My Theories on Why Many Men Dislike Promiscuous Women

[Anonymous]

There are multiple reasons why a guy might not want to have anything to do with promiscuous women. It usually based on jealousy, hatred, misogyny or biases.

Promiscuous women don't want to have sex with them

If promiscuous women wanted to have sex with them, then they shouldn't be complaining. Right? Part of the reason has to be because those 'sluts' are not lining up to suck their dicks which frustrates them a lot. Sexually undesirable men know that their only way to most easily get available sex is through a relationship. They assume that if promiscuity is promoted in women, then women will forego relationships with men and choose to sleep with men that are sexually desirable.

They are jealous that promiscuous women can easily get laid

This jealousy just adds more to the hatred. It's true that it's easier for the average woman to get laid versus the average man. It makes them jealous that it's not that easy for them to get laid, and that jealousy makes them not want to have anything to do with promiscuous women.

Their homophobia makes them disgusted by women who slept with multiple men

They may subconsciously have this weird idea that if multiple dicks went into the same vagina, then it's 'gay' to have sex with her. These type of men also have developed this weird idea that women who sleep around are not 'real women,' and that they are no different from gay men.

They assume she is misandrist

You know how if a man objectifies women as 'pieces of meat,' then women would call him a misogynist. Well it's pretty much the same thing here because men may assume that promiscuous women objectify men as 'pieces of meat.' To add more to the picture, most men view promiscuous women (and anyone who supports promiscuity in women) as 'feminists.' They generally associate feminists with misandrists, so it's not surprising if they subconsciously view a promiscuous woman as a misandrist.

They fear being objectified in the same way they objectify women

Sex is physical and physical characteristics influence who we want and don't want to have a one night stand with. A lot of men like to pretend that objectification is not a bad thing. No one likes to be objectified, especially men. I noticed that most men much prefer to be perceived and treated as people instead of objects. Cause god forbid if women are the same way, right? If more women started to vocally objectify men in the same way men objectify women, then men will start to become more insecure about their looks which are things they barely have control over.

They think she might have an std

This is the most rational reason so far. The more promiscuous you are, the odds of you having an std is higher.

They think she is more likely to cheat

Paternal uncertainty is a real thing. Men are never 100% sure of who their kids are, and this instinct has always existed since the dawn of time. If his woman is likely to cheat on him, then that would make him more uncertain about his blood relation to his children.

[Anonymous]

Like it lol mostly though on this page because "you should be pure and wait till marrigae and true love to have sex" , in real life I would add some not that harsh points though

[nativequeen1]

it’s nothing but the truth. if men can slut shame, say the vilest things under the sun to women they find promiscuous, we can speculate why. honestly, these reasons are nothing but the truth and men can’t handle the truth unless it’s going with their bias towards women.

[Fallahad]

I ame here just to see the bitter reaction of the losers! xD

[lord_chilled]

Enjoy the mho. Thats all you will be getting tough, mr. Captain saveahoe

[Fallahad]

@lord_chilled hahahahahaha thank you! Us hoes rule the world mwahahahahaha

[lucian_lucian_123]

Lady, let's say that :), I don't care about your life. Nobody cares. If you want you can love also animals. You are really free, not forced to marry, you can live just between women as lesbian, what is your problem with the men? In our days I didn't find even one feminist able to be taken seriously. They just promote huge double standards, disrespect to the men and a lot of others of the same category. They don't fights for "women rights", they just fight against men. They consider women as being much more superior as human being than men. For them the men are their enemy. Their slogan is that the men are just thinking all the day how to humiliate and use women. These psychiatry escaped women gathered together and made up this disgusting wave of hate Marxist ideology, feminism. Their profession is permanent revolution, no matter what is the reality. They are not nazi or fascist, they are worst, are Marxist guerrilla. Who is not with them is against them, and who is against them will

[nativequeen1]

@lucian_lucian_123 someone’s offended to be writing paragraphs (no one’s reading all that). go be bitter and jealous elsewhere cause it’s clear the truth has struck a nerve. best of luck little bro.

[windknowsmyname]

See this what im talkin about, why do women always justify what they do as if its right. Then they say guys are bitter or what ever when they are in the wrong. What the...2018... i feel its gonna be the same stuff. Women down play men and its okay and men that down play women are bitches. Bitter, or cry babies who needs balls.

