriage oblivion. then one day they realize the cock train is coming to an end and before they get thrown off they try to buy a ticket while standing on the deck of the caboose. i think most of these girls that now want a nice guy are just spinning the story so it sounds better. they aren't getting the dick attention like they used to- and so they want to lock in a dick that is likely to stick around. or in. or wherever. people don't fundamentally change usually. i don't believe for a second that most of these bitches all of a sudden see the light. they still WANT the bad boy- they just can't GET the bad boy anymore. so they take second or third or thirtieth best. plus the side benefits that come along with it. but lets get real, it's not like most women are waiting to be married anymore to even have kids. they have kids when they want and then try to get another sucker to help raise them. i don't blame any man for kicking these nasty slags to the curb.

    • I love you, Women like you get love and respect. God bless you, you deserve the best man in the world.

    • Are you sure you aren't a dude? Lol jk. "if you're over 30 and you can't count the number of dicks you've sucked and fucked on 1 hand then there is no hope of a happy life for you." K I'm not speaking from personal experience (I've date like 3 people in the past 6 years) but I think you are being a tad harsh. I think if most people haven't figured out by 25-30 (maybe 35 depending on various factors like how well they age) that sleeping around or having a lot of partners isn't the path to a healthy long term relationship or marriage there isn't a ton of hope for them HOWEVER what determines this more than anything is someone's ability and willingness to change. Which involves admitting fault and accepting it before moving onto doing what is needed to change their behaviour. Saying people don't deserve happiness because they made some mistakes is unfair and shaming never helped anyone.

    • Scientists estimate that it won't be uncommon for our generation to live past 100. We aren't even considered seniors until 65. That's a LOT of years for someone over 30 to believe they don't have a chance at happiness.

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  • The only injustice here is how racially insensitive you were in your essay which is basically a bunch of paragraphs complaining about how angry you are at 'Jamal' and fellow 'bad boys' who the girls choose over nice guys like yourself without bothering to mention a single reason why these girls should choose you instead.

    (nothing about what you wrote is remotely nice but hey- I'd hate to trigger you into writing another essay so I'll move along.)

    • Ah, but there probably are countless studious kind black men who are passed over in favor of, well, goons, be they "Jamals" or "Chads", it matters not.

    • @Curmudgeon yeah. unfortunately countless 'nice' people will always get looked over, whether they be black, white, yellow, you name it. Though it gets hard to make a case for them when they're so insistent on trying to prove they're too kind-hearted for such treatment by making bitch-rants like above. ^

    • Because he used the name jamal he is racist now? What if he used the term chad which sound much more white, would he be racist then too? If he is black, does that still make him racially insensitive? Also I've heard plenty of black men saying the exact same things he is (who's race is currently unknown I might add) so does that really invalidate anything he said? Further more is this really an issue or are you using a strawman argument because you really can't refute what he said?

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  • The whole "nice guy vs. bad boy" dichotomy is getting old. You can try to define people that way, but at the end of the day, it is so much more complicated than that. What do you call the "nice guy" who insults a girl and calls her names because he's angry that she rejected him? Can that really be a "nice" person? And that do you call the "bad boy" who visits his grandma every week and brings her groceries? What really makes a person good, or bad, or nice, or mean?

    Most people are going to date some people who are wrong for them before they find the right partner. Most people are going to change throughout their lives and look for different things at different stages. Most people who endure bad treatment from a partner will eventually learn and move on to something better. And that's actually a good thing.

    • It depends on if the labels he throws are warranted or not. Did she reject him in a respectable fashion? Was she rude? Was she manipulative? Did she not only reject him, but try to turn others against him as well? Through lies? Did she succeed? Nice guys have limits to the abuse they will take. Cross that line, they drop all pretense of being nice. Nice doesn't mean doormat. By their fruits, you shall know them. The bad boy delivering groceries to his grandma does not erase his guilt, just because he proves he is not a complete monster. If she says, politely: "I don't see it, and I can't do you justice. I don't want you to get your hopes up; I'll only let you down;" that's fair. If she says: "Ha! Go kill yourself, eternal virgin!," then I can forgive him calling her a nasty cunt. If she gives him a maybe answer, stashes him, then goes behind his back and makes him look like a total pariah, family-wrecking him too... she can burn in Hell.

