Reasons Why I Choose Escorts & Prostitutes Over a Real Girlfriend or friends with benefits (Part 3)

The saga continues and today I come with part three

Reasons Why I Choose Escorts & Prostitutes Over a Real Girlfriend or friends with benefits (Part 3)

To start this whole Mytake is based on that quote above that I agree with all the way. I posted it on social media the other day and had one feminist criticize me for it, she said…

K buddy stop shaming women for doing a human activity called sex. a whore and a slut is just a term made up in society to shame women for doing something natural. It’s only wrong when you’re in a relationship and you cheat, but if you’re not, you shouldn’t be shamed for having sex.

I’ll be honest, I agree with her on the fact that sex is natural and nobody should be shame for doing it. though she pretty much misinterprets the whole entire quote and like a typical feminist she cherry picked the part that sounded the most offensive towards women and decided to use it as a motive to act. apparently just like most people nowadays she doesn’t know the difference between a whore and a slut. in case you the reader also do not know these two terms, a whore is a person who uses sex as collateral for money, favors, status and many other things that benefit them in the long run; simply a prostitute. A slut in the other hand is a person who loves having sex and wouldn’t mind having it with multiple people throughout their lifetime just to experiment; simply a nympho.

Since I do believe that sex is a natural act, and everyone has the right to do it and enjoy it whenever they want then I have nothing against sluts. Whores in the other hand are a totally different story, not only do I believe these types of people give sex a bad name, but I think is very foolish and dishonest of a human being to want to have sex and expect anything out of it, especially if your sexual performance is terrible. If this is your motives on sex, then from my point of view you deserve more than just shame.

Now from my point of view the only way whores can justify their acts is if they are honest about what they do and keep up with their words, which is what I already explain in part 1 and 2 of this Mytake saga. Till then here are five reasons why I still choose to have sex with real whores based on that indictment that quote above stated, which aims more toward society’s point of view

1. I’m not a poor shopper

Reasons Why I Choose Escorts & Prostitutes Over a Real Girlfriend or friends with benefits (Part 3)

Let’s be honest, when we go shopping we always want the best deals don’t we? Well to me sex is difference. We all end up paying for it no matter what, so might as well just get the best deal while at it. Since you are paying a real whore then that sex is obviously going to be good no matter what because real whores know that if they don’t do a good job they won’t be paid their full salary. Also, I’m not just paying for the sex but I’m also paying the whore to leave as well after the sex is done.

Most dudes nowadays are too blind to realize that dating and prostitution are the same bullshit. If you blow money on dating, taking random women out to eat, hoping that they’re going to give it up to you soon then you pretty much did an act of prostitution. Obviously that girl is a total whore if she gave you her vagina as an exchange to buying her free dinner. what’s even worst now is that after you have the sex she will probably call/text you nonstop thinking that she now owns your life. Fail to comply with her at this stage she will feel “used” and then use this as an excuse to make your life miserably by bringing drama towards you. till then…

Most whores (honest women) = are honest and straightforward on what they do and will give you a hell of a good time if you pay her what she asked for. Once you pay her she will walk out of your life and never bother you again; Both of you will leave happily and satisfy.

Most women (dishonest whores) = not only will she play mind games on you, but will also expect you to take her out on free dates or do other things for her and even then, she may still deny you sex. If she does give you sex in the other hand, then there will likely be turmoil between the two of you.

2. I have boundaries

Reasons Why I Choose Escorts & Prostitutes Over a Real Girlfriend or friends with benefits (Part 3)

Again, when you pay a real whore for sex you are also paying her to leave, therefore once her job is done and you give her the allowance she asked for, you won’t need to worry about her calling/texting you nonstop afterwards and trying to figure out your business. Most dishonest whores you meet in places such as bars, clubs, lounges etc. have a tough time with this one. So, till then I will always pay for the bundle that includes good outstanding sex, with someone very attractive and my freedom to move on and never hear from that past sex partner ever again after the sex is done.

