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Penis Size Matters

Ever heard a woman say size doesn’t matter? Well, it simply isn’t true. And she knows it. The reasons women say this is to be nice and spare the feelings of under-endowed men or to not be seen as shallow or superficial.

The truth is, size does matter.

It doesn't matter how good your "technique" is in bed, if you lack the necessary inches. The size of the penis definitely affects the quality of sex. The larger the penis, the deeper the penetration and more pressure it exerts on the vaginal walls and the more stimuli are experienced.

Penis Size Matters

Most girls will say that they prefer a man who "knows how to use it".

If you're below average, women care. For 4 inch and under guys, no matter how you use it, there's a very real limit to what you can do.

For guys who are average (about 5.5 to just over 6 inches long), you can go either way. Girls tend to not care but there's definitely some girls out there who do. Some girls find even the average size too small. Will definitely have to work at it and improve your sex skills for her to view you as giving "great sex".

Now, guys who are above average - 7" or greater - literally don't have to put hardly any effort in when having sex. Or at least not nearly as much. They literally don't have to thrust as hard or try to hit certain spots with more intent. This is because if they have the length, they can easily hit deep inside. If they have the girth, then they can fill her up and hit any wall without even trying.

While small guys could thrust as hard as possible and still not accomplish anything, and average guys have to put in some more work to stand out, large guys hit the good spots without even having to try.

Penis Size Matters

This means that while some women may not care if you're average, most would (if being honest) prefer it if it were a bit bigger. There's so much benefit to having a larger penis.

Some are:

•More pleasure for her. Women can orgasm more easily during intercourse with a bigger penis. A longer penis size means that you can reach depths smaller penises can’t. This in turn means that you could be able to pleasure your partner more completely. It isn’t always the case, but it’s certainly the rule rather than the exception.

•Psychological Benefits. More confidence/ higher self-esteem. Well-endowed men, especially those who have actual sex experiences know they can satisfy their partners sexually. And, these men can approach women confidently.

•Being able to fill up your woman to give her that satisfying feeling.

•A bigger penis will set you apart from other guys

•Can help you get a girl and keep her around

•A longer, thicker penis looks better and more aesthetic. A bigger penis simply looks more appealing

•Can do any position instead of only certain ones

•If You're Looking to hook up or find friends with benefits, size matters 100%

•Bragging rights: other men will envy you and be jealous

•The look of awe and surprise on a womans face when she sees it for the first time

•It's impressive

•Never have to worry about being too small. You know you have enough to pleasure any woman

•No large penis envy

•Less work for you. No need to thrust as hard and twist to all sorts of angles to make sure you satisfy her

Penis Size Matters

Women find a bigger penis more attractive on a subconscious level. We can be 99% confident that having a larger penis makes sex better and easier all-around-- less work thrusting and more pleasure for both of you. It's better to have "too much" than not enough. If you aren't very well endowed and find a woman who really likes you, she might be able to overlook your short comings but that doesn't mean size doesn't matter or that she wouldn't prefer for it to be bigger.

Regardless of the mixed answers one gets when trying to figure this question out, it's safe to assume that having a bigger penis (to an extent) is better and size does matter.

Penis Size Matters

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Most Helpful Guys

  • I just want to talk about your benefits to having a big dick since I'm qualified for this.

    •More pleasure for her. Women can orgasm more easily during intercourse with a bigger penis. A longer penis size means that you can reach depths smaller penises can’t. This in turn means that you could be able to pleasure your partner more completely. It isn’t always the case, but it’s certainly the rule rather than the exception.

    -Yeah that's true. My girlfriend says all the time that I'm the first guy to make her orgasm from penetration. Her other partners lacked the size.

    •Psychological Benefits. More confidence/ higher self-esteem. Well-endowed men, especially those who have actual sex experiences know they can satisfy their partners sexually. And, these men can approach women confidently.