    • @ObscuredBeyond Of course, it depends. But how many women reject a guy that way? Do you really think that’s always the cause?

  • Fuck off, nice guys are always just uncharismatic versions of their "bad boy" counterparts who are just more entitled, less open minded, ridiculously picky and incapable of actually seeing a woman as a human being which is likely the reason behind their inability to empathise with anyone who doesn't have a penis

    • *gets dumped, changes tune*

    • Bad boys are entitled, closed minded and incapable of seeing women as human beings. lol why'd you switch it around? xD

    • @Silver158 In what world?

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  • Injustice? Are you being real or or was that supposed to be a dramatic exaggeration? There is no justice or injustice going on here. You were nice and women passed on you. So what. Big deal, that's life! This happens to us all. The same thing happened to me with men.

    • yeah the difference is these same women come back later demanding a nice guy and claiming they don't exist. That's the problem, the hypocrisy, its not that they stuck with their decision, its that they made their decision, eventually got older realized that they couldn't settle down with the bad boy and now expect the nice guy to swoop in and fix their life for them, pretending like it the past doesn't matter (it does) claiming that they shouldn't be judged for their actions (what else would you judge a person on?) etc. If a woman wants a bad boy fine, but that was their decision don't then claim that the nice guy you blew off is obligated to date you or accept you now after the fact. That's the issue.

    • @hellionthesagereborn So what? These women can want whatever they want, whenever they want. Men do the same thing? Do you know how many men I wanted to date when I was in my teens and early 20s but I was passed up on? I thought me being a nice girl would get me whatever I wanted, but these guys chose the bitchier girl who put out right away. Then after high school and college was over, they all gave me a similar speech. "I always thought you were better than the rest, but I just wasn't ready to have a wife." Then they'd ask me out and of course I was already taken. It *still* happens. It's funny to me, but I don't get mad about it. I don't call it an injustice? That would just be dumb. It is what it is. Suck it up and move on.

    • I never suggested for one moment that women couldn't do this. I said that it was hypocritical to say a woman can do this then have these same (operative word) women turn around and expect the guy who they didn't give the time of day to before to suddenly commit to them and not care about their past. That's where it becomes hypocritical. Women do this all the time and then act like they are the victims. Now if you want to say that its hypocritical for a man to sleep around and think its fine but then demand that a virgin should want to be with him, I would agree. But that's not what this is about and lets be perfectly honest, while some men do do this the perpetrators of this are generally speaking women. Now being passed up or rejected is different then what is being said here, if some one isn't interested they are not interested, what the issue is women demand the nice guy, but then reject him then expect him to still be waiting for her when they have had their fun sleeping around

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  • What about the "nice" girls? You know, many women also get passed over for that hot, shallow chick and you know what? We don't complain or devalue you as a human, even if she's cheating or treating you like crap. It's pretty callous, heartless and petty to call someone "used up seconds", or "emotional baggage".
    From all the complaints and insults it seems that the average man cannot handle heartbreak, or they're less capable than the average woman.

    Young people in general have to wait until the "fun" types of people are no longer first picks. This happens to both men and women, but it's mostly men who complain about it. Why? Just wait your turn lol Eventually all those "boring" traits will be most valued.
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  • ::slow clap::

    While I agree with this feeling, I do respect that some women regret their so-called "wild phase" and want to find something more substantial. People can change.

    Guys want to get laid too, and I think the main problem is that regular nice guys, the bottom 70 or 80%, don't have the je ne sais quoi to get laid like most average to gorgeous women, because it is the man who has to do the charming.

    If these same good guys really held off from having sex during their early 20s and maybe even into their 30s to wait for a committed relationship they could never get into, then I can understand the preference for a woman who has always had the same values. However many guys simply don't get laid because they voluntarily wait. Most guys don't get laid or have long dry spells because they have hangups, insecurities, social issues, or some other thing that turns women off, including relationships, friends with benefits situations, AND flings.

    Personally, I have mixed feelings on this. On one hand, I completely agree. It feels screwy for a woman to put out so easily to some hot guy but make a guy who she is really interested in for more than just sex wait for months on end. I get why women do this; she wants to make sure you are interested in more than just the sex, but that doesn't erase the feeling guys get knowing they are second best and aren't as attractive as those other guys. Makes us feel far from special.