A perfect example of this would be on my birthday when I when to get a massage at one of my local Asian spa. After getting a good massage, I paid for the happy ending and got to have good sex with that hot and sexy masseuse who previously gave me the massage. I thought this was a major pay off because I been wanting to have sex with a hot Asian girl that would let me try all my favorite sex position on her since I was in high school.

Most whores (honest women) = knows your boundaries both in and out of the bed. will respect them in every way possible just as long as you pay her and respect hers in return.

Most women (dishonest whores) = will create truckloads of boundaries on you and expect you to respect every single one of them. Will then pretend to respect yours in return but will not hesitate to break these concessions or use them against you if they don’t get whatever it is that they want out of you after the sex.

3. I don’t have regret and I expect the same from my sex partners

Reasons Why I Choose Escorts & Prostitutes Over a Real Girlfriend or friends with benefits (Part 3)

Like many human beings out there I too have my preferences, urges and fetishes and I expect the person I’m having sex with to be as openminded and accepting as I am. Nowadays its so hard to come across women who are sexually openminded. most of them will put so much boundaries on you during sex. For example, not letting you try your favorite position on them or maybe not willing to give you sex the way you enjoy it because it may make them feel degraded one way or another, and even if they make the effort to try she will most likely not do a good job at it anyways; taking away your motivation. Now when it’s the other way around we men HAVE TO play by all the rules and If we failed or refuse to do what our sex partners expect out of us we will no doubt get doomed as being lousy and selfish lovers. If you think about this is no different then getting into a boxing match with an opponent who would bitch and complain during the fight over being punched in the face or any other places they may find undesirable. I mean yea I’m aware that sex is not a sport but at the same time I do believe that everybody who has it deserves to enjoy it, have a good time and not feel like they’re doing a boring and discouraging chore. So, to put this one simple when I want sex I would like to have it with someone I know is in the same page as me, not with someone who is going to ruin the moment for the both of us over some ignorant and insecurity dilemma they carry along with them.

Most whores (honest women) = you guessed it right, a real whore doesn’t carry any of this dilemma and if they do they won’t let it affect their performance because they know they are getting paid to do whatever it is they are do.

Most women (dishonest whores) = flooded with insecurities, will try to disguise these insecurities as just being “moral” or “conservatives” aka the last people I want to have sex with.

4. I love my peace and freedom

Reasons Why I Choose Escorts & Prostitutes Over a Real Girlfriend or friends with benefits (Part 3)

Call me paranoid or whatever you want but I also worry about how my life will turn out after having sex. I seriously do not want to have sex with someone just so that person can run to the police the next day and file a false rape charge on me. This is not a joke, it happens all the time so no matter how bad my blue balls may get I rather just not risk it. If its not the police they run to its other thugs in the hood or are willing to get their hands dirty for them, which happened to me once.

Another element that discourages me a lot about women is their need for status and validation but even worse how they use sex as their main source to get all of this. again, when I want sex all I want to do is do it, enjoy it and then go back to my life once is over. I don’t want to worry about…

· The person I had it with call/text me every five seconds the next day and beyond

· Angry boyfriends (or even ex-boyfriends) try to hunt me down out of jealousy

· The person gossiping our business to everyone else

· The person causing me drama when I find another person to have sex with

And the list goes on. Once again, I never have any of these problems with real whores who are honest in what they do, and you believe I’m talking from experience.

Most whores (honest women) = they see sex as a job rather than collateral for status and recognition. They know better at not trying to interfere with their customers life.

Most women (dishonest whores) = sees sex as collateral for status and recognition and if it didn’t work out as the transaction they expected the will feel entitled to demand it in every way possible. Does not care if they endanger the life of that person they had the sex with or even their own.

