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Confessions of an Unbridled Nymphomaniac... Questions That May Never be Answered!

Confessions of an Unbridled Nymphomaniac... Questions That May Never be Answered!

Just wondering...

Is nymphomania a disease or a symptom of one? Why are orgasms so incredible that some of us become addicted to them? I mean, to the point of even doing the wildest things sexually that we may never do otherwise, while caught up in the psychotic whirlwind of erotic splendor. Is it unfair or are we considered lucky?...an addiction that takes over our entire body, mind and soul, leaving us, in many instances, out of control.

I know nymphomania is rare, but why does it take over the lives of those of us that have it? When I orgasm, I scream nearly at the top of my lungs, without refrain. My fingernails may puncture, pierce or even scratch until bleeding, those unlucky enough to have invaded my airspace and succumb to my embrace.

Confessions of an Unbridled Nymphomaniac... Questions That May Never be Answered!

How can I stop it?...or should I? When I am at work, all I can think about some days is having my next orgasm. Is that fair to me, or to anyone else that needs my undivided attention at the office? I practically run to my car when the workday is up. Usually, I go to exercise hard, physically, in the gym, and that takes my mind off of my desires temporarily, but when I get home, unless I'm too exhausted, I have to orgasm in some way, or another, and soon!...and usually, multiple times!

Is it even curable? Or, better yet, should it be cured? Or is every minute of unstoppable passion and every last drop of unencumbered lust to be enjoyed and coveted while it yet remains?

Confessions of an Unbridled Nymphomaniac... Questions That May Never be Answered!

Have I been so fully immersed in this addiction for so long that I may never rise back to the surface of normalcy? Or am I in an eternal place of nirvana and bliss to be envied? My consistent advice to everyone else is to love yourself for who you are. But does that advice apply to me in this situation, because that's who I am?

Am I being too open and honest, and unlatching the flood gates to a river of ridicule? Does anyone get it? Am I all alone? Just another isolated neurotic nympho? Or am I to succumb to my punishment now for my transgressions by being attacked as an offender of the refined, as I usually am, when I expose my heart on social media?

Will my questions ever find an answer?

...Just wondering?

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  • I have a constant craving for my guy (my boyfriend of 20+ years). Since November, we've been together every day. He has his own space and I have my own, but we'd take turns sleeping over in each other's place. He likes making love to me almost every night. Meanwhile, I must have "breakfast in bed" every morning. You might think I'm obsessed with him when I add that I want him throughout the day. If I can't hold myself, I pull out a "little toy" from my purse and insert it inside me when I can. So, go ahead and brand me obsessed as well. When he enters my house, I'm like a "puppy bundled with joy" who's so delighted that he's back. And, just like old-fashioned women do, I feed him a delicious dinner because "the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach!" When he's heart is happy, so is his 7.5" x 5.9" hot rod! Therefore, so will my pussy! I just want to keep having this everyday for the rest of our lives together! Is that a crime?

    • Wow, Ms DeeDee, I am so impressed with your writing. I can feel your sincerity and love for your boy. And he certainly does sound like a prize, indeed! I know this took you some time and effort for this quality of a reply and I don't want you to think that I take such a thing lightly. I am so thankful for your sharing... really! ... and wet too... lol

    • I'm very glad you shared your take! :) <3 :) <3 :) Thank you!!

    • He's not six inches wide, unless he's a fucking mutant. I'd like to see it. Could be Guinness book-worthy. Anyways, that's cool. I require something domestically similar, and there's probably nothing I'd rather be doing than being with someone I'm crazy about. Had it twice. Been eight years since the second one.

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  • Wow it sounds like you're constantly horny. It's okay though, I'm like that a lot too.

    • Yeah, me too

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  • I know what you're going through... the constant distraction of sex, or orgasming, or even just sexual pleasure... that pursuit that seems all important.

    Love the way you wrote this too

    • Thanks for mho 😀

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  • My thoughts on addiction, no matter if it is gambling, drugs, workaholic, sex, attention, cleaning, exercise, etc, (most anything can become an addiction):

    If it is to the point that it interferes with and damages a "normal" or balanced life, then the addiction is a problem. For example, drinking alcohol is not a problem. It becomes a problem if it causes you to lose your job, miss work, abuse your loved ones, lose other things like resources, your driver's license, friendships, your freedom (kill someone DUI, for example), etc.

    Same thing with nymphomania. With how much you enjoy sex, perhaps you can design your life in a way to maximize that enjoyment without damaging your life or the lives of those around you? Of course, if I were to take that advice and give it to an alcoholic, it would sound like bad advice. The good advice for alcoholics is stop asap and don't start again. It's just to risky to ride that tiger. I had a nicotine addiction for over 10 years. I'll just say I still have it, even though I don't crave nicotine at all anymore and haven't used it for years, it's just too dangerous for me to even think of lighting up a cigarette or cigar on some drunk celebratory night. I never want to use again.