    On the other hand, I want a woman who is sex-positive enough to be kinky and raunchy in bed. I don't want to settle down with a woman who doesn't know what she likes in the bedroom, doesn't take initiative, has low enthusiasm, isn't game for some new things that we both may have never tried, etc. I have dated a virgin girl and I can tell you, a person who doesn't open up completely in the bedroom is a drag.

    That is one area where the sex-positive and experienced woman is alluring. She will be the type to give random BJs, swallow, put a finger in your butt and not think it is gross, and all other types of kinky things. That isn't to say that a good girl won't be willing to try these, but usually, those who have a strong moral code also put restrictions on their own sexual behavior, even in a monogamous relationship.

    • "Most guys don't get laid or have long dry spells because they have hangups, insecurities, social issues, or some other thing that turns women off, including relationships, friends with benefits situations, AND flings." I used to be very idealistic. Promiscuous sex wasn't what I was looking for, but a stable committed loving relationship. And I had this mentality even at early 20's. Yes, I also had social issues. After running into these types of girls, and having all sorts of experiences with them I realized it was a waste of time. Only then I paid more attention to getting laid, and gain sexual experience and had to rip off the Disney fantasy I had in my head. I realized it wasn't worth sitting around waiting for these girls to jump off the carousel of bad boys to have their interest, and just kept doing my thing while getting into more casual relationships and sex. I had to improve my game basically.

    • "She will be the type to give random BJs, swallow, put a finger in your butt and not think it is gross, and all other types of kinky things. That isn't to say that a good girl won't be willing to try these, but usually, those who have a strong moral code also put restrictions on their own sexual behavior, even in a monogamous relationship." It's true, but the issue is not that a girl has a sexual past. I agree girls with some experience are way more interesting for more sexual freedom in bed. I don't mind if a girl has had one or two boyfriends prior. It's riding the bad boy cock carousel and then girls looking for a stable guy that feels like a slap to the face. And honestly even though I respect when they say they change and that they aren't sluts anymore, I still wouldn't settle with any of them.

    • Yeah, I hear ya. Not all women have a fuckfest in their 20s. Serial monogamists are probably the best women to settle down with.

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  • Entitled much? Fucking hell...

  • I don't know, you're a grown man. If the best thing someone can say about you is that you're nice... well that's not saying much.

    I mean think about that for a second. Someone can put any adjective before the word guy... and the best they could do was say nice. Well... sorry you don't have much going on. Forget that you try to conflate this imaginary choice that I must choose between a nice guy and a bad boy. That's total b. s. made up by someone who imagines things don't get better than "nice"

    • That's very well put, and I look at it much the same way. The thing is that women focus on the positives, while men focus on the negatives. If a guy has few negative attributes, he may consider himself a "nice guy", but if he doesn't have any positive attributes, women still won't be interested. On the other hand, if a guy has a lot of negative attributes, he may be considered a "bad boy", but women will be prepared to overlook that if he has a lot of positive attributes as well.

    • @sketchy when a woman says someone is a nice guy. Its code for... he's an ok human being but he is not a good love interest. He doesn't have the attributes she is looking for as a partner so she's being polite and not hurting his feelings. Now I've found that a lot of "bad guys" are only bad in the minds of the nice guys simply because they have type a personality traits. Not because they are actually bad. Sure, there a nice g u us that are more than that and there are bad guys that are actually bad.

  • It might just be me but I definitly want to date someone who is 'nice' and honest with me. Obviously he shouldn't be boring though, but I'm aware that there is a difference between boring and nice. And sometimes guys are just really misunderstood and portrayed as 'bad' because the girl refuses to see his side of the story and just keeps talking about how he fucked her over...
    Anyhow, I know that there definitly is a truth in this with some girls. But anyone with enough self respect wouldn't stay with someone who doesn't treat them well.

    • boring is a new age concept. the "not boring" guy, won't clean your shit when you become immobile on your bed as a granny.