[kap_nss]

I'm sure this is true for some guys. But not every guy out there is a misogynist. I had an experience that changed my relationship with women. I'll summarize here trying to keep it as brief as possible: I had a girlfriend. I was a virgin and she wasn't. I knew that but I didn't know how many partners she had before. She started giving me A LOT of details about her past sexual encounters including the names of some guys I knew. From the things she said I figured out I was pretty bad in bed compared to them. That got me obsessed and self conscious. I couldn't take it anymore and dumped her. I wen't into counseling for a while. After that I just hooked up with girl for sex. And I always target girls with none or a little experience. Staying with them only one or two months after starting having sex. And them moving on to the next girl. In my case I'd say I don't want experienced girl because I have trouble dealing with their past.

[englisc]

The last reason is by far the biggest one.

[SocksRUs]

It's humiliating for a man to be in a relationship with a promiscuous woman. Not only has her prime expired, but men will laugh at you for paying for something which used to be better and free, lol.

[OlderAndWiser]

What you developed here is a list of reasons why women would dislike promiscuous women, because, of course, you see things from a female perspective. Apparently, your female perspective has been shaped by feminist views which have a generally disapproving attitude towards men.

The reason why most men do not want to get involved with sluts is that they don't want to take a chance on developing an emotional attachment to someone who will show absolutely no loyalty to them in return.

[nativequeen1]

um. no shit. and it’s the truth. we have the emotional intelligence to see right through you. it always comes from a place of either misogyny, hatred, or jealousy. men hate confident women that use their sexuality to empower themselves. open a comment section on instagram of a hot woman. you’ll see how jealous and bitter they are. they don’t hate them for no reason. enlighten me tho, why would it not be those reasons? preference? i don’t prefer certain men but that doesn’t mean i harass them and dehumanize them randomly whenever i see a dude that “looks” like he’s hot and confident and showing off his body. look for yourself. gym content shows the double standards instantly. just look at the comments. that anger doesn’t come from nowhere.

[MarkyyG123]

I agree with the STD potential and likelihood to cheat, I used to get a lot of attention from women like this and personally it was and still is a huge turn off, sometimes every now and again it will happen again out of no doing of my own

In my opinion to be a girl like that you need to be a certain personality type and that is not the type I would ever want to get involved with

I prefer someone who is more homely like, family orientated. Someone who is comfortable with themselves and does not feel the need to constantly seek attention/be the centre of attention, someone I can talk to for hours, someone who would want to build a future with me wholly - yea I'm talking about My Girlfriend

[Onlythisone]

Can you do a take on why women might be promiscuous... I could never understand the motivation... Like if you have sex for a drink why not just do it for the money and get more? Is it just youth and believing what people tell them? I mean it can't be because they like sex because vibrators are generally more useful in that regard. Wanting attention? No thought going into it just being taken along for the ride?

[myTake Owner]

Wow you are just as stupid as most of the people on this website. It's the same damn reason why most men would rather have sex with a woman rather than use their hand. Having sex with a fucking vibrator is not the same as having sex with a real man, and many women don't need money and drinks as a motivation to have sex with a man.

[Onlythisone]

Really? Most women would rather have a lot of sex with strangers than with one person? Yeah never would have guessed that must be stupid. Sorry but I think asking questions about things you have no clue about is the last determinant of intellect.

[victoriaxoxo]

They dislike it only if you are doing it with others and not them.

[N2thing]

Well, there is a lot of bullshit in here. I think the main reason why guys don´t want a promiscuous woman is because it´s fucking disgusting, immoral and it´s risky. A promiscuous woman is proven to cheat faster.

Also, it´s kinda psychological. Men just don't want a woman who has had many dicks inside from other guys. Goes against the competitive nature.
The only reason a guy would want a promiscuous woman is for sex since they´re easier to get.

You´re creating your own truth to comfort yourself but that´s not how it works in the real world.

[Berethor]

You right, but to be fair, she did mentioned STDs and cheating in the end.