    Sex is different though. Sex is (IMHO) part of a healthy human life. We are sexually reproducing creatures, and so much of our lives is built around sex. So I would treat it much like a food addiction, since food is also an aspect of our lives that has a place in a healthy, balanced, life. Knowing you have a weakness for sex/food, I suggest paying particular attention to what you "eat", how much, when, etc. Navigate and plan for yourself a healthy, optimal "diet". Once you have balance, you will have to figure out for yourself if you can splurge every once in a while (like a gang bang now and again) without creating a slippery slope that leads to binge-behavior.

    • I would add, nymphomania I believe is classified as a neurological disorder.

  • Nymphomania is sex addiction for females, and it means a person who has such a strong desire for sex that they'll have it despite even serious consequences (loss of job/income, loss of friends, etc.) and will have sex with others if their partner isn't available or willing/able to when they want sex. They may even have sex with people they aren't attracted to just to satisfy their needs.

    I'm not sure you reach the level of that - it doesn't sound like it based on what you've written. Clearly, though, you have a very high libido. In my experience, that's not uncommon for women who are in a secure and trusting relationship, as this tends to unleash a woman's libido, but you're probably on the high end of that.

  • Just my two cents but my take is that this is a roller coaster so enjoy the highs while you can

    • AGREE!

  • If I drink tequilla then I think I might be that-you just let lose and I don't seem to have any inhibitions-I am drunk but I still know right from wrong but I want to try things

  • Nymphomania is no longer the term used. It's called sex addiction.

    It is up to you if you think your sex conduct is having a negative impact in your life. Just being preoccupied with sex doesn't necessarily mean you are a sex addict.

    If you're concerned, you can look for a 12 Step group in your are such as Sex Addicts Anonymous, Sexual Compulsives Anonymous, Sex and Love Addict Anonymous, or speak to a mental health counselor.

    • its all here say l think

    • @BOUNTYGUY9 What is? That sex-addiction is hearsay?

    • l wonder is that not normal for some humans l can do it 7times in a day is that not normal l thought it was no girls complain about it but l must admit that my penis does get soar and red looking

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  • I envy you on your erotic journey.

  • Your openness and honesty is appreciated, Laurie. Nothing to be ashamed of.

    It sounds to me like you just have a strong libido and are fortunate to have a responsive body.

    There's nothing wrong with the enjoyment of sex. It's the most pleasurable thing we can experience. And it's contained within our own bodies. It's not like the kind of thrill we can seek from external stimuli. Although it is most amazing when someone else is involved.

    All of my girlfriends were sexual, compliant and eager, but only one was like you. First, she matched my physical ideal. But from seeing her in public, one would think she was modest and never imagine the beast within.

    The first time she invited me into her rented house, she did things to me that I had never experienced. It was a very long foreplay for my benefit. She intuitively knew what to do because she knew what felt good to her. That right there is a gift.

    Once we started dating exclusively,, although I kept my own apartment, I virtually lived with her. It turned out that she was, what I would call, hypersexual. I wouldn't say nymphomaniac because she was loyal and her sexuality didn't interfere with her job or anything.

    However, even though we both worked full time, we had sex at least two or three times a day, and sometimes for hours at a time without pause. I never knew a woman like that. Because of her looks, sounds, movements, enthusiasm and encouragement, I could cum inside her and keep going. I'd just slow down for a few moments until the sensitivity in my tip dissipated, and then pick up the pace. I could cum 4, 5 or 6 times that way over the course of hours. One time when were done, I realized that we had been at it for nine straight hours. I didn't even know that was possible.

    When I say encouragement, I mean dirty talk. When she told me what my cock felt like inside her, or how much she loved my cock, or to fuck her harder or pull her hair or slap her ass, it drove me wild.

    She could orgasm quickly and repeatedly. I could even make her orgasm by playing with her tits and sucking her nipples. And, strangely enough, she didn't even care that much about cunnilingus. She just wanted cock.

    She never hesitated to grant me a quicky when I desired because she loved the feeling of cock and wanted to please me. In fact, quickies turned her on. We even did them a few times in semi-public places just to get our rocks off.

    She gave inspired BJs, of course, and swallowed hungrily like a boss.

    Early on, I found her vibrating dildo and she admitted that she masturbated when I wasn't around. I don't even know how she found the time. But my admiration for her libido only increased. I even got the idea of sticking it in her ass when I was fucking her doggy style. Neither of us had ever experience that, but it made her cum like she was possessed, and when I came, I thought I would blow a hole in her. We wound up doing that regularly.