    • @levantine99 Oh I didn't mean that kind of boring. More a thing of, he should understand fun/jokes and not so stiff, not that I expect him to be down for anything. Obviously I'm aware that life isn't just a beautiful adventure in which you ride motorcycles and party all day.

    • haha lol.

  • I mean it's a broad spectrum. Just because you're not one woman's type, doesn't mean she's a slut who sucks bad boy dick.

    • two way street though. Just because he's a decent guy doesn't mean he's boring or whiny or whatever bs you make up.

  • I agree with your title to an extent - it always depends on the woman, though. Some don't want a nice guy, but most really do. Especially once they've experienced worse - which they thought was better when they were stupid and didn't use their brains...

    The bad thing about these women is they need to learn from their own experiences instead of learning from other's...

    Nice guys should know their worth - and in my experience most of them do, and if they feel like that woman is the right one for them, regardless of her past - then that's their decision.
    Maybe they need to learn from their own experiences as well...

    • We did learn from our own experiences by growing a spine and no longer allowing ourselves to be treated like an insurance policy.

  • I'm noticing a few things that I do agree with, even if I see this as a Disney villain's speech after getting rejected by the main protagonist.

    I'm having a similar problem today, except I do not fit the description of the internet "nice guy".
    I'm a "sick guy". I'm a guy with a particularly unattractive main feature which is what my life currently revolves on - a disease that can't be subdued by standard methods.
    I've tried several dating apps and found an interesting thing that affects all the females using those apps (mathematically, I can't say "all women"): the younger ones do care quite a bit about partying and booze. Their main interests seem to be not whatever they put in their profile. Let's take one of my matches on tinder, who I accidentally liked due to a spasm of the arm as an example.
    Her profile states that she's interested in traveling, hanging out with friends and spending time with her family. She does not smoke or drink and she despises sex for the sake of sex.
    Now let's take a look at her pictures. In the first one, she's riding a horse. Riding horses is a rather expensive hobby. In the second, she's dressed in what seems to be a very short, sparkly dress along with high heel shoes that are covered in glitter, matching the dress and holds a bottle of wine in one hand and a glass in another. One picture would not be enough to negate her claims of disliking alcoholic beverages, but every picture onwards is of her coming in contact with alcohol on different occasions.
    I've started a conversation with her for lack of anything better to do and hopes that despite her profile she is indeed the person she claims to be. Her sixth message was a query of my ability to satisfy her sexually and afterward, the size of my genitals.

    Now, I do agree the OP came out a bit unnecessarily angry about the topic, but he does showcase truthful points.

    • So I'm assuming you have MS or Parkinsons? Because arm spasm. If you don't mind me asking that is?

    • @Silver158 Focal epilepsy of the left temporal lobe. I'm on the highest dosage of Vimpat and Levicerateam. Side effects include involuntary spasms, among other things.

    • Damn man, that sucks. Sorry to hear that.

  • What happened to the nice guys, ladies? YOU did...

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a578-where-did-all-the-nice-guys-go

    • Whoa that's a very good article

  • "They had to sit at home alone and make love to their socks "

    Oh gosh. I just can't... 😂

    Oh boy!

    Look I've known PLENTY of nice guys with good intentions, an education, decent job and what not and willingness to treat a girl right that had no trouble getting dates and finding a girlfriend. They didn't have to be an asshole to do it. So if you can't find anyone the issue is not everyone else... common denominator buddy.

    • The main issue is this guy is basically generalizing. Although it is a fact that a lot of girls do like bad boys (excitement, unpredictability etc) but not all do. However, the most attractive trait tends to be confidence. But, a lot of younger girls confuse some guy being an asshole as confidence. When in reality if you were to stand up to him he'd probably crumble quicker than a generic celebrity's face.

    • And while many of you are busy lusting after the hottest girl in your class (who is turn is pining after 'Chad Thundercock') you are ignoring the, albeit more average looking, but sweet girl that might be willing to actually give you a chance. Whose fault is that? But we all (generally) want someone we are attracted to. The thing is the type of girl a lot of guys want are usually the type that get the most attention (which can be positive and negative) and has the most opportunity (but in turn they also have to deal with a lot of crap like being misled, lied to and mistreated by guys that will do anything to get with them). But the thing is most people want someone they find physically appealing and then hope things will work out after. Some of us realize sooner than others it doesn't work this way while some of us take a bit longer and then some of us never never learn. The very attractive and social girls often take the longest to figure this out.

