I've seen too many times people trying to minimize how bad being an adult male virgin is. And I guess most of them are good-hearted, but they aren't doing any good, I'm afraid. I think in the end the only thing that will work is the truth. Even if it's harsh.
When you are an adult male virgin people look at you as a failure. I've been there and I know about it. Even if you've never said you are a virgin, they know. If they've been with you for a while, they already know about you. They just won't mention it. And you too know the know. And how they see you. But don't get me wrong. Virginity isn't bad per se. It's just society who puts all this in a bad position.
Many girls out there won't have sex with an adult male virgin. Or put it other way with a guy who's 23 or older and has never had sex. They will think there's something wrong with him. That he's going to be bad at sex. And what not.
Most of the girl won't look for an adult male virgin when looking for a partner. They could engage eventually if somehow they end up messing with the guy without guessing he's a virgin. But they won't ever be actively looking for a virgin guy.
A small subset of girls out there could prefer a virgin guy. But if that's the case it's most probably due to the fact that those girls are adult virgins themselves. The number is really small because many virgin girl will prefer an experienced guy anyway. In general, 42% of women won't date a virgin guy.
The chances of getting laid start dropping drastically once you are 25 years old.
The average woman wants to have sex as much as the average men does. That's why most of them won't pick a virgin if they can choose. An experienced guy is a promise of getting sex faster and better quality.
What to do then? If you are a male virgin soon to be 22 or you are older than that already, start changing. First of all lose your virginity. Don't start making excuses like "I want a girl who loves me", "I want my first time to be special", and such. The chances your first time is going to be a wonderful experience are pretty much null anyway. There is no perfect girl, there isn't the right one. Specially, fro just losing it. Just have some sex and then you can worry about getting the right girl for you.
There isn't anything worst than waiting years for the right girl. And end up having sex with a girl who's been with fifteen, twenty-five guys before you. And get ready for that anyway because you will hardly find a virgin girl over twenty-two.
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