'The Knowing' of Making Love

'The Knowing' of Making Love

The difference between ‘having sex’ and ‘making love’ is constantly touched on. Most focus on the depth of emotions and passion interlinked to separate the two. The intensity in these aspects defines ‘making love’ as opposed to only fleeting glimpses when merely ‘having sex.’

One can’t deny this explanation, but on many levels, it is transparent which doesn’t adequately represent ‘making love.’

Meaning is inherent which being in love is all about. There is an inextricable link between individuals. They are two as one in being, mind, heart and soul as well as many other other plains of connection. They beat as one as if they are a fine Swiss gold in perfect synergy. The making of love is the ultimate compliment and culmination. A lightning in a bottle type of magic where soul stillness is felt. It feels as though time is standing still in awe to give due homage.

The depth of the magic is all about the ‘knowing.’ An intuitive lifeblood where both sense the other at that moment and what they desire. Communication is a key to great sex but there is a higher form of consciousness when making love. Words are never needed for you already ‘know.’

Before anything even goes down the wonder has already colluded. Both are so in sync that they are wholly pleasured and satisfied by the intensity they feel in all regards. When you finally touch there is such a release. The first touch, feel and kiss sizzles and lights up the individual bodies with goosebumps that tingle. You are so torn, begging for more and, so much more of the touching and kissing. The joyous release can be heard in the exultant moans. All while entrapping in the depth of pleasure.

When sexual acts or the ultimate culmination of intercourse ensues the ‘knowing’ holds centre stage.

Making love is often seen as soft, gentle and intensely passionate. It can be. The same as it can be almost carnal delving into downright dirty. In fact, it can be represented by innumerable sexual acts.

It can see a drive on a busy highway being interrupted by picking up a vibe and parking on the side of the road where you grace the bonnet of the car as cars flying by beep their horns on witnessing the action. Even if it ends with a night in the lock up if a cop goes by it is irrelevant for all you desire is to suck the marrow out of all you feel. A quiet night in made lurid by one knowing the other is feeling very naughty and really wants to be dominated while giving oral sex. Or bent over the couch as they have their clothes ripped off. The intense session where it is all about liberal plunder and waking up sore and smiling. Then stepping up to the plate to once more go at it like jack rabbits. The times where you leave a nice crimson shade on the others skin as you have them tethered to a post with a collar.

All about the liberation that love defines. The making of love facilitates the liberation. The completion one feels is profound by being fully unlocked in a sexual sense. Any vulnerability in the form of inhibitions is evaporated away by the green-lighting of all that transpires. This oozes the intensity of feeling. They beg for it, the release, and the associated completion.

This is love in a nutshell. The freedom seldom approached in life let alone fully felt. At this point, life goes to another level. Inhale it in and allow it to intoxicate all your senses and appreciate every precious second of it like it is magic. Precious, rare, and could disappear as quickly as it appeared. Let making love be the joyous orchestra to all you feel together.

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  • You can't make love with a slut, you can only have sex with her.

    Whereas, with a loyal long term girlfriend you make Love.

    - A woman who didn't rebel against society by sleeping around with every guy of the town.

    - A woman who isn't a Feminist.
    - A woman who respect her partner.
    - A woman who doesn't blab about your faults but rather support you.
    - A woman who respects your family and friends.
    - A woman who doesn't compare your dick size, stamina with her previous partners.
    - A woman who is a total lady in street and a total freak in bed, only and only for you.
    - A woman who isn't hung up on ex.
    - A woman who is a giver.
    - A woman who has high self respect, high self esteem.
    - A woman who has the ability to remain single after a break up and doesn't rebound by fucking bunch of other dudes (co-dependency)

    - A woman who gives you space and wants her space as Well. You want a wife/girlfriend not a baby monkey who's always on your back.
    - A woman who is a good communicator, and not a complainer.
    - A woman who loves her family.

    If you find a woman like this, marry her now without thinking twice.

    Good luck!