    • Yeah people want someone they find physically appealing but more-so they want something they can't have. Thus why the "nice guys" end up bitter instead of just accepting it and moving on they end up bitter. Also I'm usually turning down the girls in class lol

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  • How many of these women I watched crash and burn. They became complete jaded sex burn outs with a kid in tow while in some cases not knowing who the da da is. I don’t see how it is possible for any of them to not cause themselves permanent damage. But still there is a smuck that comes along and accepts into their $ht of a wrecked life. Women un-tethered by feminism are completely self destructive. Sit back and watch it burn… Don’t be a smuck.

  • Yeah, that's a good poimt. By the time that kind of girl realizes she no longer wants a bad boy and now wants a good guy, she's used up and tainted. No decent good man wants a former slut.

    Really, the best bet for any good guy living in America today is to get a woman from South America or Asia. Just write off Western white and black girls completely.

    • South American girls are also very promiscuous but probably not as much as Western women. Asian girls... well it depends from which part of Asia they come from.

    • No self respecting man will accept a used up piece of second hand shit.

  • I believe the girl who wrote that was trolling, it's a guy. If a girl really was chasing bad boys and they screwed her over, she'd probably be so embarrassed that she wouldn't talk about it.
    She'd just go get her a nerd if she's that impulsive about things not working out with the ones she wanted.
    Men are all a like anyway, pick your poison, there's no good guy/bad guy

    • Really? I was told I'm black on youtube. lol When I'm Asian.

  • What makes a "nice guy" a nice guy? His friends and family say he's nice? he says he's nice? I'v been out with many a "nice guy" and i'v been out with many a bad guy. The bad guys are real the "nice guys" ponse about putting a show on but behind it all that's all it is a show! The have a sense of entitlement because they have decided they're a "nice guy" they believe YOU are the lucky one to have a "nice guy" like him cos his best mate says he's nice or he has decided he is.

    Being a "nice guy" isn't about how much you drink or how many drugs you have taken, these things only harm the user. A single guy is not a bad guy because he went out with his friends and banged a gram of coke up his nose at the weekend. A bad guy could be anything and do anything like a "nice guy" can. A "nice guy" in my eyes makes his woman a priority, looks after and pays regular maintenance for any kids he's had in previous relationship, is open, honest and has a positive impact on your life. He will take you with your ups and downs and support you.

    A "nice guy" usually labels himself as such to sugar coat the fact he's average looking with a mediocre personality but expects a super model with an amazing personality because he doesn't go out with his friends and come home blind drunk once in a while. He uses it to cover the fact that he may need to work on himself and lower his ridiculously high standards.

    Any self confessed "nice guy" is one to stay away from, it is a narcissistic cover up! Also an excuse to moan, bitch and whine about why you're still single.

    Thumbs down away lol

    • So youd marry a guy that does coke?

    • @HonestWhiteGuy I'm pretty sure that's not what she meant. She meant that a 'bad guy' and a 'nice guy' could BOTH do that. Just because a 'nice guy' may be more likely to take the 'straight and narrow' path that does not mean he's actually a quality partner in every aspect that matters.

    • The majority of the time these so called 'nice guys' that whine over not being able to get a girl don't want to accept the depressing fact that they often aren't attractive. This whole take reminds me of my guy friend that always demands I introduce him to my hottest girl friends but he's no more than average himself (and that's being nice... No offense to him but it's true). He whines when he gets rejected yet he in turn rejects girls that he doesn't find appealing himself. He recently rejected a VERY nice (and fairly pretty) girl because she was a bit overweight. He has far more weight to lose than she does. Plus she mentioned she's been going to gym regularly to lose the weight. His workout is lifting a burger to his mouth. Yet he refuses to see the hypocrisy in this.

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  • Its true, bad boys ok for just a date but for long term relationship nice guys suitable.

  • If those 'bad boys' was black, it's an double trap. Also saying that "good girls love bad boys" is misleading, as most of those girls are sluts, and not an good girls. Sluts who think that they deserve a decent guy, after all that they had done.

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