[Berethor]

And there is also dirtiness reason, that is similar to 'homophobe' reason, and more common. Jest replace the word gay with the word dirty and you have it. :)

[CHURCHOFTHEFONZ]

I like the thought that the person that I hitch my wagon to has some standards as to whom they sleep with. That I'm part of an exclusive club. Sex means something to me and I don't want a man with whom it doesn't. I'm assuming thats the same reason a man doesn't want a woman who sleeps around. Of course I enjoy sex. Just not enough to have it with a virtual stranger.

[levantine99]

or simply you are trying to rationalise your sluttiness and the fact you are undesirable to mature men that go for a family wife... ?

[JimRSmith]

"There are multiple reasons why a guy might not want to have anything to do with promiscuous women. It usually based on jealousy, hatred, misogyny or biases."

Or it could be that they feel that promiscuous women don't share their values?

No offence, but this Take is a joke.

FTR, before you assume otherwise, I've dated women in the past who've had 'adventurous' pasts themselves, and at some points in time, definitely saw a future with them. Things didn't work out, but not because of that.

[RolandCuthbert]

You might want to create a "take" about the psychology of women who stand against feminism.

I think that could be a fascinating conversation. Not many "supporters" around here.

[10dsw]

Hahaha this is the dumbest block of malarkey I've read in a while!

Myself (and most guys) love promiscuous women. We just don't get into relationships with them. Anyways let's go through this list:

(1) Promiscuous women are probably a lot more likely to have sex with a sexually undesirable man than quality women
(2) That changes after 25. Most guys can get laid fairly easily once they have become established in life.
(3) That's so dumb I'm not even going to entertain that comment
(4) Yea lol, no.
(5) Lol most men get turned on by being sexually objectified dumb nuts :)
(6) Well that's true
(7) And that's true too

[JimRSmith]

Agreed. There's a serious lack of insight in this Take.

[QCpress]

O_o huh? I guess im the rare guy because promiscious women are cool with me. If you got no one to love. Feel free to love me! Lmao 😂😂😂

[WynterWarrior]

You project so much unto males in your rant.
A key that opens any lock is priceless a lock that is opened by any key is useless.

The simple answer can be rounded up in 3 three words. Leftovers and mileage.
A lot of girls only bring that they are female to the table.

If a promiscous woman won't do to you what she does to other men you move on. We pay for what she gave for free?
Women in general can get laid much easier then men. It is reality nothing to envy its just no one wants to end up the town pump.
Like a ride at an amusement park you wait in line have your turn then when you had your fun you move on and dont hold up the line.

Homophobia and cuckholdry are not the same thing. Learn the differences.
No assumptions of misandry just highly irresponsible not trust worthy and a human of value.

You are projecting again. Everyone is objectified at some point or another.
An STD is not the least a slut will leave you with.
The more partners a female has the less she is able to pair bond that is not just sexually.
If a girl cheats with you then you are the fool for not believing she won't cheat on you.

[sheflips]

I have to agree to this. I am probably mentally male.

[Ephemera1]

Or she's just a dirty whore and want nothing to do with her.

[r4ngeF]

I agree to this, only to the point where it refers to specific men.
There are a lof men that just wouldn't like to get involved with such women.
Just the same for women who wouldn't like to have a promiscuous man.
Besides that, its rather true.

[ScarletAngelic]

Sleeping with more than one person can be fun though. It gets boring with the same person over and over again. (This is my problem...)

[lord_chilled]

18, and a slut already?

[ScarletAngelic]

@lord_chilled Can I be a lesbian slut? Is that possible. Haha, I can hardly find anyone to begin with. (Only in my dreams I guess T_T) I don't see anything wrong with wanting to experiment with lots of people.

[lord_chilled]

Lesbians and gays can be sluts. Does sexual orientation put a restriction on that? As far as im concerned, anyone that wants to share their body with lots of people is a slut. Having sex is fun, but everyone tends to develop attachments. If you dont care about that and just sleep around and call it "experimenting" you are a slut. And you can embrace that if you want. But the truth is that most people bond over time , and if you get "bored" of your partner and look for someone else, 9/10 times, it will hurt the other person. If you never did this, then think about it before you do. Is that what you really want? Is seeking pleasure with multiple people really worth giving up one person you could have a much better bomd with?