    -Yeah, but I find that while that may be somewhat true my confidence doesn't really come from it. But yes from a sex standpoint it does make you feel more confident. I just think that there are a lot of PUAs and most aren't going to be well endowed, so it comes from a different place for them.

    •Being able to fill up your woman to give her that satisfying feeling.

    - That's basically the same thing as the first.

    •A bigger penis will set you apart from other guys

    - Eh I guess, but that doesn't mean you have a better chance at getting girls. Just that when it comes to sex itself you will be different than the others. She'll probably remember you.

    •Can help you get a girl and keep her around

    -Can't really help you get a girl, but it can help you keep her coming back. Like feeding a stray cat food.

    •A longer, thicker penis looks better and more aesthetic. A bigger penis simply looks more appealing

    -I've never thought of genitals themselves as looking appealing but there are some slutty women I know of who do find bigger ones appealing.

    • •Can do any position instead of only certain ones -Not true. There are certain positions that hurt me that probably wouldn't hurt a guy who is smaller. Granted the shape makes a difference too. •If You're Looking to hook up or find friends with benefits, size matters 100% -No I don't think so. There are guys I know who through hearsay or whatnot there's just no way they have a large size and yet still get hook ups. Doesn't mean they are great at sex, but they can survive in the hook up world. However, I'd say 95 to 98% of women who want a big penis only are slutty. •Bragging rights: other men will envy you and be jealous -Other men will be jealous, but that's assuming they've seen it or believe you are telling the truth. I'm one to not care about bragging about it, but I do find it funny when these guys who do get jealous will then brag about their height. I guess they gotta brag about something?

    • •The look of awe and surprise on a womans face when she sees it for the first time Most of the time it doesn't work like that. Most of the time they've felt it already so they know and/or have seen it. The awe and surprise usually isn't as grand as in like professional porn. Normally it's a slight fear and slight excitement but not like a jaw dropping eye popping type of thing. That's almost cartoonish lol. •It's impressive O. o •Never have to worry about being too small. You know you have enough to pleasure any woman -Yeah I mean 🤷 •No large penis envy -O. o •Less work for you. No need to thrust as hard and twist to all sorts of angles to make sure you satisfy her -Not true, because if you don't thrust as hard or twist at angles then you're a bad lay. I don't "take it easy" or anything like that. I go as hard as she can take and most can take most.

    • So at the end having a big penis is all about your ego. Keep trying. By the way, most of the sensitive parts of the vagina are located in the external third, so having a long penis does nothing to us.

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  • I agree 100%. I have never believed it for a second when women would say that size doesn’t matter. It so clearly does.

    • Not every woman orgasms through penetration, did you know? This is why so many men are crappy lovers, they think it's all about size.

    • @pleasestopthis Did I say that all women orgasm from penetration? Or did I just simply say that size matters?

    • Then why does size matter?

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Most Helpful Girls

  • I perfer an average than a bigger one, and I'm not saying this to be nice, to spare the feelings of under-endowed men or to not be seen as shallow or superficial.

    If it goes too deep it actually hurts, going deeper isn't more enjoyable, at least in my opinion. The importance are in the movements, so yes, your penis can be small maybe the size of fingers but It doesn't mean you can't give the woman pleasure, if that's was the case then women wouldn't feel pleasure at all while fingering.

    And some women, when they say they don't care about size, they really couldn't care less. I said some tho.

    And oh, my first orgasm was while I was being fingered, not with a big hella penis going through my organs.

    • LOL but I love going through organs.

    • Do your lovers take you dry? The vagina when fully aroused lubricated and tented, expands up to three times its unaroused state and the cervix tilts out of the way allowing a longer penis to enter the anterior and/or the posterior fornix and ultimately in to the Pouch of Douglas.

    • @Margillard The pouch of what? LOL.

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  • Stop worrying about size… you want good hygiene and function.. these things are the keys to good sex. And there are penis health crèmes available that specialize in this… just apply one once a day and you will be all set. They are basically multivitamin crèmes made for the penis. You can get one online. Hope this helps.