    • You're an ass for perverting this with your sexist fucking rhetoric.

    • Preach my Brother.🙌🙌💪🙌

    • @AdamWolfHunter Good white-knighting for your broflake in need there. Proud of you. Mean it.

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  • This is a great response to those that ask the question "what's the difference between making love and having sex?"

    • thank you- appreciate your response

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  • This is a wonderful article in response to the question! I can see how this resonates with my meaning of making love and just sex. Many times, it is making love, I only had casual sex a couple times with guys.

    • thanks for the kind words

    • Your welcome

  • He beds her while thinking of her loved one's and those who truly love her and smiles at his own dishonesty; nothing sadistic and malicious about that. Every guy knows how he wants his mum, sister and daughter to be treated, when confronted with that question he will know shame or he will smile, while thinking of the loved ones of the girl he bedded and how the one who truly loves her would have behaved, every guy knows.

    • That's the difference

    • The difference is then only in having a relationship in marriage where ur accountable and responsible or outside it where ur just acting out on impulse while throwing all the cheap words of the world, feeding lines, giving lip service.

  • Making love can never be bad also. Like in my opinion if it hits making love, it's automatically good. Sex can be bad or good :)

  • I like the knowing, it express feelings without really expressing them, love is magic 💕

    • it truly is

  • Completely amazing and right on the money. A delightful read.

    • you are very kind

  • I’ll take either one, there are benefits to each.

    • very true

  • This is why I why i do not do casual sex, there is no freedom.

    • knowledge is power ;) nicely written !

    • thank you for your kind words

    • 🦋🦋🦋

  • This is so true in so many ways. Oh if more people understood this! Actual love making is so different than just sex.

    Making love is like opening your soul to that person, accepting every single everything of them while two become one... The oneness of knowing each other, oh the knowing is just too much to be explained. It's the highest high you can have when you're making sweet, blissful, unbridled, love. Dopamine levels through the roof!

    This take is such a great explanation!! Great job!!

    • thank you kindly

  • damn, that was intense. i've never had sex, and i'd never want to. making love is in the most positive connotation, the shit. the innumerable acts, waking up happy and closer only to want to go at it again especially lol. rather than feeling awkward about not waking up the other person to leave and never call back again it's infinitely more satisfying. to each their own, though ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ

    • it is a truly moving experience that you take to your grave with its memories

  • This explains why sex is usually better in a relationship.

    • very much so

  • Definitely a big difference. Although I've never "made love" I would love to one day... It would have to be with the right one of course

    • im sure you will, with the one

  • Great take! I totally agree with this and making love is just amazing takes you to another world 😍

    • thank you for the kind words

    • Welcome 🌹

  • Good take, seems to be a common question.

    • yes it certainly is

  • This is all very well said. I truly feel like I only made love with one guy, an ex. The sex was so different, hard to explain. Every touch gave me tingles it was like nothing I ever have experienced. I never felt that again in my life ever. It's a beautiful experience.

    • beautiful in a moving sense

  • Excellent Take.

    I particularly liked what you said about love being liberating. A lot of people don't get that.

    • love is liberation for all

  • I have no idea what this would be like and I think it exists for only a chosen few, but I love the fact that someone put it into words. Well written.

    • thank you kindly

  • Spot on.

    • thank you kindly

  • I’ve only had sex twice and was with the same guy in the same night. Was absolutely horrible!!!
    Hope it gets better. lol
    Looking forward to making love, not just 30 seconds of awkwardness.

    • i am sure you will find it

  • "An intuitive lifeblood where both sense the other at that moment and what they desire."

    This especially! Great myTake!

    • thanks for the nice feedback

  • I know the difference, and to me it's palpable, sort of obvious.
    I'm really into starting out making love (with that special someone), then, depending on the on-the-spot dynamic, perhaps switching over to fucking. IF you're in-the-know, then you know what I'm talking about. I can fuck, I can make love, and I can love/fuck. Fun fun fun

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