5. Sometimes I’m choosey too

Reasons Why I Choose Escorts & Prostitutes Over a Real Girlfriend or friends with benefits (Part 3)

This is an obvious one just by reading at what I wrote above, with all the hell and bullshit we men go through just to get sex then I think we all have are rights to be as choosey as women are. Either way I think this is the main problem in our society. most men nowadays are so damn desperate for sex that they will settle for just anything regardless of quality and performance. I guess for a while now women have picked up on this, they now know how desperate men are to shove their penises in them till the point that they never worry about these men penalizing them for their poor performance. They also take full advantage of this desperation men have by exploiting them and making them take them out on free dates or spend money on them one way or another, and if for any reasons these men fail to comply with these demands then they will use this as an excuse to not reward them with the sex they are desperately after.

Most whores (honest women) = they know what their customers want and are willing to do whatever it takes to satisfy their them, because is they don’t they will once again not get paid.

Most women (dishonest whores) = believe they have all the rights to be choosey because sex to them is nothing but a choir they must only complete if they know what they’re getting out of it will benefit them in the long run. Will feel entitled to utilize hostility if their partners act choosey

Conclusion

So to all my fellow men out there I think it’s time, I think it’s time already that we man up for once and raise our standards! We need to stop being poor shoppers and demand our products to be in good quality otherwise we will not hesitate to boycott them until our demands are met!

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  • I think it's kinda hypocritical of you to judge someone thinking whore and slut are synonymous and then make the mistake of thinking being a slut is the same as having nymphomania, or to use it's proper term hypersexuality which is an actual medical condition which many doctors think of as a type of obsessive compulsive disorder and is usually a symptom of another medical condition or medication used to treat another medical condition. And I'd say your mistake is far worse.

    But regardless of that, this myTake seems to be focused on the idea of "dating" or "courting" women just because men want sex. And if only looked at that angle, I'll concede that prostitutes are the "better" choice if all you are looking at is the act of sex and it's immidiate aftermath and you have no moral objections against prostitution nor any care for social stigma if someone finds out. But as far as I know, at least in my social circles, if someone goes on a date with someone, it's not purely because he or she wants sex, it's because they are interested in a relationship with them, for whatever reason. Granted that reason could be sex, but most people I know wouldn't get into a relationship just to get sex.

    • But I do agree with you on the subject of there apparently being a lot of guys who I'd consider too desperate to get sex.

    • never once did I said they were synonymous, anyways the term "nympho" gets thrown around in our society a lot and thank you! a while back I made a theory that hyper sexuality is a sign of insanity in women and this is yet another reason why I choose prostitutes instead. and yea I agree that getting into a relationship just for sex is one of the stupidest things a human being can do nowadays but unfortunately this is the only shit women have to offer in a relationship nowadays and to make matters worst they're not even good at it! but yea I'm definitely not one of those guys, I can't see myself lying to a chick and tell her I love her when all I want to do is fuck her and here in America most women don't see that from a positive way and the ones that do are usually fucked in the head and you just proof my point with that term on being a nymphomania

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  • My friend, if you can learn to escalate things quickly with a real girl, you can spend the same amount on her as you do on an escort, not have to pay for sex, and still be able to enjoy restaurant foods and drinks on your dates. Furthermore, you're less likely to risk getting an STD. The trick is learning how to get laid by the 4 or 5 date, you have to learn game to get to that level.

    • dude you need to wake the fuck up, and I don't know even where to start

    • Can't wake up, after fucking women who aren't prostitutes, it's hard to stay awake :) Enjoy, I hope one day, a prostitute you pay for turns out to be an undercover cop.

    • if you had to take a woman out on a date, pay for her dinner & drink, waste gas bringing her to the place, etc. then what you did was no different than actual prostitution. also escorts only make 9% of the annual STD rate and this is common sense of course. 4-5 dates spending money like a loser just to get laid. seriously bro get the fuck out of here with that shit, an escort fucks you on the first night you pay them, give you the amazing sex a non-prostitute will feel to guilty to give you and most of all leave you alone after the sex

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  • Interesting, I would like to add that when women become sluts, they are devaluing their sexual market value. If they are sluts, they might as well become whores so they can get some benefit.

    • very true, might explain why so many people get the two mixed up a lot of the time

  • this is sad

    • how is it sad that I actually know what I want in life?