    I also asked her to masturbate in front of me one time. That was super hot and fucked her afterwards.

    After the dildo experience, I fucked her in the ass one time just to see what it was like. She had a very pretty butt hole. I'm not sure if she had ever done anal before, but she took it like a champ. I'm don't have an anal fetish and she didn't ask for it again, so that was the last time. I much prefer clean, pink, juicy wet, responsive pussy.

    She was a treasure beyond compare. I'm not what I would call hypersexual although I love it and think about it a lot. It was she who inspired me.

    So I think you are a very lucky woman, Laurie. And your partner is a lucky man.

    • Yes, I have a chest full of toys that are also nice at times during sexual pleasures. Thank you for sharing that story Mr lliam, I loved it!

    • De nada. :-)

  • Nymphomania is an extremely controversial diagnosis and most psychiatrists today would not diagnose someone with it. Some mental illnesses and personality disorders do manifest themselves with risky sexual behaviour but it tends to be a symptom of a much bigger problem rather then an illness itself. There is nothing special about sex or an orgasm that makes people addicted to it, humans can become addicted to a whole host of behaviours ranging from the understandable to the downright absurd. The problem is that actual sex addiction and pop culture sex addiction are two very different things. Sex addiction isn't Tiger Woods cheating on his wife. Sex addiction is the compulsive need to have sex at the risk of everything else. You are no longer able to function on the same level. A sex addict doesn't just cheat on their partner, a sex addict skips work to have sex, a sex addict stops doing other things they enjoy just to have sex. A sex addicts entire world revolves around finding someone to have sex with, at the detriment to everything else.

    • What a great reply Ms Coralee! Thank you so much for sharing with such educated insight :) Many of the sex addiction descriptions you espouse I do have and have acted in the those manners at times, but not always in those extremes. Luckily I work in daddy's office and can get away with tastiness or absence at times but not always without a scolding... lol

    • tardiness not tastiness... lol

    • l am normal glad not to be like that

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  • Prove it?

  • I think it is a health issue. It may can be cured with therapy. I don't know. I know I don't have it. Now money on the other hand. What do you call that? Power hungry? Is there a cure for that?

  • Don’t be ashamed. Orgasms are great! As long as it’s not hurting anyone, I think it’s fine.

  • I feel this. There are groups you can check out. There like 12 steps just like AA/NA. There’s more to like than sex. I want a balanced life. I’ve been addicted to dating apps and hookups for years. And I have dated 2 abusive men. Other than that I sext all the time. Or masterbate. I have to masterbate everyday. But my last relationship he was a jerk and a sex addict big time way worse than me. That made me want to change!! There’s so much more to life than sex. Hope this helps

    • I am so sorry that has happened to you :( But I am happy that you are feeling better about your direction in life now!

  • I thought nymphomania was defined as the constant urge to have sex, but not experience any pleasure from it whatsoever. At least that's what they said in The Big Lebowsky..

    But anyway, there are far worse things to be addicted to. Sex can be beneficial to everyone involved, unlike (for example) cigarettes. Plus, as a girl, you basically are assured and endless supply of random guys who will do unspeakable things to you pretty much on request. A guy with a sex addiction gets little sympathy and even less 'satisfaction,' but attractive girls have no real reason to deny themselves sexual pleasure as often as time allows.

  • A lot of women would secretly envy you.

    • Thank you Ms T, you are so sweet again!

    • This here, is gold.

  • Are you really a nympho though? This all sounds pretty normal to me. No, I don't think you are being TMI. I understand what you're talking about. Unless it gets in the way of you keeping a job/doing tasks of daily living you should be a-ok!

  • Here’s how I see nymphomania.
    If the constant urges and sexual contact, the orgasms and pleasures, are what interest you than do as thou wilt. I will never, ever disparage someone who engages in sexuality with a willing partner (s). If you want to have sex with 200 guys in a year, or have sex with 20 people in one sitting, I support you and your choices. It’s your body, life and choices.

    If it isn’t what you want, then I’ll try to help you the best I can. I don’t judge.

  • I wonder if it is just an excuse for somebody to cheat on their partner.

  • Now I wish I had that lol

  • it's just what happens when you stop restraining your animal desires. Thing is, we only have civilization because we all restrain our animal desires. Go live on some hippy commune where everyone fucks and does drugs all day or be a part of society and try to sow some seeds instead of just reap harvest all day

  • Writing a book? Seems like more of a literary experiment. [shrug]
    You're short on credibility. LOL

    • My last paragraph acknowledged my expectation of your comment Mr Brown. I have received your level of hatred and animosity in the past as well. It still makes me very sad though.

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