  • whoever you are, your info is so wrong. I couldnt read it all after reading bad information I would guess the rest i didn't read is inaccurate also. You need to understand what you're talking about before you make claims. What a gggoofball

    • You're a Master? what does MASTER mean?

    • Master at sex

    • not yet not at 22, really are u?

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  • Are you serious? I've been with guys who had a good seven inches. They were the worst I ever had. I mean it wasn't painful or anything, but a dildo would make a better lover.

    There was one guy who was so small that the first time I saw him naked I had to check his ID to make sure he wasn't a prepubescent kid who was just tall for his age. He was so good that I almost proposed to him even though this was our first date.

    Size truly doesn't matter. Or actually it can, because the insecurity caused by this idiotic myth can cause small guys to work harder and make large guys lazy.

    As for that image macro about dildo size, the next time you're in an adult shop discreetly take notice of what the women are buying. They come in all sizes. Nearly every woman I've seen shopping for one goes for 6" or shorter. The most common size I see in their hands is about 4". The big ones are purchased almost exclusively by men who want to do some anal exploration.

  • Personally big dicks tend to hurt me lol The average size does good for me, I always use a vibrator during sex so it really doesn't matter a lot about his size. I am always having an orgasm with a vibrator while he's in me ;P

  • @CT_CD had written My Take?

    Interesting. I appreciate.

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    • Ik I was thinking the same thing. And he's asexual :0 this is an interesting take

    • @MsMusic Whatever but he is interesting. Whenever I get bored I read his comments. That's why I am following him.

    • Thank you

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  • So according to this, all vaginas should be "tight" or they are undesirable? What a load of rubbish! A guy has no say over how large his penis is. He has to work with what he has been given, just the same way that women have no control over the size/shape of their vagina. This is ignorance at its finest.

    • How is this ignorance? "all vaginas should be "tight" or they are undesirable?" No, but I'm sure most guys would prefer the vagina to be tight. "A guy has no say over how large his penis is. He has to work with what he has been given." Obviously a guy has no control over what he has and has to use what he's got but that doesn't mean that size doesn't matter.

  • IT DOESN'T MATTER

    My last last ex was a biggie, and I dry up every time. One of the reasons why I left him because I didn't wanna be unfair to both of us. Though I didn't tell him that cause I know how to respect a man's ego. It was a long term unsatisfying relationship so don't judge me. I tried.

    My recent ex had a seriously small one and I'm not even joking. I thought of backing out the first time I saw it. But he brought me to heavens and beyond. He was the one who had me cumming through penetration alone. We'd spend all day long hours and hours multiple times a day. Even when I went home tired and groggy, he still got me working, couldn't help it.

    So when we broke up, I had to run as far as possible cause I might not help it. He's dangerous hahaha!

    Trust me. It Doesn't Matter!

    • like, how small are we talkin', here?

    • @TheQuest1981 only 7 inches

  • I think most will agree bigger is better than smaller

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    • Interesting

    • After seeing this diagram, I've concluded that from behind her, she would receive the most stimulation if he knows what he is doing. The curvy the schlong and more enjoyable the ping pong.

    • I had the ol copy paster loaded with the wrong thing. Oh well.

      This is what I meant to post:

      The D*ck Size Thread to End All D*ck Size Threads...(yeah right, I wish) ↗

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  • Do this many people really not know that more woman than not don’t orgasm from penetration? Every time I read these posts where men are telling other men how women really want a big dick lol it’s still a conversation men can’t get enough of with each other.

    • she has a better chance of having an orgasm from penetration with a longer and thicker penis

    • Lol nooo this amount of misinformation here is too much for me.

    • Misinformation? The size of the penis matters. It makes a difference. A 4" penis can't do what a 7" penis can.
      www.thesun.co.uk/.../

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  • "The larger the penis, the deeper the penetration and more pressure it exerts on the vaginal walls and the more stimuli are experienced." sure, I agree. Having had sex with a well endowed man, I agree the penetration is deeper and the pressure he exerts feels good.

    But but but but but

    the best sex of my life was been with an average guy, it really does matter a lot about what the guy can do :) and of course it's more about the man than the penis, average sized guy was an amazing one of a kind guy, the large guy was well... a dick.

    • The large guy might have been a dick but you still gave him some. I'm a betting man and I'll bet that had a lot to do with the size of his penis.

    • @Bachnalian nope, not at all considering I was a TEENAGER and waited 4 years before I even saw his penis and he was my best friend and first everything.

    • Wow, 4 years? I'm guessing 4 inches would have felt huge by then? I'll also bet he lasted about 5 minutes all eight times in the first day?

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  • But wait CT_CD... aren't you asexual? How do you know some much?

    • HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

    • He has a PhD in everything.

    • I suppose you are right

  • Quick reminder the man attached to it matters too. I don't care how big he is, if he isn't a man I can love and respect, it's a nogo.

  • I mean. Let's face it. We have all been ruined by porn and other stuff on the internet. Just like how men want to check out women with big boobs, we want the same thing with the men too.

    Of course, when you are in love things do change. Such thoughts are pushed behind slowly. But however, if its something like a one night stand or a fling or a fuck buddy, trust me, we would expect a rock star in bed both size and work wise.

    • I don't think porn has ruined us all. I just think women want things that are considered biologically superior. They've always been that way even before porn. When you are "in love" you mean when you are done with your validation stage and ready to be with an average joe who will provide for you.

    • You got the right idea.

    • But women aren't usually the ones looking at pornography though. I actually don't think most women care about size.

  • Your wrong on so many things here, so I'm only going to say anything between 4 and 8 inches makes no difference and over 8 is just not fun...

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    • Really? Makes no difference if a penis is 4 inches vs 7 or 8? That's a lie

    • If you say so.

    • So you'd be just as satisfied with a 4 inch penis vs average or above average?

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  • Seems there's a lot of hypocrites on here courage, I just posted a question about this and the girls ignore it. Maybe they have an issue with me, but they need to focus on their self esteems and stop lying all the time.

    Size doesn't matter as long as it's not a baby dick or a foot size. The problem is a lot of people have no knowledge of sex, because they lack self confidence the will to learn or be honest with themselves.

    I think a lot of people just jump in bed for the feeling of being desired, even if their partner is obviously dissatisfied. I think nice out of ten women who say size doesn't really matter, copy women who actually mean it, but it is in fact true.

    All they talk about here is length and hitting cervix with their fake asses, as if a dick can go further than it should, and as if a g spot isn't round there.

  • Well the science says only 3-4 inches are needed to reach the G-Spot but it never-ever said,
    Bigger is bad there is only lower limit for it but having a larger dick is devastating for your dating life too. If you dump your g. d his friend will try his luck. Just to feel that bigger penis and I am not some amateur.
    I got 8.3 inches and 6.2 inch and 90% of them are just there for sex.
    I mean you would feel like "you are kind of fucking pleasure toy for them".
    Bigger is better for sex but if woman knows it, its not fucking better anymore.

  • Interesting mytake

  • uh... i think you'd be surprised by how little it takes. lol.

    • How little it takes? Poetic justice your line!

  • The absolute truth from experience is that most average sized women can’t really handle a big one and that is it. It takes a certain frame sized woman to handle a big one comfortably and there aren’t that many of them. The most average comfortable vagina depth woman is 7.5” per many personal experiences. So while they do get excited over a big one looking at it, most of them change their minds once they get it. Many will just dk shame you to make you feel bad but the ones that do are mostly full of sht and that is a fact. Exceptions are age and children.

    • That's not really true. Most women can handle big dicks. Only a few can't and that's because even when they expand they don't expand much.

    • @Red_Dragon How about you explain it to me.

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